Masterbation/Porn

[mhowe]

Yeah...but she is very relaxed!

[pippy longstocking]

Yeah...but she is very relaxed!

 

 

I am going to be honest with you ...I am that relaxed my face is getting closer to the keyboard , so I am going to wish you lovely ladies goodnight from the uk x

[ParisPaulette]

Well unless he's doing it so much that he has no energy or time left over for you I see zero wrong with masturbation in or out of a relationship. And yes, those other guys were lying to you, likely because you bought it up in the first place since most people won't discuss that any more than they'll talk about what comes out of their teeth when they brush and floss. Or maybe that's just me...

 

Erm, unless you're ready able and willing at all times to tear each other's clothes off at the drop of a pin then I think masturbating is actually a good thing. So much better to quietly take the edge off one's libido until you can both devote more time and energy in privacy. Seriously maybe you could share the experience and learn a bit about it yourself to get a better understanding and use it to grow closer? I never thought of it as taking something away, it's just one more expression of sexuality.

 

And shooting star I nearly choked on my wine over your comments about the unicorn. LOL

[tjcalif]

This is so funny.. OP What are you thinking being upset your boyfriend masterbates? You must not a boyfriend cause you are gonna have a hard time finding one who will agree to your terms! And those exes of your have staright up lied to you. Come on.. My take on this is this is your ego and you think that you are that special to them all that they had no need to masterbate.. That is how I seen it sorry if I was harsh.

[Unreasonable]

I always started every first date with "Just so you know, i masturbate. A lot." You see, this goes over REAL well with the ladies. I'm kind of surprised your old boyfriends didn't use that line on you, even if they didn't do it, just because it is so impressive, uncommon, interesting, and TOTALLY your business.

[superfan]

OP, no offense but if you really believe that your past boyfriend have NEVER masturbated then you are very naive.

 

Men masturbate in relationships and out of relationships. It's a natural part of biology.

 

Guess what - so do women.

 

I am married and both my husband and I masturbate on occasion. It has NOTHING to do with not desiring your partner.

[greywolf]

Every guy I have been in a relationship with has not had the need or desire to do this.

 

Every guy you have been with has lied to you.