BriarRose Posted February 15, 2011 Author Share Posted February 15, 2011 Was he calling to make up? I know that looks are a very big deal for women, they are a big thing for guys too but i think we generally dont worry about it to the same degree. I understand why that made you feel bad when you sent the pics and got no return, just take the positive that the guy would appear not to be worth your time anyway. Thanks - I have accepted it (it's not like there is a choice, right?), it just still puzzles me as to why he started calling again after that. I had resigned myself to the fact that he just didn't care for the new pics. He's so weird - 3 weeks before that, says he thinks he can "fall deeply in love with me", then "I can't give you hope anymore". Weirdo... Link to comment
sjjohnson89 Posted February 15, 2011 Share Posted February 15, 2011 Thanks - I have accepted it (it's not like there is a choice, right?), it just still puzzles me as to why he started calling again after that. I had resigned myself to the fact that he just didn't care for the new pics. He's so weird - 3 weeks before that, says he thinks he can "fall deeply in love with me", then "I can't give you hope anymore". Weirdo... Sounds like a waste of space BriarRose, youll find someone better than him. Link to comment
BriarRose Posted February 15, 2011 Author Share Posted February 15, 2011 Sounds like a waste of space BriarRose, youll find someone better than him. Even if I don't, I'm still better off. He is the kind of guy that will drop his next gf (or wife) like a hot rock if she gets sick. Link to comment
sjjohnson89 Posted February 15, 2011 Share Posted February 15, 2011 Even if I don't, I'm still better off. He is the kind of guy that will drop his next gf (or wife) like a hot rock if she gets sick. Exactly, but i think you will find someone better. Link to comment
Yaz Posted February 15, 2011 Share Posted February 15, 2011 Even if I don't, I'm still better off. He is the kind of guy that will drop his next gf (or wife) like a hot rock if she gets sick. I'd rather be alone. He sounds like a tool that hasn't grown up - reminds me a of a 14 year old boy who dumps his girlfriend for wearing the wrong colour top (happened to a friend in high school). How stupid. Link to comment
BriarRose Posted February 15, 2011 Author Share Posted February 15, 2011 I mean, what did he expect me to look like after surgery, chemo and radiation? Megan Fox? Link to comment
Yaz Posted February 15, 2011 Share Posted February 15, 2011 I mean, what did he expect me to look like after surgery, chemo and radiation? Megan Fox? Probably. But men like that expect not to be offended by people over the age of about 25, or anyone who doesn't smack a little of Megan Fox - in looks or behaviour. Strutting sexuality and confidence wise. As if I would disrespect myself like that. Someone should tell those types of guys that old people and ugly people have sex, too. They'd likely die of shock, then everyone's problems would disappear! Link to comment
sjjohnson89 Posted February 15, 2011 Share Posted February 15, 2011 I mean, what did he expect me to look like after surgery, chemo and radiation? Megan Fox? lol. I think Yaz is right, hes immature and has no depth to do something like that, hes not in secondary school anymore, he should grow up. Link to comment
BriarRose Posted February 15, 2011 Author Share Posted February 15, 2011 Probably. But men like that expect not to be offended by people over the age of about 25, or anyone who doesn't smack a little of Megan Fox - in looks or behaviour. Strutting sexuality and confidence wise. As if I would disrespect myself like that. Someone should tell those types of guys that old people and ugly people have sex, too. They'd likely die of shock, then everyone's problems would disappear! He's 53, lol! But a young 53. But age doesn't matter - not every guy dumps someone just because they get an illness. He is just a shallow person. Link to comment
superfox Posted February 15, 2011 Share Posted February 15, 2011 He's 53, lol! But a young 53. But age doesn't matter - not every guy dumps someone just because they get an illness. He is just a shallow person. He is! And you're better off without him, easy to say, hard to do. I lost a friend of mine 2 years ago to breast cancer, she was 38. She put on weight because of the steroids, went crazy due to more drugs, lost a breast, it was heartbreaking. Her husband never saw her but the woman he married and fell in love with. Link to comment
Yaz Posted February 16, 2011 Share Posted February 16, 2011 He's 53, lol! But a young 53. But age doesn't matter - not every guy dumps someone just because they get an illness. He is just a shallow person. Immature. Some people never grow up. Link to comment
sjjohnson89 Posted February 16, 2011 Share Posted February 16, 2011 Immature. Some people never grow up. True. Im might be one of those myself, good job i am at least a deep and unshallow person. Link to comment
BriarRose Posted February 16, 2011 Author Share Posted February 16, 2011 He is! And you're better off without him, easy to say, hard to do. I lost a friend of mine 2 years ago to breast cancer, she was 38. She put on weight because of the steroids, went crazy due to more drugs, lost a breast, it was heartbreaking. Her husband never saw her but the woman he married and fell in love with. Yeah, and it's not like I even had any of those things. I just have funky hair and look a little tired. I knew they weren't great photos, but I didn't think they would make him not want to see me anymore. Link to comment
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