jamiec3 Posted October 15, 2008 Share Posted October 15, 2008 I know there have been a bunch of topics like this, but the girls don't reply much to them and it'd be nice to have a girls input..... When you are making out with a guy and you feel a boner does it make you think "eww thats nasty" or do you like it?? These examples are just general, if you could explain more thatd be great. Um usually if im kissing a guy in public then I would say keep the boy down "easy there" but if we are at home or in priavte... then yeah its a turn on. It lets me know he is attracted to me and that I turn him on, which in return turns me on. Link to comment
lumu Posted October 22, 2008 Share Posted October 22, 2008 Love feeling a guy getting hard over me kissing him. Such a turn on to know how much he wants me. Even better if he presses it against me and says he wants me so bad while kissing my ear ... purrrrrr Link to comment
TBE_1989 Posted November 9, 2008 Share Posted November 9, 2008 I think it's hot, too! Although it can be a bit embarrassing if it happens in public Link to comment
Lusif Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Yeah, I find it really sexy, definitely. Link to comment
Mavh25 Posted November 20, 2008 Share Posted November 20, 2008 Whats an erection?! lolol If a guy did that I'd be chuffed =) chuffed = English for happy lol Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted November 23, 2008 Share Posted November 23, 2008 Whats an erection?! lolol If a guy did that I'd be chuffed =) chuffed = English for happy lol Grrr you are so funny! How are you hon? Haven't seen you for ages! How's married life? Link to comment
secretness87 Posted November 23, 2008 Share Posted November 23, 2008 I know there have been a bunch of topics like this, but the girls don't reply much to them and it'd be nice to have a girls input..... When you are making out with a guy and you feel a boner does it make you think "eww thats nasty" or do you like it?? These examples are just general, if you could explain more thatd be great. The first time I felt my boyfriend's boner while we were making out, he pointed it out himself and he was like, "sorry for my little friend.." haha. He said he was embarrassed, but then I also told him I was embarrassed too, probably because I gave him one lol. But yeah.. it's nothing to us now.. he always gets one when we make out and we just got used to it. And to drive him more insane, I like to get on top and grind myself on him when we make out lol. Link to comment
hodgo Posted November 24, 2008 Share Posted November 24, 2008 how can u not take that as a compliment? i love it and it turns me on more. Link to comment
hiphop3 Posted November 24, 2008 Share Posted November 24, 2008 haha i don't mind at all. if he gets a boner, it means i'm doing something right. nice for the self esteem Link to comment
ljoy74 Posted November 24, 2008 Share Posted November 24, 2008 LOL. This is just a funny phrased topic. I like it, obviously we're doing something right together! Link to comment
wmped Posted December 9, 2008 Share Posted December 9, 2008 whoah wait. Do guys actually get boners when they kiss a girl they like? Like, is that natural with all guys or something? O__O I...never...knew... Lol. Hell things get a little stiff down south when some of us are just in the general vicinity that special lady let alone the actual kiss. Some guys just have a big sex drive and some don't. I'm sure the ladies are the same! Link to comment
beautyqueen6 Posted December 22, 2008 Share Posted December 22, 2008 i guess it just means he cant help it ahaha Link to comment
yeawutever Posted December 22, 2008 Share Posted December 22, 2008 Wow, this thread keeps on going, and it has been like what, 4 yrs. old already, LOL!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 i like how when this happens, the girl's hand seems to go into my pants. Link to comment
grozet Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 it's just.. it's gets me time to be comfortable in so close situation. to realize it's happening makes me a bit shy, but more like thinking that "i'm getting hot too.. what if i would do something embarrassing?" like once when i was kissing with my ex bf and i was on the top, my boobs where almost out of my bra and it took much time for me to realize it. he liked it, i'm sure, but i was like "no no no.. i'll wear polo next time!" Link to comment
waveseer Posted December 23, 2008 Share Posted December 23, 2008 There are times when a kiss is just a kiss, and then there are times when... Link to comment
sHiNiNgxStAr Posted March 6, 2009 Share Posted March 6, 2009 hmm, its hard to say.... I would be a little weirded out at first but then I would think in my brain - Oh he is truly attracted to me. I would stop kissing if that happened because I would know how far he would like to take it and I might not be ready for that, so that could pause me. Link to comment
anggrace Posted March 7, 2009 Share Posted March 7, 2009 If it's my husband (or in the past bf), I love it. If it was a guy I was dating or just getting to know, It wouldn't bother me, it would flatter me accually if I accidentaly noticed... BUT if he tried to get it all up on me to let me know he had it, that's another story. It's intrusive an dumb to assume Im okay with feeling it on me when we are just getting to know eachother. Link to comment
jordg1 Posted March 22, 2009 Share Posted March 22, 2009 Ok, ive been reading all this, and its really encouraging to know that getting an erection isn't as freaky for the girl as the guy. but kind of along the same subject(yet not), what about the random erections? I dont know if this has been discussed or not(just joined to post in this thread), but-i kid u not-erections happen(at least to me, and i hope to others so im not just a freak) at totally random times. Most often for me, ill be sitting in one of my computer classes at school...yeah. basically, nothin has happened to validate it, but i end up lowering my chair a bit and sliding as close to the desk as i can. whoo, random stuff as fast as its coming to me....... uhm it happens to me all the time!!!and im 13 so your not alone...and i just talked to my gf about it tonight and she is 12(turning 13 really soon)and she said she wouldnt mind...and unlike other people that have replied these boners are totally random!!!...i could just be walking down the the hallway on my way to a class and its like there...and i know you may have posted that question a while ago but it was bugging me. Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted March 24, 2009 Share Posted March 24, 2009 and unlike other people that have replied these boners are totally random!!. Welcome to puberty lol... Link to comment
shadesofmediocrity Posted March 25, 2009 Share Posted March 25, 2009 This thread is almost 5 years old.... Link to comment
Dragunov-21 Posted March 26, 2009 Share Posted March 26, 2009 Yeah, but it's the kissing forum, with a grand total of like, 15 threads lol. Looking at it though, it doesn't seem to be thread necromancy, just a thread that went on for a LONG time lol... Link to comment
Xuul Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 umm.... if a woman is offended by a man getting a boner during a make out session, she's probably playing for the wrong team and seriously needs to reconsider her sexuality. I mean.... it's not like I've ever said "You're Wet...where?!! Oh GROSS!! What the crap?!" Knowing that you are arousing the person you are into is an amazing feeling that can transcend the physical. And as an FYI for the ladies that were wondering if it's abnormal for a guy to NOT become aroused while kissing you, there are a couple of very normal reasons this can happen. 1. Nerves - usually if I'm nervous/anxious about this, even in a good way, I find that I'm not... how shall I say.... "experiencing an engorged penile man part". 2. Too much Alcohol - and it's frustrating as all hell. I think this is God's sick joke to humanity; create a substance that makes you easily aroused, and at the same time it kills your equipment. That's just mean. 3. He's not into you - possible, but why would he kiss you like that then? 4. He's homosexual - ashamed of it, so he's really trying to enjoy it. Just won't happen though. Hope that info helps.....somebody. To the OP.... dude..... did this happen to you? Were you making out with someone and they freaked out because you were "stimulated"? I mean, what in the hell spawned this question? I thought it was pretty common knowledge to women that it's a good thing... should be taken as a complement if nothing else. Link to comment
discombobulate Posted April 6, 2009 Share Posted April 6, 2009 if he DOESNT get one then i would be concerned, as long as he has one i am doing my job!! wink wink Link to comment
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