found a condom in his wallet. help

[Unreasonable]

Even if he hasn't cheated, it looks like he would take the opportunity if it was presented to him.

 

What I want to know is, what idiot does that kind of *beep*?

 

Aside from his nefarious intentions, your BF is effing stupid as well.

[HeartGoesOn]

To be honest.. I've never cheated in ANY relationship.. And I've been in some where we have moved past condoms.. I ALWAYS liked to keep a condom on me regardless. Its like a mans wallet and ID. Its vital. What if his buddy needs one? What if he needs to make a ballon out of one while hes drunk? What if he DOES make a mistake and needs protection? What if.. Theres tons of what ifs.. I think its responsible for guys to always have a condom.. Maybe he just likes to spank off into them, who knows. But its responsible to have.. Doesnt mean hes cheating..

 

These are all common excuses that a person who is cheating will use. The bottom line is he had no explanation for having that condom in his wallet, which is not acceptable for a man that is in a 5 year committed relationship.

[guynextdoor]

Coming from a man if I'm in a committed relationship and we are not using condoms there is no reason why I would/should keep a condom in my wallet. I like to keep my wallet simple as possible. No coupons, no business cards, etc. "Just because" is an answer I hear from a toddler not a grown man.