Panther_Dude Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 I rather not have sex with a virgin (woman) because of the bleeding. Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 There's nothing wrong with that, it's just your preference. Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 There's nothing wrong with that, it's just your preference. Yup. Just slightly amusing. Link to comment
HelloKitty10 Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 plus u don't want to deal with the emotional crap afterwards Link to comment
simply complicated Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 Ya the blood thing can be a big turn off, but what would you do if you got involved in a relationship, fell in love, then she broke the news to you that you would be her first, what then? Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 i didn't bleed. hah. but ya, i know lots of people who gets turned off by this. Link to comment
Panther_Dude Posted November 2, 2009 Author Share Posted November 2, 2009 Ya the blood thing can be a big turn off, but what would you do if you got involved in a relationship, fell in love, then she broke the news to you that you would be her first, what then? Guess we either do it in shower or take a shower together afterwards. Also doesn't it hurt for women the first time? Link to comment
pinkelephant Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 it hurts me still, almost everytime and i'm not a virgin. LOL you're overthinking it. it's a non issue thing. have you even had sex with a virgin? Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 Condoms are helpful against bleeding, and its really not like tonnes of blood. Link to comment
Panther_Dude Posted November 2, 2009 Author Share Posted November 2, 2009 it hurts me still, almost everytime and i'm not a virgin. LOL you're overthinking it. it's a non issue thing. have you even had sex with a virgin? Nah, I'm a virgin at 22. Link to comment
waveseer Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 So, what will you do when your partner gets her period during sex even if she isn't a virgin? Will you dump her? Link to comment
Panther_Dude Posted November 2, 2009 Author Share Posted November 2, 2009 So, what will you do when your partner gets her period during sex even if she isn't a virgin? Will you dump her? You don't have to have sex when she's on the period. I could pull a douche, and say 'Whoops, I think I came too hard.' Link to comment
whes Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she will bleed. If she is aroused, properly lubricated, and you warm her up and don't try to push in before her body and her are ready, then she probably won't bleed. Link to comment
waveseer Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 You don't have to have sex when she's on the period. I could pull a douche, and say 'Whoops, I think I came too hard.' You might not know she's about to get her period when you begin having sex. Why not think of a virgin as a girl who might get her period as a result of sex? I'm pretty sure it's not the blood you have a problem with, you might want to think about that. Link to comment
NowandZen Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 Ok, unless you accept people for who they are, whatever that is, your relationships are doomed to failure. If you find someone who comes ready-made EXACTLY as you want them, let me know. Link to comment
Panther_Dude Posted November 2, 2009 Author Share Posted November 2, 2009 just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she will bleed. If she is aroused, properly lubricated, and you warm her up and don't try to push in before her body and her are ready, then she probably won't bleed. How do women get lubed up? And before you ask, I raw dog it when jacking off. Never have used any lube in my life. Link to comment
whes Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 If she is aroused, like if you've been kissing a lot, or there's been some foreplay, then her vagina will secrete a natural lubricant. If she is nervous or you're going straight in without anything, she'll be dry, and then it will hurt. You can also buy lube at any drugstore. It's most important on the outside of her vagina, on the labia and the clit. Link to comment
Lucius Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 I don't think you're being shallow, precisely, but I do think you're being a little silly. But that's okay. Who you want to have sex with is entirely up to you. Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 I dunno, dude...that's like me saying I would never have sex with a guy who's a virgin because he might orgasm too quickly. Lame. A little education might help as well...not ALL women bleed their first time (I didn't until later in the night, and it was a teeny tiny little droplet). And not all women feel pain the first time. And yes, many women start their periods in the middle of sex. In fact, a woman's period is often prompted by sexual activity. No matter what you do, I guarantee you won't be able to 100% avoid blood being combined with sex at some point in your life. Plus, if you're having sex with a girl for the first time you'll (hopefully!) be wearing a condom. It's not like the blood would be touching you. Link to comment
butterfly07 Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 just your preference is all Link to comment
annie24 Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 do you faint at the sight of blood? Link to comment
Panther_Dude Posted November 2, 2009 Author Share Posted November 2, 2009 do you faint at the sight of blood? Only if I go down on a woman and she doesn't inform me she's on her peroid at the time. Link to comment
annie24 Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 lol, i wouldn't call you exactly a virgin. look - it depends on her experience. many women finger themselves or use a vibrator so you may not even hurt her at all! or have any blood. just depends on her experiences. Link to comment
Panther_Dude Posted November 2, 2009 Author Share Posted November 2, 2009 lol, i wouldn't call you exactly a virgin. look - it depends on her experience. many women finger themselves or use a vibrator so you may not even hurt her at all! or have any blood. just depends on her experiences. Oh, I am. But I've seen stuff, heard stuff, and have a dirty mind. Just never done anything with a woman. Link to comment
pinkrobot Posted November 2, 2009 Share Posted November 2, 2009 Oh, I am. But I've seen stuff, heard stuff, and have a dirty mind. Just never done anything with a woman. Then how would you know you'd faint at the surprise sight of period blood? If you can't handle blood coming from a woman's vagina, you shouldn't be having sex. You can choose to not have sex with a woman who's on her period (plenty of men are like that), but if you're afraid of sleeping with a virgin based on the fact that she MAY bleed, it just seems a little immature to me. Link to comment
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