Roscoe Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Sports. But i'm unathletic and clumsy. So I just watch them. Yea....but if they only wanted to be friends, that could ruin it. I've only had one female who was a female friend. Or atleast close to it. And that ended when she moved away when I was 9. Don't give and don't ever stop believing in your self. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 I agree with you. I'm not into parties either. I was as a teenager, but it's not my scene anymore. I remember kids talking about going to parites as a kid. I never knew where they were at. Not that I would have been welcomed anyways. lol As Suzy suggested, you should try to do something your interested in and find girls that way. Maybe I should go to a porn convention? j/k. Link to comment
NightLily Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Sports. But i'm unathletic and clumsy. So I just watch them. Yea....but if they only wanted to be friends, that could ruin it. I've only had one female who was a female friend. Or atleast close to it. And that ended when she moved away when I was 9. If you like a particular team there are bars that will be like a Steelers bar for example and you can go watch the game there. It doesn't matter if you don't drink. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 If you like a particular team there are bars that will be like a Steelers bar for example and you can go watch the game there. It doesn't matter if you don't drink. I doubt their are bars for teams where I am at. That and I really don't like to be around drinking. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 If you like a particular team there are bars that will be like a Steelers bar for example and you can go watch the game there. It doesn't matter if you don't drink. Exactly what I was thinking. I hate it when people suggest it to me, but maybe get a new hobby too. There's no harm in joining a mixed sporting team for fun. By exercising you can actually improve your coordination. Link to comment
NightLily Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Then go to sporting events? You could try looking at link removed. There has to be some sports watching club that you could be a part of. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Exactly what I was thinking. I hate it when people suggest it to me, but maybe get a new hobby too. There's no harm in joining a mixed sporting team for fun. By exercising you can actually improve your coordination. I don't live in a big city or anything. I really don't think there are mixed sports teams out where I am at. Which is in them middle of nowhere. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Then go to sporting events? You could try looking at link removed. There has to be some sports watching club that you could be a part of. I doubt i'd could get a girl at a baseball game. Those chicks are usually there with their boyfriends or husbands. Link to comment
NightLily Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Well I'd say look up the site and check it out before you write it off. You are still really young and I know plenty of painfully attractive men who are older than you but virgins. Link to comment
Roscoe Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Well I'd say look up the site and check it out before you write it off. You are still really young and I know plenty of painfully attractive men who are older than you but virgins. I'm sure there are...what have you got to lose buddy? Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Well I'd say look up the site and check it out before you write it off. You are still really young and I know plenty of painfully attractive men who are older than you but virgins. I doubt really good looking guys would have much trouble getting action. Why would they be virgins? Social anxiety disorder? Born again? Asexual? Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 what have you got to lose buddy? Hopefully m v-card. I dispise it. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Johnny, you're having very self-defeating thoughts. You seem to keep picking reasons why you can't do this or that. It's like you're somehow getting satisfaction by putting it out of your own control. I can guarantee that there is at least one girl in Memphis that would date you or at least show you her boobs. It is up to you to find her. You need a "can do" attitude. Stop holding yourself back. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Johnny, you're having very self-defeating thoughts. You seem to keep picking reasons why you can't do this or that. It's like you're somehow getting satisfaction by putting it out of your own control. I don't get any satisfaction of it it. I've just never been given a reason to think otherwise. I can guarantee that there is at least one girl in Memphis that would date you or at least show you her boobs. It is up to you to find her. You need a "can do" attitude. Stop holding yourself back. Yea...but it might be like finding a needle in a haystack. It's not like I haven't tried. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Yea...but it might be like finding a needle in a haystack. Keep weeding though that haystack. That damn needle is there somewhere Link to comment
KG Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 The real number would be the number of sex partners, no matter what the feelings. Within them are the categories, sex for love, one night stand, FB/FWB...all of those add up to a total number which is the real number. Once a person has sex with someone the deed is done and it counts as a number no matter what the feelings are. I understand that. I was pointing out that now that I'm older, the "numbers" are just that. It was the meaningful ones that I reflect upon now. Methinks you drag the "soapbox" out a bit too often. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 2, 2009 Share Posted May 2, 2009 Keep weeding though that haystack. That damn needle is there somewhere I perfer to think I already have the needle......I just so happen to be looking for a haystack to put it into to. And i'm still looking, it's just depressing that i'm getting a little older and have nothing to show for it. Everyone likes experiences. And I have none. That and i'm approaching an age where it seems most females want a guy that knows what he's doing. Not someone with the experience of a 12 year old. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 I perfer to think I already have the needle......I just so happen to be looking for a haystack to put it into to. I think it's the size imagery there, but that's kind of disturbing. You'll get there. Link to comment
Roscoe Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 I think it's the size imagery there, but that's kind of disturbing. You'll get there. Being well endowed is not all it's cracked up to be... Link to comment
dragon lady Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 Being well endowed is not all it's cracked up to be... I was thinking more along the lines of the "well endowed" haystack. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 That comment had nothing to do with my wang size. And LOL@ Well endowed haystack. I'm now envisioning hotdogs and hallways. Dunno why. Link to comment
Rose21 Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 I'll be 20 in a month. And 2 guys. One of which I've been with for 15 months now. Link to comment
MattW Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 Heh, I can kinda see where jonny15 is coming from; I mean, I am pretty much in the same boat, after all. Well, I'm not THAT concerned with losing my virginity, so much as I am with finding a girl I care a lot about. So far in my twenty years of life, I've met one, yes, ONE girl that I've had romantic feelings for (and boy, have I had it bad for her, for years now). Heck, I STILL think about her quite a lot, even though I'll probably never get to be with her. The longer I seem to go with not finding another girl, the more I seem to look back and think of her. Anyway, though, I'm aware that a lot of the blame on my "inexperience" falls on me. I'm fairly introverted (not so much "shy", but actually introverted), I don't do a lot of socializing, I don't get out as much as some one my age typically does. I don't even have a steady group of "friends"; of course, that's mostly because of a horrible hellacious experience I had in high school that's pretty much killed any interest I have in forging friendships. Aside from work and classes, most of my free time is spent indulging in hobbies that just aren't very sociable hobbies. I'd search for a new hobby, but I have trouble getting myself to get interested in new things, and I especially struggle with pushing myself out of my comfort zone. Still, as much of an introvert as I am, I can't help but long for that kind of intimate (not just physical, but mentally/ emotionally) relationship. I guess whether or not I ever find it remains to be seen. Link to comment
crazy09 Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 29 and two, and the second is who I get to spend the rest of my life with =) Link to comment
AlexL Posted May 3, 2009 Share Posted May 3, 2009 18 and zero seriosuly i'm I the only good girl around here?? Link to comment
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