Tethys Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 When it comes to a gradation scale like that, I'm out! Link to comment
dragon lady Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 More like that for me. I think I maybe have 4 graduations. But this 9/10 vs 10/10 stuff seems a bit too micro for me. I think maybe with such rankings were are not seeing the forest for all the trees. Sorry, that was meant to be: 1 5 10 Link to comment
Ac143 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Why? besides, i actually can't comment on this because the total package fell into my lap 5 months ago. Me too, but it was 3yrs ago. If you can find 10/10 for both (in your eyes), keep'em! But as for the poll, I would go lower on the looks then personality too. Heck - my SO is hot, but Im sure he wont be smokin hot in 30yrs lol but his great personality will hopefully still be there Link to comment
ProtestTheHero Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I chase women whose first name starts with a T. That's really my biggest criteria, because then Tyler and T_____ will roll off the tongue. In all honesty, I have no idea. I date who I like, and normally the ones I like are the most fun to be around...so personality is great. If it's all looks, hell, I have the internet. You can't possibly impress me anymore. I've been told I'm around pi multiplied by two, which is like...6.28 or so. In other words I'm a qt pi. Possibly the gayest post I've written. Link to comment
NightLily Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I'm gonna have to side with paintedfish on this one. Personality is always gonna win out over looks with me. I would much rather date Drew Carey than one of those guys from the Hills. This might be hard for me to turn down though: Link to comment
melrich Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I've been told I'm around pi multiplied by two, which is like...6.28 or so. In other words I'm a qt pi. LOL....gay but funny. Link to comment
EQD Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I'm gonna have to side with paintedfish on this one. Personality is always gonna win out over looks with me. I would much rather date Drew Carey than one of those guys from the Hills. This might be hard for me to turn down though: I could turn that down. which is another thing, perception is crucial. that guy is a 5 to me. Link to comment
grymoire Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Same as me. I'd even rather 4/10 looks if it were 10/10 personality. but the point is you wouldn't go out on the first date with a guy that was 4/10 in the looks department. that's what i am getting at. sure, his personality might be awesome but you are not going to see that unless and until you go out on the date with him.. and to go out on that first date you need to be attracted to his looks. Link to comment
NightLily Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I could turn that down. which is another thing, perception is crucial. that guy is a 5 to me. Yup, different strokes for different folks. I could drool over him all day haha Link to comment
ProtestTheHero Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 whenever i think a woman is like...beyond me or 9/10 or 10/10 ish I'd just send her pics of me and my friends doing random things along with some serious ones to know I live to have fun. There are ways you can communicate personality without literally being there. Link to comment
EQD Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 but the point is you wouldn't go out on the first date with a guy that was 4/10 in the looks department. that's what i am getting at. sure, his personality might be awesome but you are not going to see that unless and until you go out on the date with him.. and to go out on that first date you need to be attracted to his looks. that depends on how you met. not everyone is in the dark about the other person on the first date. Link to comment
grymoire Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Why? besides, i actually can't comment on this because the total package fell into my lap 5 months ago. because i remember how you raved about your SO's sculpted body. the guy may have awesome personality but you wouldn't know it until you date him... and to go out on the first date you need to be attracted to his looks. agree? Link to comment
ProtestTheHero Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 attracted and "wet just looking at him" are two different categories. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 but the point is you wouldn't go out on the first date with a guy that was 4/10 in the looks department. that's what i am getting at. sure, his personality might be awesome but you are not going to see that unless and until you go out on the date with him.. and to go out on that first date you need to be attracted to his looks. Not true. If someone approached me in the street and was a 4/10, I'd probably turn them down. If it was someone in a more familiar setting (school or work), I'd probably go on a date if they approached me. Also, if I got to know them first through friends, it wouldn't bother me in the least. Come to think of it, I think the same goes for a highly attractive person too, unless they really manage to charm me. It hasn't happened yet. Link to comment
StrawberryYogurt Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Like most of us would have a chance at either scenario lol. I'd take either one b/c 9/10 on either is def. good enough. I'm sure I'm not close to 9/10 either way myself. Link to comment
ProtestTheHero Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I am a 10/10 personality. PM me if I'm blowing your mind. Link to comment
EQD Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 because i remember how you raved about your SO's sculpted body. the guy may have awesome personality but you wouldn't know it until you date him... and to go out on the first date you need to be attracted to his looks. agree? to be honest i was very uninterested in dating him in the beginning. even after he approached me yet again at the swim park. the first date i just didnt feel his personality swung with mine. so i was further uninterested. when i found out he was still married i called it off immediately and we didnt speak for 3 months. went out to dinner just for fun/meaning not a date and everything just clicked personality wise. that was the deciding difference. its actually a stroke of luck that i ever changed my mind. and his persistance was a catalyst. so.. sorry to break your idea of 'attractive guys get the girl because they are attractive' rule. because his looks got him practically nowhere with me. if anything i was naturally more weary. Link to comment
laisla Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Not true. If someone approached me in the street and was a 4/10, I'd probably turn them down. If it was someone in a more familiar setting (school or work), I'd probably go on a date if they approached me. Also, if I got to know them first through friends, it wouldn't bother me in the least. Come to think of it, I think the same goes for a highly attractive person too, unless they really manage to charm me. It hasn't happened yet. yea if it was a super hot guy who just asked me out on the street i'd still be wary of it the same as i would for a guy who was average Link to comment
NightLily Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 My general rule is that if a guy is a gentleman about it (and in general), is friendly, and I feel comfortable around him then I will give him a chance. You never know. Link to comment
Ac143 Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 that depends on how you met. not everyone is in the dark about the other person on the first date. It does depend how you meet, My SO & I met at work...my first reaction to seeing him was "he's so cute but not my type" Talking for 2yrs at work as friends changed that drastically & he's great/funny personality made him go from so cute to unbelievably sexy. Link to comment
dragon lady Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 yea if it was a super hot guy who just asked me out on the street i'd still be wary of it the same as i would for a guy who was average Exactly. I've had too many bad experiences hanging out with guys who have just randomly hit on me. I'm far more cautious these days. Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I'd go after either one really. But what category does talent in bed fit under? Link to comment
ProtestTheHero Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 I'd go after either one really. But what category does talent in bed fit under? Until you show her it's really all talk. Link to comment
paintedfish Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Oh god, Suzy is that Brandon Boyd? I had a friend that looked just like him in high school... biggest crush on him ever. Link to comment
NightLily Posted April 9, 2009 Share Posted April 9, 2009 Oh god, Suzy is that Brandon Boyd? I had a friend that looked just like him in high school... biggest crush on him ever. Yes it is... *sigh* Are you my freakin clone or something!? Link to comment
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