JourneyRoade Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 My fiance and I are both on Facebook and Myspace. He might even be on other sites that I'm not a member of. I have guy friends in my list, and he has gal friends on his list. I keep it real light with the guy friends on my list, out of respect for my fiance. It's a matter of knowing and trusting that neither of us are going to engage in inappropriate or too-intimate conversation with them. Edit: Some of the gal friends on his list are girls who've long wanted to hook up and/or date him, too! And of course I trust him. There's still the friendship, aside from their attraction to him. If he didn't get with them before me, I don't believe for a second he's going to pursue them with me. Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I don't use facebook as a dating site nor do I know anyone who does. same with me. i like facebook...i use it to share pictures, organize events, and keep in touch with certain people. Link to comment
hockeyboy Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I don't use facebook as a dating site nor do I know anyone who does. same with me. i like facebook...i use it to share pictures, organize events, and keep in touch with certain people. Link to comment
Binoo Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I think if you distrust him using something like Facebook, you should put off the marriage. Believe me, it is the most awful, sickening feeling to feel like your ex is doing terrible things online behind your back. It will ruin your life. Work out your issues first before you decide to tie the knot. Link to comment
Binoo Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I think if you distrust him using something like Facebook, you should put off the marriage. Believe me, it is the most awful, sickening feeling to feel like your ex is doing terrible things online behind your back. It will ruin your life. Work out your issues first before you decide to tie the knot. Link to comment
hers Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I've never once had a random guy I don't know send me messages on myspace or facebook. Both my pages are private. That's all you really have to do. Link to comment
hers Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I've never once had a random guy I don't know send me messages on myspace or facebook. Both my pages are private. That's all you really have to do. Link to comment
Jeremiah Johnson Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Facebook is the devil Link to comment
Jeremiah Johnson Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Facebook is the devil Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I've never once had a random guy I don't know send me messages on myspace or facebook. Both my pages are private. That's all you really have to do. My profile is set to private too and I've had random guys message me, I don't read them. I delete them right away. But Face Book isn't a dating site. I wouldn't worry about it. Everyone one has an account now days! Sounds like you have trust issues. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I've never once had a random guy I don't know send me messages on myspace or facebook. Both my pages are private. That's all you really have to do. My profile is set to private too and I've had random guys message me, I don't read them. I delete them right away. But Face Book isn't a dating site. I wouldn't worry about it. Everyone one has an account now days! Sounds like you have trust issues. Link to comment
JourneyRoade Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Is it really the devil on its own merits, or is it what you do with it? It's just a tool. Link to comment
JourneyRoade Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Is it really the devil on its own merits, or is it what you do with it? It's just a tool. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 If he does come accross a situation like that on "Facebook", then it's his responsibility to tell them that he's in a relationship, and is getting married. If you can't trust him to do that, then you can't trust him period. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 If he does come accross a situation like that on "Facebook", then it's his responsibility to tell them that he's in a relationship, and is getting married. If you can't trust him to do that, then you can't trust him period. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I've never once had a random guy I don't know send me messages on myspace or facebook. Both my pages are private. That's all you really have to do. Yea, i didn't have the page long and was really clueless to it and didn't realize it could be made private. I still don't regret deleting it, it just isn't something that was for me personally. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I've never once had a random guy I don't know send me messages on myspace or facebook. Both my pages are private. That's all you really have to do. Yea, i didn't have the page long and was really clueless to it and didn't realize it could be made private. I still don't regret deleting it, it just isn't something that was for me personally. Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 If he does come accross a situation like that on "Facebook", then it's his responsibility to tell them that he's in a relationship, and is getting married. If you can't trust him to do that, then you can't trust him period. Well in the status bit he should select "married" or "engaged". Link to comment
Perfect Dark Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 If he does come accross a situation like that on "Facebook", then it's his responsibility to tell them that he's in a relationship, and is getting married. If you can't trust him to do that, then you can't trust him period. Well in the status bit he should select "married" or "engaged". Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I think if you distrust him using something like Facebook, you should put off the marriage. . At the end of the day, this is the real crux of the issue here (what binoo said above).... This was an interesting article i read about how facebook is compared to a dating site...lot of truths in this except where he says facebook is not discussed in public as it is taboo, that is a crock. that is all many people want to talk about! lol link removed Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 I think if you distrust him using something like Facebook, you should put off the marriage. . At the end of the day, this is the real crux of the issue here (what binoo said above).... This was an interesting article i read about how facebook is compared to a dating site...lot of truths in this except where he says facebook is not discussed in public as it is taboo, that is a crock. that is all many people want to talk about! lol link removed Link to comment
DN Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Although I did join - I find it somewhat boring. Even though people are friends and acquaintances, I don't really need to know so much of the minutia of the lives that people seem to post on the page. Link to comment
DN Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Although I did join - I find it somewhat boring. Even though people are friends and acquaintances, I don't really need to know so much of the minutia of the lives that people seem to post on the page. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Although I did join - I find it somewhat boring. Even though people are friends and acquaintances, I don't really need to know so much of the minutia of the lives that people seem to post on the page. yea. i created a facebook account for work - to network. i don't really gain much out of it. the things that are posted as status's are not very helpful. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 17, 2009 Share Posted March 17, 2009 Although I did join - I find it somewhat boring. Even though people are friends and acquaintances, I don't really need to know so much of the minutia of the lives that people seem to post on the page. yea. i created a facebook account for work - to network. i don't really gain much out of it. the things that are posted as status's are not very helpful. Link to comment
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