Boyfriend has a small penis >.<

[babii doll]

Isn't it also true that you have a lot more options as far as positions go with a smaller penis?

 

totally false, i dated a guy who was about 4inch at the most and the only 2 positions where he could penetrate was doggy and missionary even then he kept slipping out, which sucked when your getting into the "rhythm" of things, to have to start all over again. in cases like this oral is a guys best bet.

 

to me size matters to a certain extent along with girth, if its to small you will wind up with the experience that i had, if its too big your cervix will taking a beating.. had that experience as well.

 

something in the middle is perfect 6-7 maybe 8, bf is 7 and its just right.

[doyathink]

totally false, i dated a guy who was about 4inch at the most and the only 2 positions where he could penetrate was doggy and missionary even then he kept slipping out, which sucked when your getting into the "rhythm" of things, to have to start all over again. in cases like this oral is a guys best bet.

 

to me size matters to a certain extent along with girth, if its to small you will wind up with the experience that i had, if its too big your cervix will taking a beating.. had that experience as well.

 

something in the middle is perfect 6-7 maybe 8, bf is 7 and its just right.

 

I agree with you. It does matter...to a point, yes.

[LBP]

PLEASE don't impose your beliefs! if penis size doesn't matter to you, you are a virgin afraid whatever doesn't mean that everybody should be like you and if they are not they are not worth to be with!

 

Beef Queens (also known as Size Queens) are women who take the length/girth of a penis to exemplify the be all/end all of sexual relationships. Many women fall under the category, but certainly not all. Relatively few make a big deal out of needing a big penis. Many are hurt by them, in fact.

[blaine]

 

Also, comparing people to cars? Yeah, that's classy.

 

I was talking about fancy cars not economy cars.

[Penny_Lane]

It does, but it's different for every woman. I think this is important to remember, especially when Beef Queens are hammering on the smaller gents.

 

Beef Queens? LMAO thats awesome. Nah its cool, im not hammering on the smaller dudes, it more for my own personal use, strap ons and all, just my preference.

[LBP]

I was talking about fancy cars not economy cars.

 

Hot rods?

they ride awful fast

[blaine]

hot rods?

they ride awful fast

 

lmao.

 

.....

[Rosee]

I think a big part of it (pardon the pun) is the visual stimulation that you get from seeing a big penis, similar to guys looking at big breasts. When I fantasize it would be about someone with a huge penis but in practice it wouldn't be great because it would be uncomfortable.

But you can get as much pleasure from a smaller one and the OP said it's smaller than 'what she's used to' so she won't know til she tries it I guess.

[blackgnat]

Size DOES matter. Don't ever think it doesn't.

[blaine]

Size DOES matter. Don't ever think it doesn't.

 

To YOU.

 

That doesn't mean you can accurately generalize that to others.

 

What's important to one, is meaningless to another.

[civilservant]

Doc I love that analogy. Frankly I think some of the women here are doing their damdest to decimate guys self confidence. What if a bloke turned around and said you werent tight enough or didnt have a small enough rear? You'd feel pretty worthless.

 

To the OP- talk to him! Ask him what he wants to do to help you along. Ultimtaly though if you can't deal with it- bail

[shyguy1]

OK, women are kinda like colleges. When you apply to a college, they wanna see your GPA, your SAT, and your extracurricular activities. If you have a low GPA, a good SAT can make up for it.

 

As far as women go, the three factors are money (GPA), penis size (SAT), and sense of humor (extracurriculars). So what I'm tryin to say... is if your SAT score is low, then quit slackin and get your damn GPA up and work on your extracurriculars.

 

This is hilarious!

 

I consider myself to be witty, but don't know if I would have thought of this.

 

To the original poster, as asked by others... how small is small?

 

You've been given some good advice on here and honestly you need to decide how important this issue truly is and if it's a deal breaker.

[LBP]

I know plenty of girls who dislike large penises... As much or more so than Beef Queens appreciate them.

 

I have notived that the girls inclined to smaller sizes tend to be less hateful than those inclined to larger.

[Shudder]

 

I have notived that the girls inclined to smaller sizes tend to be less hateful than those inclined to larger.

 

hateful in terms of personalities? or just penises?

[LBP]

A little of both. Size Queens often walk the line of appreciating a man for his person up to the point of seeing his penis... And then suddenly view this man, whom they previously admired, in a lesser light. It's like men who react badly to saggy boobs, I guess.

[Shudder]

ah i see.. imo its their fault.. they watch too much porn lol

[LBP]

ah i see.. imo its their fault.. they watch too much porn lol

 

To cover both angles:

 

A Size Queen will also view a man who is personally deficient in a more positive light based simply on the fact that he has a big penis. To bring it home on a female POV, the fact is akin to a man liking a girl up to the fact of seeing that her areolas look like sand dollars rather than pert, pointy nipples. Or that her ass has cellulite. Etc etc.

[Mythical_Suicide]

I know plenty of girls who dislike large penises... As much or more so than Beef Queens appreciate them.

 

I have notived that the girls inclined to smaller sizes tend to be less hateful than those inclined to larger.

 

 

Can't say I agree with many of your posts on here but this one I have to agree with.

 

I have noticed this with nearly every female I have encountered. If a girl is all "I HAVE to have a man that is 9 inches or larger" it seems they always have a bad attitude towards sex and other things.

 

Size does matter for most but it isn't the end all with a lot as it is with the girls who have to have a large penis. I personally don't understand it, 7inches and I feel like i'm being gutted maybe they like that feeling but it hurts. More power to ya.

[Sparkly Eyes]

To cover both angles:

 

A Size Queen will also view a man who is personally deficient in a more positive light based simply on the fact that he has a big penis. To bring it home on a female POV, the fact is akin to a man liking a girl up to the fact of seeing that her areolas look like sand dollars rather than pert, pointy nipples. Or that her ass has cellulite. Etc etc.

 

I dont like very big penises, so unattractive reminds me of horses, don't like very small penises either.

 

I don't have a perfect body,cellulite etc. but if a guy doesn't want to be with me because of that sure I'll be sad but not mad at him. maybe he just get turned on when he is with a girl with perfect body, nothing he can change easily.

[blaine]

I dont like very big penises

 

FINE!

 

You're not my type anyway.

[Sparkly Eyes]

FINE!

 

You're not my type anyway.

 

LOL, I wonder who is your type, should have a giant hole for sure ...

[Gage]

It is all individual I agree..but remember...Even a Cessna seems small when in an airline carrier. So ladies, perhaps its not the size of the man but the size of your, uhm carrier?

[Cognitive_Canine]

PLEASE don't impose your beliefs! if penis size doesn't matter to you, you are a virgin afraid whatever doesn't mean that everybody should be like you and if they are not they are not worth to be with!

 

I will continue to voice my opinion on this matter.

 

I think that women who put too much effort into caring about penis size don't care much about the guy attached to it. To break up with someone over it is a terrible thing. Don't even try to defend it.

 

Sexual compatibilty is completely different. I need a guy who can keep up with me. Sex is very important to me. However, a guy CAN NOT change his size. To turn him away for something that he has no control over, and in the grand scheme of things doesn't matter in the long run, is not something that we should be okay with.

[trincitee]

Even if a woman is a size queen though, why should it really matter?

 

A bigger penis might be more pleasurable for her, so in that sense who is to say it is wrong? I'd think it's bad if a woman thinks a man is lesser if he has a small * * * * . but a simple liking of a large penis per se is not bad IMO.

[Cognitive_Canine]

Even if a woman is a size queen though, why should it really matter?

 

A bigger penis might be more pleasurable for her, so in that sense who is to say it is wrong? I'd think it's bad if a woman thinks a man is lesser if he has a small * * * * . but a simple liking of a large penis per se is not bad IMO.

 

It isn't a bad thing to prefer larger penises. But to break up with a guy based on the fact that he's on the smaller side is completely different.

 

In that case:

 

Importance of penis > importance of person

 

Breaking off a perfectly fine relationship due to what's in a guy's pants (or equivalently what is under a girl's shirt or skirt) is not a good way to go about finding a partner. You will greatly disappoint yourself.