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alixa56

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I will continue to voice my opinion on this matter.

 

I think that women who put too much effort into caring about penis size don't care much about the guy attached to it. To break up with someone over it is a terrible thing. Don't even try to defend it.

 

Sexual compatibilty is completely different. I need a guy who can keep up with me. Sex is very important to me. However, a guy CAN NOT change his size. To turn him away for something that he has no control over, and in the grand scheme of things doesn't matter in the long run, is not something that we should be okay with.

 

What are you talking about?? if a guy has like a 2 inch penis there is not many things you can do in the bedroom with him. maybe you don't want to be in that situation for the rest of your life. it's like some guys dont want to be with ugly girls. do you blame them? there is nothing they can do about it either! it's not your fault that you can't see someone's penis right off the start!!! and when I'm talking about small I'm talking about really small. then again personally if I was in love with a person maybe I wouldn't care but I don't judge other ppl who care!

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What are you talking about?? if a guy has like a 2 inch penis there is not many things you can do in the bedroom with him. maybe you don't want to be in that situation for the rest of your life. it's like some guys dont want to be with ugly girls. do you blame them? there is nothing they can do about it either! it's not your fault that you can't see someone's penis right off the start!!! and when I'm talking about small I'm talking about really small. then again personally if I was in love with a person maybe I wouldn't care but I don't judge other ppl who care!

 

ya seriously. you pick partners based on their physical attractiveness. yes, it's shallow but it's not too bad if you're not going to extreme. i'd be pretty disappointed with a small penis and would be turned off.

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What are you talking about?? if a guy has like a 2 inch penis there is not many things you can do in the bedroom with him. maybe you don't want to be in that situation for the rest of your life. it's like some guys dont want to be with ugly girls. do you blame them? there is nothing they can do about it either! it's not your fault that you can't see someone's penis right off the start!!! and when I'm talking about small I'm talking about really small. then again personally if I was in love with a person maybe I wouldn't care but I don't judge other ppl who care!

 

I judge other people who DON'T CARE about the other person. Stuck with their small penis all your life. Well, how said for you it must be. How about thinking about the other person. They are the ones that is "stuck" with it. Not many things you can do in the bedroom? If lesbians can please each other plenty, I don't think penis size really has all that much to do with how much pleasure you can get.

 

And, I am not talking about when first meeting someone and then knowing off the bat that you aren't attracted. I do, however, see something very wrong with dating a guy for a month, then getting to the physical side of it and dumping him on his rump because his genitals aren't up to "par".

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What are you talking about?? if a guy has like a 2 inch penis there is not many things you can do in the bedroom with him. maybe you don't want to be in that situation for the rest of your life. it's like some guys dont want to be with ugly girls. do you blame them? there is nothing they can do about it either! it's not your fault that you can't see someone's penis right off the start!!! and when I'm talking about small I'm talking about really small. then again personally if I was in love with a person maybe I wouldn't care but I don't judge other ppl who care!

 

only read this after I posted my post but yeah I agree with you 100%

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I judge other people who DON'T CARE about the other person. Stuck with their small penis all your life. Well, how said for you it must be. How about thinking about the other person. They are the ones that is "stuck" with it. Not many things you can do in the bedroom? If lesbians can please each other plenty, I don't think penis size really has all that much to do with how much pleasure you can get.

 

And, I am not talking about when first meeting someone and then knowing off the bat that you aren't attracted. I do, however, see something very wrong with dating a guy for a month, then getting to the physical side of it and dumping him on his rump because his genitals aren't up to "par".

 

Just like woman cannot grow boobs yet some men cannot be with a woman who has small boobs.

We cannot change our preference.

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I judge other people who DON'T CARE about the other person. Stuck with their small penis all your life. Well, how said for you it must be. How about thinking about the other person. They are the ones that is "stuck" with it. Not many things you can do in the bedroom? If lesbians can please each other plenty, I don't think penis size really has all that much to do with how much pleasure you can get.

 

And, I am not talking about when first meeting someone and then knowing off the bat that you aren't attracted. I do, however, see something very wrong with dating a guy for a month, then getting to the physical side of it and dumping him on his rump because his genitals aren't up to "par".

 

I am not a lesbian and don't want to be pleased just in the way they please each other. Sexual pleasure is not just about orgasm for me, that I could get easily with different things.

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Part 1:

 

I know plenty of girls who dislike large penises... As much or more so than Beef Queens appreciate them.

 

I have noticed that the girls inclined to smaller sizes tend to be less hateful than those inclined to larger.

 

Hateful can also read as insulting, I suppose.

 

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What are you talking about?? if a guy has like a 2 inch penis there is not many things you can do in the bedroom with him. maybe you don't want to be in that situation for the rest of your life. it's like some guys dont want to be with ugly girls. do you blame them? there is nothing they can do about it either! it's not your fault that you can't see someone's penis right off the start!!! and when I'm talking about small I'm talking about really small. then again personally if I was in love with a person maybe I wouldn't care but I don't judge other ppl who care!

 

For me, intercourse is my thing and if a guy is really small, I could not be with him. And I am not superficial.

I was fooling around with a guy once who was about 2 inches. His penis felt smaller than a finger and I was turned off. Not his fault and not my fault for what turns me on/off

 

Case 'n' point. I've often wondered why this is.

 

I think what debaser_wolf is getting at is that she has the capacity to be in love (as she understands it) with her BF without, pointedly speaking, being penetrated by him.

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Part 1:

 

 

 

Hateful can also read as insulting, I suppose.

 

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Case 'n' point. I've often wondered why this is.

 

I think what debaser_wolf is getting at is that she has the capacity to be in love (as she understands it) with her BF without, pointedly speaking, being penetrated by him.

 

If I'm not mistaken, she's still a virgin. So how would she know?

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Look...I can see how a 2" incher could be a problem for some woman..I mean intercourse does require a certain element of physiology to feel pleasant. That being said is it any different for a guy who is average size not being pleased because a woman is to "loose". If you are in love with your partner you can work around physical limitations..thats the bottom line, if you chose not to thats your decision..does it make you shallow?? I dont think anyone could answer that but yourself.

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It isn't a bad thing to prefer larger penises. But to break up with a guy based on the fact that he's on the smaller side is completely different.

 

In that case:

 

Importance of penis > importance of person

 

Breaking off a perfectly fine relationship due to what's in a guy's pants (or equivalently what is under a girl's shirt or skirt) is not a good way to go about finding a partner. You will greatly disappoint yourself.

 

well IMO sex is an impornatnt part of a relationship. By far not the most imporntant thing, but I do think it's impornant enough to break up with someone. So that said, if someone is dating someone with a very small penis, or even very large and is not satisfied by it, then it could be a justified reason to break up.

 

I have never broke up with someone over their penis size, and I have had a boyfriend with a 10 inch penis that hurt, and a 3 inch penis that didn't please me, and I still enjoyed the intimacy and they made up for it in other ways, but if someone isn't getting pleasure for whatever reason, even if it is from penis size, I dont think there is anything wrong them wanting to break up.

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I bought a new car recently. It was available in a half dozen colors, but I wanted Green. Forest Green. Would I have bought the car if I couldn't get green? Probably, but I would have "settled". Over time, I might have convinced myself it didn't matter, and maybe it really wouldn't bother me once I got used to it and forgot about the green car.

 

Cars in this example, can be substituted for penises. Ask yourself some "hard" questions, and give yourself honest answers.

 

We all have our dealbreakers. You have to determine what yours are.

 

LOVE THIS. Good point

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Part 1:

 

 

 

Hateful can also read as insulting, I suppose.

 

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Case 'n' point. I've often wondered why this is.

 

I think what debaser_wolf is getting at is that she has the capacity to be in love (as she understands it) with her BF without, pointedly speaking, being penetrated by him.

 

many ppl may have this capacity. I may have it too, but it does not necessarily makes my sex life better. the thing is how much your sex life is important for you. you should see which one weigh out the other one and choose. this is how it goes for me and I am not a shallow person!

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well IMO sex is an impornatnt part of a relationship. By far not the most imporntant thing, but I do think it's impornant enough to break up with someone. So that said, if someone is dating someone with a very small penis, or even very large and is not satisfied by it, then it could be a justified reason to break up.

 

I have never broke up with someone over their penis size, and I have had a boyfriend with a 10 inch penis that hurt, and a 3 inch penis that didn't please me, and I still enjoyed the intimacy and they made up for it in other ways, but if someone isn't getting pleasure for whatever reason, even if it is from penis size, I dont think there is anything wrong them wanting to break up.

 

very well said snoopy!

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I find it extremely sad that so many people are willing to jump ship over a guy's size.

 

Call me naive, but sexual pleasure it's much more than size. It is mental, emotional, and there are plenty more things you can do than just stick rod A in hole B.

 

really, I do not mean to offend you, but you're a young girl with no sexual experience. Have sex for 20 more years, then report back to us

 

I think it's sweet you believe in love and loving someone if they are this way or that way, but life does not work that way

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And, as I said before, Sex is very important to me in a relationship. The only reason my bf and I aren't having sex is due to the distance.

 

But, sexual compatibility and penis size are way different things.

 

And sexual compatibility is greatly important in comparison to penis size.

 

true, but for some ppl sexual compatibility also depends on penis size!

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really, I do not mean to offend you, but you're a young girl with no sexual experience. Have sex for 20 more years, then report back to us

 

I think it's sweet you believe in love and loving someone if they are this way or that way, but life does not work that way

 

i may not have had sex, but I do have a lot of sexual experience.

 

I know, I'm just a virgin, what do I know.

 

But, I can safely say that if my bf was 2 inches...I'd go "hmmm" then move on and not really care about it.

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