Cognitive_Canine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 well, I dunno. didn't have a survey about it. but in ENA I have seen that most girls don't care. I thought that is what it was too. But, from this thread, it contradicts that previous thought. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Why can't everyone realize, everyone has a different opinion? Play nice children. If you like a big penis and will break up with a great guy just because he is smaller than you like, good for you! But realize, not everyone is going to agree with that or feel that way. If you like having your insides gouged out each time he thrusts in you, then be my guest. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Why can't everyone realize, everyone has a different opinion? Play nice children. If you like a big penis and will break up with a great guy just because he is smaller than you like, good for you! But realize, not everyone is going to agree with that or feel that way. If you like having your insides gouged out each time he thrusts in you, then be my guest. Ah, don't say that. I am so worried about our first time. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Ah, don't say that. I am so worried about our first time. It won't be that bad. I promise. Take things slow and easy. It may hurt a small bit but I promise it won't feel like he is gouging your insides out unless he is disrespectful and goes too fast. I was referencing the girls who enjoy the big ones, 9 inches and bigger.. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 It won't be that bad. I promise. Take things slow and easy. It may hurt a small bit but I promise it won't feel like he is gouging your insides out unless he is disrespectful and goes too fast. why do you lie to her? it will be really bad,lol, at least it was for me. as far as the information I gathered from other girls every girl is different. hopefully you are on the good side Link to comment
Snoopy24 Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I find it extremely sad that so many people are willing to jump ship over a guy's size. Call me naive, but sexual pleasure it's much more than size. It is mental, emotional, and there are plenty more things you can do than just stick rod A in hole B. If a guy has a penis that is too small or too big, that can interfere greatly with pleasuring their partner. And to some people that is really imporntant..and can be a deal breaker. What is the difference if guys prefers larger breasts? Many do, and only date woman with large breasts. that is their prefence and who is anyone to judge what they like in a partner. ..and that is just visual stimulation vs the guys penis being physical stimulation. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 If a guy has a penis that is too small or too big, that can interfere greatly with pleasuring their partner. And to some people that is really imporntant..and can be a deal breaker. What is the difference if guys prefers larger breasts? Many do, and only date woman with large breasts. that is their prefence and who is anyone to judge what they like in a partner. ..and that is just visual stimulation vs the guys penis being physical stimulation. I guess the difference is that breasts are off the bat. Being attracted to someone that hasn't opened their mouth isn't shallow to me. However, the penis comes later. The OP dated her guy for 3 weeks before it came into play. Some wait even longer. To dump a guy you've been dating for a time after you see he isn't well equipped is shallow. What happened to that time before they got physical? It means nothing now that it's been taken to the bedroom? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 why do you lie to her? it will be really bad,lol, at least it was for me. as far as the information I gathered from other girls every girl is different. hopefully you are on the good side I wasn't lying. Just because it was bad for you doesn't mean it'll be bad for her. My first time wasn't that painful, the guy took his time and went slow in turn not hurting me. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I wasn't lying. Just because it was bad for you doesn't mean it'll be bad for her. My first time wasn't that painful, the guy took his time and went slow in turn not hurting me. I know some people feel no pain at all too. I hope I am in the little to no pain range. I actually know a couple that couldn't get it in for 3 months due to him being too large. That would be horrible for both persons involved. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I wasn't lying. Just because it was bad for you doesn't mean it'll be bad for her. My first time wasn't that painful, the guy took his time and went slow in turn not hurting me. I was joking and I said afterward every girl is different. for me it wasn't just the first time that hurt it was the first 30 or 40 times if not more! Link to comment
doyathink Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 How does she know she's in love with him? That question is beyond me. I was under the impression that this thread was on penis size. Not love. So, I'll put it this way so as to save any confusion.....how would she know what size penis feels good during sex? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Hell it is still painful for me in certain positions. My fiance isn't "huge" but he's not small either add that to me having a tipped cervix, yeah, some times we have completely pain free sex and others takes awhile to find a comfortable position for me. Sucks but is something I Have to deal with. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I was under the impression that this thread was on penis size. Not love. So, I'll put it this way so as to save any confusion.....how would she know what size penis feels good during sex? This thread is about penis size but with a twist because the penis belongs to a guy she cares about. I understand that people have preferences with penis sizes. I know I do. That isn't shallow. However, when penis size overcomes the fact that you like the person, that's the problem I have with it. Link to comment
blaine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I was under the impression that this thread was on penis size. Not love. DYT, some women love large penises. So techically, its about both. Link to comment
summerpeach Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 However, the penis comes later. It shouldn't have to. We woman should be able to meet a dude and shove our hands right down there, feel the goods and decide And my first time having sex didn't hurt. If you're relaxed, it will all be ok And it he's small, you'll be even better...haha Link to comment
shyguy1 Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 From my perspective: If I were dating a woman and she dumped me for something like my mental state (not a good mental state) my depression... 'maybe' even my virginity and the lack of expierence sexually.... this and that... things I need to legitimately work on and fix... then I would be hurt, though ultimately ok with it. If a girl were to dump me for my admittedly rather small pecker, then that's a whole other story. I would respect her right to do so... but I would be devastated and the psychological 'hit' from it would be extremely difficult to overcome. This a touchy subject. I can say that while I personally wouldn't dump a woman simply because her body wasn't the way I wanted it to be... there are more than a few guys that would.. so it does go both ways. I'm like debaser wolf to an extent.. maybe it's a virgin thing, but I believe in love and wish that people wouldn't dump others for things they have no control over. IE: a male's penis size or a female's breast size... for two examples. I suppose if the person broke up with the other person relatively quickly in the relationship I could understand it. What I don't understand is investing a lot of time and effort into a person.. getting to know them and perhaps even falling for them a little bit and 'then' breaking up with said person simply because his or her body isn't up to par naked. It happens though and will continue to. I guess I'm just overly idealistic in this case and naively believe that the time invested and the feelings for said person would overcome all. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 It shouldn't have to. We woman should be able to meet a dude and shove our hands right down there, feel the goods and decide And my first time having sex didn't hurt. If you're relaxed, it will all be ok And it he's small, you'll be even better...haha Ah, maybe one day... Link to comment
LBP Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I was under the impression that this thread was on penis size. Not love. So, I'll put it this way so as to save any confusion.....how would she know what size penis feels good during sex? She wouldn't. The post you quoted did not reference this, as re: to debaser. Re: penis size, I spoke only to the overwhelming negative reaction Size Queens tend to have on those that lack in this area. I made the comparison to men who judge women solely on their saggy breasts and loose vaginas. Actually, the OP asked how she could deal with the fact that her boy friend has a small penis, given that it bothers her a great deal. My suggestion was that in the modern world, people can use toys to make up this deficit. They can also use their words to break their partners into the notion of toy based sex. Oral from both parties can enhance the pleasure of this activity. Link to comment
blaine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I think the whole debate about penis size, breast size and shape, body types, etc, can be equated to eating at a buffet. When you go to the buffet, there are foods you like a lot, foods you won't even taste, and some foods that you will eat if you are really hungry and bored with the stuff that you really like to eat because you pigged out on like two plates of it. So you take the sum total of all the different types of foods, you eat some, you refuse others, you pay your tab and you go home. The question is, do you go back for another meal? Link to comment
summerpeach Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Not sure why, but this thread has made me hungry, horny and want to go drive my car, which I love..haha Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 I think the whole debate about penis size, breast size and shape, body types, etc, can be equated to eating at a buffet. When you go to the buffet, there are foods you like a lot, foods you won't even taste, and some foods that you will eat if you are really hungry and bored with the stuff that you really like to eat because you pigged out on like two plates of it. So you take the sum total of all the different types of foods, you eat some, you refuse others, you pay your tab and you go home. The question is, do you go back for another meal? Cars and now food? Do you have any analogies with the human element? This isn't a debate about penis size being important. This is a debate about whether or not penis size is important when you've already spent time with a guy and like him otherwise. IMO, the first is fine. I don't take it personally if a guy doesn't like my breast size nor my height. However, the latter is shallow. Because it's not just "a guy" it is now "a guy I care about" and thereforee is allowing the physical to override the mental and emotional connection. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 If a girl were to dump me for my admittedly rather small pecker, then that's a whole other story. I would respect her right to do so... but I would be devastated and the psychological 'hit' from it would be extremely difficult to overcome. this is why you should never ever say to that person if you are breaking up because of these reasons. I am not perfect either. I think is someone breaks up with me because of my imperfections that would be really really sad but I think I move on one day cause there is always someone who accepts you the way you are. Link to comment
blaine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Cars and now food? Do you have any analogies with the human element? Just wait until you see my beer analogy. The entire world comes down to one big Bud Light. Link to comment
shyguy1 Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 Just wait until you see my beer analogy. The entire world comes down to one big Bud Light. No way it comes down to a Belgian Trappist Ale :smile: I must say this has been one of the better threads I've seen on this site in awhile. A lot of varying opinions and I love a healthy debate. Link to comment
blaine Posted November 17, 2008 Share Posted November 17, 2008 No way it comes down to a Belgian Trappist Ale :smile: I must say this has been one of the better threads I've seen on this site in awhile. A lot of varying opinions and I love a healthy debate. A thread about penis size cannot possibly go wrong. Link to comment
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