ConfusedDater Posted September 1, 2008 Author Share Posted September 1, 2008 that does not matter......... but if she had scratched her arms during the date then that would have been a sure fire way to say that she is totally into you Years ago I used to think when a female said she had to go to the bathroom on a first date that it was a RED FLAG-lol I was thinking she was in there on the phone. Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted September 1, 2008 Share Posted September 1, 2008 Years ago I used to think when a female said she had to go to the bathroom on a first date that it was a RED FLAG-lol I was thinking she was in there on the phone. Girls like me just pee a lot LOL Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 she is NOT into you. *sarcastic* honked her horn to wave? asked your plans for the rest of the night? GAVE YOU A RIDE HOME? wow man. you DO overanlyze. i don't care how much you say you don't, you DO. i can't believe i read your thread before this one where you were so worked up over nothing. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 she is NOT into you. *sarcastic* honked her horn to wave? asked your plans for the rest of the night? GAVE YOU A RIDE HOME? wow man. you DO overanlyze. i don't care how much you say you don't, you DO. i can't believe i read your thread before this one where you were so worked up over nothing. Yeah she sent me a email this morning asking me did I enjoy the rest of my weekend so I guess that confirms it-lol I tried somethig different with my hair on sunday and I guess it was a good move so I will try and set up another date for this week. Well ghost I was told never to assume anything when it comes to woman so I just figured I would ask and see what everyone thought-lol Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 I tried somethig different with my hair on sunday and I guess it was a good move Must've been the trick! Hope you see her again soon... Good sign that she emailed ya today. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 Must've been the trick! Hope you see her again soon... Good sign that she emailed ya today. I tried to do that same thing with my hair this morning but it wouldn;t work-lol I guess my hair knew that I was going to work and not a date-lol Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 lolol I think that she likes you - whether your hair looks like that or not! Link to comment
george237 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 CD getting some safe adult fun? Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 CD getting some safe adult fun? Safe Adult Fun is only needed when I have no dates to go on Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 lolol I think that she likes you - whether your hair looks like that or not! I always try to remember that your hair controls everything-lol If your hair is looking kind of mess up it will destroy whatever you are wearing. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Yeah she sent me a email this morning asking me did I enjoy the rest of my weekend so I guess that confirms it-lol I tried somethig different with my hair on sunday and I guess it was a good move so I will try and set up another date for this week. Well ghost I was told never to assume anything when it comes to woman so I just figured I would ask and see what everyone thought-lol still don't assume anything. and it wasn't the hair man. stop analyzing why this worked. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 I always try to remember that your hair controls everything-lol If your hair is looking kind of mess up it will destroy whatever you are wearing. only if you have a combover flapping on a breezy day. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 only if you have a combover flapping on a breezy day. LOL, i can always count on you to take things to a new level. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Did you answer her email yet? That is more important right now. The hair will be fixed, get the second date first. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 still don't assume anything. and it wasn't the hair man. stop analyzing why this worked. well ghost i try and analyze what i did right so that I can keep doing it on other dates. So I try and be consistent with what has been working the previous dates. one big thing I do now is let her do 80% of the talking since I'm usually a little nervous on 1st dates and it really helps me relax since all I have to do is listen to her. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 Did you answer her email yet? That is more important right now. The hair will be fixed, get the second date first. Yes i answered the email and probably won't respond back if she sends another semail since i plan to call her tonight when I get home. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 well ghost i try and analyze what i did right so that I can keep doing it on other dates. So I try and be consistent with what has been working the previous dates. one big thing I do now is let her do 80% of the talking since I'm usually a little nervous on 1st dates and it really helps me relax since all I have to do is listen to her. you can never be consistent with anybody. you can only be yourself. that is all the consistency you need. stop with this 'let her talk 80%' 'make sure my hair is okay' 'i brushed my teeth in a circular motion before i left the house' crap. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Yes i answered the email and probably won't respond back if she sends another semail since i plan to call her tonight when I get home. why not reply something back if she sends you another one. something like 'cool. i'll call you later.' leave it at that. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 why not reply something back if she sends you another one. something like 'cool. i'll call you later.' leave it at that. First off, great job CD. I think the signs are EXTREMELY positive. Secondly, do as ghost suggests. A simple response to say somthing like you will call her later would be nice. She has done a lot to show interest, don't be coy and play games with her. Be courteous and respond to that last email to say "ill call or see you later". Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 why not reply something back if she sends you another one. something like 'cool. i'll call you later.' leave it at that. Ok if I get a reply back i respond with a-"i will call you later" Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Ok if I get a reply back i respond with a-"i will call you later" not that blunt, put that on the end. but something up beat in front of it. depending on what she says. something like 'oh yeah sounds cool. i will give you a call later today/tomorrow.' specify a day. a call later could be in the week, month, etc. Link to comment
JadedStar Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Ok if I get a reply back i respond with a-"i will call you later" yes. but say something personable as well. if she asks a specific question, answer it. If it does not ask a question say something like "cool, will call you later! if you only write "i will call you later" that sounds like you are annoyed. You are a smart guy, dress it up with some type of salutation. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 yes. but say something personable as well. if she asks a specific question, answer it. If it does not ask a question say something like "cool, will call you later! if you only write "i will call you later" that sounds like you are annoyed. You are a smart guy, dress it up with some type of salutation. oh yeah, i was talking about as an attachment not the only thing that I was going to say in the email. Link to comment
hers Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 He's getting it, guys!!! Yes!! Keep it up CD. No more questions!!! Link to comment
JadedStar Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 oh yeah, i was talking about as an attachment not the only thing that I was going to say in the email. Good! I wonder sometimes if you know what I am trying to say LOL Link to comment
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