ImThatGirl Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Did I misread this? You're not going to respond unless she emails you twice? Link to comment
JadedStar Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Did I misread this? You're not going to respond unless she emails you twice? No, he said IF she sends another one should he reply...that is what we were responding to. I do not think she sent another one yet since the last one that he already answered. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 Did I misread this? You're not going to respond unless she emails you twice? I was saying if i get a response back from her around 3pm, it wouldn't really be any need to respond back when i can just call her when I get home. I guess her job doesn't allow her to email a lot during the day which is understandable so i wouldn't see the need to send another reply, just a phone call later Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 If she emailed you, you responded and she emails again around 3 then sure, just call her tonight if you prefer. Or send a quick email back in response to what she says and with a call ya this evening. CD - Dude, stop analyzing.... Just be yourself and enjoy this.... without tearing it all apart! Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 No, he said IF she sends another one should he reply...that is what we were responding to. I do not think she sent another one yet since the last one that he already answered. Thanks Jaded! I must've missed a post. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 If she emailed you, you responded and she emails again around 3 then sure, just call her tonight if you prefer. Or send a quick email back in response to what she says and with a call ya this evening. CD - Dude, stop analyzing.... Just be yourself and enjoy this.... without tearing it all apart! The analyzing is over, I'm just going with the flow now and will keep the CMM consistent this time and not let a week go past without saying anything Link to comment
hers Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Quick question--why would you let a week go past before if your date went well?? Wiht previous girls I mean. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 The analyzing is over, I'm just going with the flow now and will keep the CMM consistent this time and not let a week go past without saying anything Good - - keep the communication open - give and take. She contacts you first sometimes and you contact her first sometimes. But never ignore her if she contacts you! Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 Quick question--why would you let a week go past before if your date went well?? Wiht previous girls I mean. It wasn't a week, it was like 2 or 3 days I would let go past without contacting them, thinking i was being COOL!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 Good - - keep the communication open - give and take. She contacts you first sometimes and you contact her first sometimes. But never ignore her if she contacts you! I was surprised by her email this morning, we had not talked since sunday, the day we went out because I turned off my call waiting again-lol I don;t have to do that now since i know she is interested. I just didn't want to drive myself crazy looking at the caller id everytime the phone rang. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 ^^ I'm so p-p-p-p-proud of ya, CD. Keep up the good work! Link to comment
hers Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Play by your own rules and not anyone elses. Don't do it bc you hear that's what you're supposed to do. Link to comment
May_It_Be Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Safe Adult Fun is only needed when I have no dates to go on Ooooh, so it's a euphemism for masturbation, then, huh? Ew. I thought you defined it as making out without sex. Silly me. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 This may actually be the first time CD did something right !!! Yay...now we can all sleep tonight. If someone is interested, there is no need to wait a couple of days to respond. Hopefully you guys can make concrete plans as soon as possible for the second date. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 Ooooh, so it's a euphemism for masturbation, then, huh? Ew. I thought you defined it as making out without sex. Silly me. some comes over and plays with me, that's what I mean Link to comment
hers Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Let's not get him started on safe adult fun again please...it drives everyone crazy bc he's so vague!!! Link to comment
george237 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 some comes over and plays with me, that's what I mean hahahaha yes. I love your comments. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 I was surprised by her email this morning, we had not talked since sunday, the day we went out because I turned off my call waiting again-lol I don;t have to do that now since i know she is interested. I just didn't want to drive myself crazy looking at the caller id everytime the phone rang. stop turning off call features to act cool man. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 I think ENA is safe adult fun...but not in the CD kind of way. Keep us posted on your progress with this woman. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 stop turning off call features to act cool man. i do it to have peace of mind. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 i do it to have peace of mind. it doesn't help you get safe adult fun. Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 stop with this 'let her talk 80%' 'make sure my hair is okay' 'i brushed my teeth in a circular motion before i left the house' crap. haha you are so funny ghost Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 well she didn't reply back to my email the rest of the day so I guess her email this morning was just her way of seeing if I was interested or not after the date. So i will call tonight. I will take ghost's advice and call with a plan for the 2nd date in mind. So until I figure out something to do it's no need to call Link to comment
hers Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Call her anyway and ask her if she'd like to go out, and then ask if she has anything specific in mind to do. Otherwise, set up the date and tell her you'll work out the plans with her later. No need to just not call. Don't do any waiting if you guys are interested in each other. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 well she didn't reply back to my email the rest of the day so I guess her email this morning was just her way of seeing if I was interested or not after the date. So i will call tonight. I will take ghost's advice and call with a plan for the 2nd date in mind. So until I figure out something to do it's no need to call CD, just call her anyways. you can at least have a general conversation. be fun and flirty. Link to comment
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