hers Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 Last time you waited so long between dates she lost interest. You can't afford to gamble right now... Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 why can't i have my day to escape the world of dating? I mean can't i use that day to sit in my sweats and watch football and eat pizza and yell at the tv and have fun?-lol My friday and saturdays will always be open That is probably fine if you keep those other nights open. Most people work on Mondays and do not want to go out on Sunday nights anyway, so you should be fine. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 4, 2008 Author Share Posted September 4, 2008 Last time you waited so long between dates she lost interest. You can't afford to gamble right now... The difference this time will be keeping the CMM between us ACTIVE. last time on top of waiting too long for the 2nd date, i was not contacting at all for 3-4 days Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 I think it's completely fair and reasonable to not have Sunday's open. Why not this weekend though, CD? I am curious about that. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 why can't i have my day to escape the world of dating? I mean can't i use that day to sit in my sweats and watch football and eat pizza and yell at the tv and have fun?-lol My friday and saturdays will always be open you will only get as far as the effort you put in. if your sunday is the only day you have to yourself and the only day your date can go, well, you have a choice to make. either quit complaining here and do it, or quit complaining here and don't do it. sick of all the crap you say man. do something for once. put more effort in. nothing is going to be so perfect for you. i would have never pictured you as a guy that watches football. Link to comment
hers Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 He's said before what a sports nut he is and got offended or something whena girl put his team down (or something?) So I understand he's passionate about it but CD don't c-block yourself for a game when you're trying to have more dating success. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 4, 2008 Author Share Posted September 4, 2008 I think it's completely fair and reasonable to not have Sunday's open. Why not this weekend though, CD? I am curious about that. she has plans on friday and saturday and I have plans on sunday. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 4, 2008 Author Share Posted September 4, 2008 you will only get as far as the effort you put in. if your sunday is the only day you have to yourself and the only day your date can go, well, you have a choice to make. either quit complaining here and do it, or quit complaining here and don't do it. sick of all the crap you say man. do something for once. put more effort in. nothing is going to be so perfect for you. i would have never pictured you as a guy that watches football. Well I do, a football NUT Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 you will only get as far as the effort you put in. if your sunday is the only day you have to yourself and the only day your date can go, well, you have a choice to make. either quit complaining here and do it, or quit complaining here and don't do it. sick of all the crap you say man. do something for once. put more effort in. nothing is going to be so perfect for you. i would have never pictured you as a guy that watches football. So - he has one thing that he is really passionate about. If he was available everyday of the week - and skipped football, something that she'll surely learn that he loves, wouldn't that seem "weak?" Link to comment
hers Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 I just think bc of his dating record and he's got a girl interested inhim, this isn't a time to gamble. Watch the game next week, but don't have suich a long time between the 1st and 2nd dates. Its great he's passionate about it but football won't keep him warm at night and provide safe adult fun Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 4, 2008 Author Share Posted September 4, 2008 So - he has one thing that he is really passionate about. If he was available everyday of the week - and skipped football' date=' something that she'll surely learn that he loves, wouldn't that seem "weak?"[/quote'] I know, when she asked me last night- are your plans for the weekend? and I said-"i'm free friday, saturday, and sunday" She probably would have been saying-"damm does he have friends"-lol LOL Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 lol Hersmudders~~~ Wait - does football start this weekend or next? I don't think it's good to come off as too available so the Sunday night Football is good in my opinion. Link to comment
hers Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 I dunno I mean I agree with you ITG but going off previous threads of his, I think that's a long time to wait for him to see a girl who's clearly interested in him. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 4, 2008 Author Share Posted September 4, 2008 lol Hersmudders~~~ Wait - does football start this weekend or next? I don't think it's good to come off as too available so the Sunday night Football is good in my opinion. Yeah it starts this sunday and when she asked I was like I will be with my friends on sunday watching the game. The old me would have said-"i will be home all day watching the game on sunday" lol Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 Yeah it starts this sunday and when she asked I was like I will be with my friends on sunday watching the game. The old me would have said-"i will be home all day watching the game on sunday" lol perfect time to invite her. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 4, 2008 Author Share Posted September 4, 2008 I dunno I mean I agree with you ITG but going off previous threads of his, I think that's a long time to wait for him to see a girl who's clearly interested in him. what about staying in contact with phone calls and email up until that day and discussing more about our second meeting? It;s not like I'm saying she won't hear from me or see me until next friday Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 4, 2008 Author Share Posted September 4, 2008 perfect time to invite her. Too early, not yet Link to comment
hers Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 Good idea!! Are you going to be with friends for real or are you watching it alone? This may be good opportunity for her to see you with your game face on. Invite her out to watch the game at a sports bar or something Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 Be sure to stay in touch via email and phone calls.... Link to comment
hers Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 I was "dating" a guy from offline for a while. We had a great first date and kept in touch over email/phone for 2 weeks before the next date. Had 2nd date and 4 weeks later of emails/phone we had a 3rd. That's all we got to. I dunno--it can fizzle out easily. Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 I am just wondering how this thread is gonna look like as CD progresses with his dates, gets into a relationship, gets married, has a kid....... ............... and then some years later you will see a thread started by sonofaconfuseddater Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 I am just wondering how this thread is gonna look like as CD progresses with his dates, gets into a relationship, gets married, has a kid....... ............... and then some years later you will see a thread started by sonofaconfuseddater lol. now that is great. wifeofconfuseddater? maybe? cause she doesn't understand him. then she reads his threads here and still doesn't understand him. then sees 'safe adult fun' and loses it. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 i am just wondering how this thread is gonna look like as cd progresses with his dates, gets into a relationship, gets married, has a kid....... ............... And then some years later you will see a thread started by sonofaconfuseddater post of the day...... Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 4, 2008 Author Share Posted September 4, 2008 I was "dating" a guy from offline for a while. We had a great first date and kept in touch over email/phone for 2 weeks before the next date. Had 2nd date and 4 weeks later of emails/phone we had a 3rd. That's all we got to. I dunno--it can fizzle out easily. Well in my case i will try to keep it to a week. Link to comment
hers Posted September 4, 2008 Share Posted September 4, 2008 Can't have kids if its only safe adult fun!! Link to comment
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