Juxtapoz Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 What's that thing? Whatever it is. It was probably brought on by experience. THAT THING! It's hard to explain, but it's just something they've got that makes you want them. Charisma I guess. Some people are born with it while others learn it. I think it's all about placing the energy in your eyes and speaking with them. Link to comment
MD Geist Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 Sorry, but it's on my mind from the time I wake up, to the time I go to sleep. I constantly think about women. I cannot get them out of my head. Since my sudden cease on sex. Women have droped from being number 2 on the list to 7 by the day they keep dropping off the list. Link to comment
Go Habs Go Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 As far as charisma, look at Bill Clinton and Barack Obama. Learn, utilize, and apply Jonny. Link to comment
Juxtapoz Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 As far as charisma, look at Bill Clinton and Barack Obama. Learn, utilize, and apply Jonny. Bill Clinton had it. Hell he still does. Jon Stewart. Yup. A fireball tongue always does it for me. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 I'm not saying looks don't play a factor, but personality will always win. But they do help. Most women don't approach guys. So they have to have something about them they helps. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 THAT THING! It's hard to explain, but it's just something they've got that makes you want them. Charisma I guess. Some people are born with it while others learn it. I think it's all about placing the energy in your eyes and speaking with them. I don't think you can learn it. You either have charisma or you don't. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 Since my sudden cease on sex. Women have droped from being number 2 on the list to 7 by the day they keep dropping off the list. I just can't do that. I feel bad if I don't have my release. That and I love to think about women. Link to comment
Juxtapoz Posted May 27, 2010 Share Posted May 27, 2010 I don't think you can learn it. You either have charisma or you don't. Oh yes you can! Not saying everyone can, but it's possible to learn it. It's all about how you use your body in every day movement. And once again, the eyes. Try it out, buddy Link to comment
jonny15 Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 Oh yes you can! Not saying everyone can, but it's possible to learn it. It's all about how you use your body in every day movement. And once again, the eyes. Try it out, buddy So i'd have to relearn everything. Walking and talking. I talk weird, and my walk isn't cool either. I almost trip over my own feet for no reason at times. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted May 28, 2010 Share Posted May 28, 2010 I don't think you can learn it. You either have charisma or you don't. Not true. Charisma is something you learn. I changed and there is no reason you can't either. Link to comment
In the Dark Posted May 29, 2010 Share Posted May 29, 2010 ^^ I agree.... Certain occupations do help with that. Link to comment
MD Geist Posted May 31, 2010 Share Posted May 31, 2010 Not true. Charisma is something you learn. I changed and there is no reason you can't either. YUP. Your right. Link to comment
greywolf Posted May 31, 2010 Share Posted May 31, 2010 No girl has a "Virgin fetish" I can almost promise that. They say do not mind but they really do, they really want a guy who know is experienced. What?? I would gladly give a virgin guy a night he never wants to remember. Except you forget that our whole culture seems to value womens' purity. Women go through horrible mental trauma when it comes to losing virginity. My mother kicked me out and called me horrible, awful names when she found out I lost mine at 20. Many of my girl friends share similar stories. Yeah, when I told my mom about having sex, she gave me a speech about throwing away my virginity, and that I needed to value myself more. I was 23. I think Jonny is going for the 8s, 9s and 10s. Women that good looking are almost always shallow airheads. Go for a girl that is average-slightly above average looking. A 6-7 instead of an 8, 9, or 10. Oh god... guess what? Pretty girls can be smart too. I wish guys weren't so consumed about their height. If i met a short guy with confidence, a sense of humor and "that thing" (you know, that thiiiiiing. and i'm not talking phallic), it's ON. My martial arts instructor is 5'4". I would love to get into his pants, but he is married. Not true. Charisma is something you learn. I changed and there is no reason you can't either. Exactly. I had no idea how to talk to people until I became a receptionist. Answering phones really helped with my communication skills. You know the ironic part about all of this? Many of you are complaining about the double standards women have, and that we don't want to date men that are virgins, but I've seen many of you say that you don't want to be with women who have slept around. If you're going to complain about double standards, at least don't be hypocritical. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted May 31, 2010 Share Posted May 31, 2010 No girl has a "Virgin fetish" I can almost promise that. They say do not mind but they really do, they really want a guy who know is experienced. I always wanted to give a guy his first blowjob. There were guys in my class who were cute and looked inexperienced...I always fantasized about going down on them and give them a blowjob that blow their minds,lol. Link to comment
Lamour detruit Posted May 31, 2010 Share Posted May 31, 2010 I wish guys weren't so consumed about their height. If i met a short guy with confidence, a sense of humor and "that thing" (you know, that thiiiiiing. and i'm not talking phallic), it's ON. I do not understand this. I am 5'7, so not that short, but not exactly tall either. I never even thought about my height until I came to the usa, and everyone seems to be insecure about it. I have never had an issue with it, and don't see it as a disadvantage. I came from the Netherlands, the land of giants, yet there..I never heard much about height. Also, charisma can definitely be learned. All it takes is practise, practise..and practice. Lack of communication skills come from lack of experience / practise. Link to comment
greywolf Posted May 31, 2010 Share Posted May 31, 2010 I always wanted to give a guy his first blowjob. There were guys in my class who were cute and looked inexperienced...I always fantasized about going down on them and give them a blowjob that blow their minds,lol. The cute shy guys, right? hihi I'd so do them. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted May 31, 2010 Share Posted May 31, 2010 The cute shy guys, right? hihi I'd so do them. yes, totally. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 I do not understand this. I am 5'7, so not that short, but not exactly tall either. I never even thought about my height until I came to the usa, and everyone seems to be insecure about it. I have never had an issue with it, and don't see it as a disadvantage. I came from the Netherlands, the land of giants, yet there..I never heard much about height. Also, charisma can definitely be learned. All it takes is practise, practise..and practice. Lack of communication skills come from lack of experience / practise. I don't understand what it is about the USA either. A lot of my Japanese friends tell me about how they were never insecure about their height until they came to America and told they should be. Even the still very tall ones. It'd be more embarrassing to be taller than average than average in Japan unless you play sports professionally. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 Not true. Charisma is something you learn. I changed and there is no reason you can't either. How do you learn charisma? I'm not good at faking things. Link to comment
MD Geist Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 My friend says just fake it till you make it. I sort of agree with him because I've faked confidence for awhile now and over a period of time I became a confident person. He's currently in a relationship that started just last week. He wants me to do the samething. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 My friend says just fake it till you make it. I sort of agree with him because I've faked confidence for awhile now and over a period of time I became a confident person. He's currently in a relationship that started just last week. He wants me to do the samething. I can't fake something in the hopes it happens. Maybe i'll be able to dunk a basketball if I fake being a good basketball player for a few weeks? Link to comment
MD Geist Posted June 1, 2010 Share Posted June 1, 2010 I can't fake something in the hopes it happens. Maybe i'll be able to dunk a basketball if I fake being a good basketball player for a few weeks? Its not asking to hit home runs on every bat or dunk the ball each time you take a shot. But enough to atleast go out there and take the field and go play ball. Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted June 2, 2010 Share Posted June 2, 2010 For me it was a lot of observing what others did. Plus some trial and error. Look at what the nice, confident men do and emulate that. Maybe start hanging around men that you want to be more like. Link to comment
jonny15 Posted June 2, 2010 Share Posted June 2, 2010 They have to also let me hang around them. Which generally, my company isn't welcome. That and I personally don't know any ladies men. Link to comment
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