Hunny1607307342 Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 Hey guys I realllllly want my ex to come to my art exhibition in a few dayssss the reason being its the thing that im most proud of that ive ever done , and i would always imagine him to see it. it might also give the impression that ive grown up since the break up, which i have ! So i just want your stamp of approval on this text- Hi J, my art will be on display tonight at ... 6-8pm, there will be canopies etc. Will you be dropping in? : ) Link to comment
DN Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 Go ahead - send it. Keep your expectations really low though for your own sake. Link to comment
browneyedgirl36 Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 I think I'd leave off the question at the end. You might instead say something like, "Just wanted to let you know........" And, as DN said, keep your expectations low. If he shows, great, but don't get your hopes up; just enjoy the evening whether he shows or not. Let us know what happens. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 He is your ex...why do you have to prove anything to him? I thought you were planning on simply sending him an email along with everyone else...a batch email inviting all of the people you know so that you are not singling him out. You are really putting him on the spot if you ask if he will be dropping in. I would not send him that email and would go with the original plan of the batch email. He broke up with you...not a good idea to blatantly push yourself on him. Link to comment
lady00 Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 He is your ex...why do you have to prove anything to him? I thought you were planning on simply sending him an email along with everyone else...a batch email inviting all of the people you know so that you are not singling him out. You are really putting him on the spot if you ask if he will be dropping in. I would not send him that email and would go with the original plan of the batch email. He broke up with you...not a good idea to blatantly push yourself on him. Agreed...send a mass email or just send a text with out a question. Don't ask for or expect a response. Link to comment
annie24 Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 Agreed...send a mass email or just send a text with out a question. Don't ask for or expect for a response. agree - and would you be ok with it if he brought a date? seeing as how he is your ex, and you are inviting him to an art exhbition, how would you feel if he did? Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 I think your invitation is perfect, minus the question at the end. I would say: Hi J, my art will be on display tonight at....between 6 and 8. I look forward to seeing you there. Leave no open ended questions. ~Allie Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 I agree with the others. Just send an email letting him know when the art expo is. The fact that he is getting an email from you about the art expo, should let him know that you would like to see him there. Link to comment
Aleadragonhawk Posted March 5, 2008 Share Posted March 5, 2008 Hmm. I'm not going to say that a mass email would make sure he knew she wanted him there - if I were him I'd just assume that the email had been a mistake and that I hadn't been deleted from her email list yet. Link to comment
Hunny1607307342 Posted March 5, 2008 Author Share Posted March 5, 2008 heey guys! thanks so much for the responses crazyaboutdogs i know i was initally planning on the masss email etc. but some things have happened recently, me and the ex have communicated a bit and drop each other lines once in a while just as friends type thing, so i feel like its cool to just text him about it ! I shall let you know what happens and thanks again for the feedback xxx Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted March 6, 2008 Share Posted March 6, 2008 Hunny, good luck. I hope it all works out. Have you sent him the email yet about your expo? Friendly contact is a GOOD thing. Link to comment
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