Well my story begins on Feb. 8th, my fiance just two month shy of our wedding looks me in the eye and says he doesn't know what he is feeling. Ok so I leave and think my world is over. Then the next day we talk and we decide to try and work things out (we have a house and a car and two dogs together). So for about a month I suffer living with someone, who I don't know how they feel. I sense something is different or wrong. On March 1st I can't stand it anymore and I make him tell me, what he is feeling. He says he isn't in love with me anymore. He has felt that way beginning in January. We have been together for 4 years, how in 1 month do you go from being in love to falling out of love. I just can't buy that. It doesn't happen over night, not 4 years of complete happiness. We were the couple you love to hate, really. We had everything in common and never fought and always had a good time. So he moves out, and I am stuck living in our house with the memories and his stuff. I am really suffering and he is just over me. He is fine and I hate it. I don't understand how you can love one day and the next be fine with out that person. I know I have to let him go, he let me go. His dad had a heart attack yesterday and I was the last person he called. When you love someone, they are always the first person you call, not the last. So he is reall gone, and really over me. I need to know what to do to heal, while I am living in that house with his stuff, and I have to deal with him while we sell this house. I can't get mad, because he has been so nice about it, he has been nothing but sweet. I hate that to, why can he just be ok with it, and not miss me or hurt at all. I know that time heals all things, but after 4 years it seems like there is no end in sight to all the pain. Any advice would be welcome.
Thanks- Jen