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thanks akatoro, really helps Need more replies like yours to get my courage up

help?

ok some of you might of read my other topics, i got this mad crush on this girl (never had it this bad before) and its killing me. I think im getting obsessed with her or something, everytime i see her my whole body just goes cold and then hot again, i forget everything, and time slows down. I get sad and depressed when i dont see her in the halls. Anyways back to the part that confuses me. A few days ago, i was in the halls alone, getting a drink of water. When i turned around she was walking by, i looked at her and she looked at me, one second took a hour, she smilled at me and said "hi" (think she blusehd, i think i did too) i smirked back and said "hey". She made my day, but now, everytime i see her, as soon as she sees me she looks away to the sides, but i think shes just as nervous as i am, and tries to hide her interest. Maybe shes just nervous when other people are around in the halls? People say im pretty good looking, and i think (not trying to be mean) she doesn't get hit on alot. Is she maybe intiminated? Please help me, its depressing, because i thought i got a step closer, but now it seems like im sooo far away again. I really want to get serious with her, shes special and i wont give up on her just yet. NOT THIS TIME I saw her at work a few times, and she blushed when a fellow co worker made me laugh. I think she was thinking i was smiling at her? It was a few days before the day she said "Hi" to me.

im a guy, and i do the same thing, I love it though because it makes me feel good and brightens up my day

"ditto"

ah good ol pot, nothing wrong with that. I'd just hang around her a little more and see if she really keeps looking at you, try to read some other sings too.Whatever you do, don't stop lovin dat mary jane. 8)

BUUUUMP, need more advice

yup im a guy, and cars get me all fired up hehe. Most guys i know are into cars, especially in high school. But if you don't know much about cars then just go with some funny stories, jobs, school, life. ask him if he likes hondas, if he does forget about him, if he likes VWs hes a winner

amen to that, i think the same. I enjoy the company of girls and i just love talking to them. Sex is just a bonus you get once you commit to a girl. Thats how i see it. Men that use women for "sex toys" are jerks, and sadly thats what most women go for.

sounds good but, like i said before i dont really know her at all, neither does she know me at all... i think. I used to joke around with some of her male friends now and then but i dont think thats anything. but yah, its not like we are buddies or anything, its almost like going up and talking to a stranger comon people help me

thats some good stuff there, Katie. I just wish i would see her more often keep it coming, i need every little tip i can get

yah man, but how do i start it up? if she just walks by me

oh and i saw her a few times at work, but i never say shit and i could slap myself for that

alright, here i am again... there is this girl, alot of guys might say shes nothing "hot" but in my eyes shes the cutest thing i have ever seen. Shes normal, and down to earth not one of those wanna be blonde girly girls. Here comes the but. I have never really talked to her, i made her giggle now and then in classes, even tho i didnt mean to. I dont goto the same school anymore, i only see her sometimes when i go back to my old school to visit my friends. How would i start up a conversation with her? or get to notice me? Its not as easy as people make it sound, i get butterflies when i see her and look away. Im not really shy only with this girl! HELP!

hey thanks for the reply bro 1) yah i always keep telling myself that, it sounds easy but once your about to do it, it seems like its almost impossible, it sucks. 2) i dont have problem looking girls in the eyes, i really like it when girls look me in the eyes. thanks again man, its appreciated