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Hello- Yes, I frequently have the same problem of dreaming about my ex. She and I have been broken up for close to 4 months and I dream about her in some way about every week. I studied psychology and in such was taught that dreams are a form of problem solving done by the brain as we sleep. We in many ways try to sort out our life issues when we dream. In reflection, this makes sense, as I have dreamed about work problems and academic scenarios that have been troubling. I digress. The point-It's very normal, don't look deeply into it for some inner meaning or worse yet as a sign of some sort, perhaps suggesting you should get back together. I like you do not like dreaming about her, they are often negative and set me out to have a bad day. But, what are we going to do? To the extent that we can't lay down and decide to dream about being president we can not lay down and decide NOT to dream about something. Don't fret, as you can see, other people have the same problem.

Hello- My ex of 2.5 years and I broke up over the summer. I miss her, love her, and still want to be with her. We broke up because she moved to a different area and I didn't think I could handle it-I now think I could have. Anyhow-we both have herpes, mine oral, hers the other one. I won't go into detail but it is a barrier to new relationships. Not considering my feelings at all should I be obliged to stay with her because of our commonality? Now, consider I love her and still want to be with her? What if she has found someone else? Thank you.

I to am in Chicago, though in FINC and I have had the same type of issue before. I just turn it into a personal game to be as successful as possible by just being nice and not participating in gossip. I think that God wouldn't tell u to quit, he'd want one of his players there to level the field - theres no better third base coach than God.

trust women. I would be worried as heck if i were you. go on instinct.

I dont know how old u are, but this advice is good for anyone. Someone told me while I was in the process of getting back together with the first girl i ever loved: dont ever get back together with someone if you have already been broken up. We got back together and now we broke up again....and this time for real. Getting back together created more pain than its worth man. U have lived without her for this long, I am sure u can continue. U will always resent what she did to u (which is BS by the way) and u should be angry. U should let her learn her lesson, like i should have let mine learn hers - now we're broken up and i could prob have been dating a really cool person by now. Advice: stay away, things become easier over time

All -advice pleasssseeee, My whole world has fallen in on me in 6 months. I am having a grave difficulty coping with all this: Dad-disabled with Multiple Sclerosis Mom-crazy pack rat that has ruined our household Bro-hospitalized for a month with pschotic episode Sis- (this is the best) -TODAY told me she was gay while out to breakfast. Girlfriend - finds journal of mine i vented in, uses it against me, and breaks up with me on account of it (i wanted to propose soon). Me- college student with 3 majors, working REALLLLY hard, prospects of career are fabulous, but it isnt enough to keep me happy - i am about more than just money. What am I going to do. This is a mess I can't escape, I really have no where to turn - because everywhere I turn something is worse around that corner too. I think the more I get involved to help the more it brings me down and I need to focus on school - lets not forget that I might need some support from someone too - and I can only focus on giving it to them. I have considered running away to another state and starting a new life so I don't ruin all Ive worked for. Advice, though I doubt any can be given,

Don't sweat it. I have some specific advice. I am a senior in college at a Jesuit University. No, I am not going to be a priest and am not religious - I study finance and economics. I came here because it is in a big city. Jesuit schools except Georgetown and Boston College let everyone in. Trust me, I have had classes with major idiots. Anyway heres the advice. I applied to 11 schools. 3 top tier: Ivy league type (got denied on all of them) - its ok 4 2nd tier: Jesuit schools Fordham, Loyola, and another, Got in everywhere because they saw I applied Ivy 4 Public Honors programs: heres the deal. ALL, I stress, ALL, applicants to honors programs who get denied (into the program) get accepted into the regular college. No I didn't have a 4.o. I had under 3.0 but great extracurriculars and decent SAT. So if I can do it anyone can, reply if u have more specific ques, otherwise dont sweat it - thats 8/11 ins and 3 denies just for applying to high at the beg. Good luck.

Hello all, I am new to this so forgive my lack of experience. Also, little long, please help-I need some advice. I have been dating S for 19 months (off and on) - I am going to be blunt, it has been rocky. Background: We got together and left for the summer at the end of the semester, while away we stayed together. I later learned that she rekindled her relationship with psycho high school boyfriend over the summer, lets call him M while still with me. We got back, I found out, we split, then got back together when things cooled off for me. Sooooo, semester goes on and I am still not settled by it. We break for Xmas get back together and I miss her but am still angry. A new semester begins and after not answering her calls all break I finally do, now keep in mind we weren't together all over XMAS. So I have been seeing other girls, yadda yadda, I hook up with one of her not so close friends. At this point I realize I really do love her and want more than anything to have her in my life. But, I've already been with someone else....and I neglect to tell her, I know, my mistake. The year proceeds, and she finds out, we break up, only to get back together all of this summer in May. We had, no kidding, the best summer 2 people have ever had together-it was hands down the best time of my life. Then this school year started in August. Well, she has to see this girl again. At first she would be upset for a little bit and then she would get over it - and we would proceed with the night. Suddenly, one afternoon, she had been at a function where she had to see this girl for hours, she lost it. She had a nervous breakdown, crying lots, but in a different way. She was really suffering from depression. She wasn't mean to me, but she said it was to hard for her and she needed a break. Here I am: I'm in this break, still committed to her, but her depression is driving me depressed. She says that she can't have worry about me now because she cares about me so much and I affect her so deeply -and she needs to focus on her problems. I don't get it. Is she lying? Hiding something? She tells me she loves me more than anyone she ever has, and cares about me more than she ever has for anyone. I feel the same for her, but I am having some serious trouble with this. I have nightmares, cant sleep, am constantly anxious, and miss her terribly. I am nervous that she'll realize - hey I like my life better without him. And worst of all I can't talk about this with her, because it makes her even worse. She's medicated and going to therapy but I am feeling really neglected. I love her more than anything and just want things to be the way they were this summer. Will trade love and depression advice for investment advice!! Thank you, I can't tell u what some needed advice might do for me.