Nikola

I think i might be anaemic. I dont really know. Im often really breathelss and feel as thought im going to faint after a while, and sometimes i do. I dunno fi this si a sign of anaemia but im also usually very cold even with jumpers on. Does anyone know what it could be? or am i over reacting? People have said it could be an iron difency but i dunno much about it.

I recently just broke up with my boyfriend of 10months due to distance. We had a huge argument, said things we shouldnt of and it just ended. Obviously im still majorly in love with him, i cant get him outta my mind, i cry myself to sleep and night knwoing that im never going to get the 'Night night baby, i love you xxxxx' txt msgs anymore. Knowing that i wouldnt hear him say i love you, knowing that i cant cuddle him like i used to. Ive been so messed up over it. Ive never loved someone as much as i loved him, i realise im only 16 and i need to get on with my life but i felt we were soul mates. Before we were an item he helped me out thru major depression, he was there for me when i was so upset over soemthing i felt it wasnt worht living far. He steered me away from it, now ive lost him. We broke up ona saturday, that night he went out, smoked a lot of weed and drank a lot of alcohol and apprently got over me, he then got a new girlfriend the following monday. I felt my world had collapsed. I just feel so stupid for loving someone who doesnt love me back. After way about 2 weeks ago we started talking again, then he came out with 'I still love you, you know' and i told him it wasnt fair on me coz he knw how messed up vie been over the situation. So then things went back top us not talking. I rang him on saturday night drunk outta myface. I confessed everything to him, how i felt, what i thought, everything. I ended up crying downt he phone to him and he sent he still loved me but he really liked his girlfriend. Im so confused over it. I just dunno where i stnad. I know i should forget about him and move on but i compare every new lad to him y'know? It so hard trying to get over something you love. I truly do love him and i dont think he understands that. I dont think he understadns what he's missing out on to be honest. I knwo that sounds vain but he dumped me in at the start of this year coz another girl liked him, i found out she was playing him and told him, i was the one cheering him up, i was the one cuddling him saying everythings ok, i was the one who was htere for him. I guess i just feel used?

Well, i aint a guy... But from a female point of view. Id like you to be sweet but not too forward y'know? Telling someone their beautiful is a lovley compliment but over doing it just makes you think as though your lying, so dont say it every 5mins. Id like to be taken out some wehre very social, but im only a teenager so what do i know lol? Take me to a fun fair and im all yours lol. But yeah like i said just dont be too 'in her face'

Ive always said suicide is never the answer and that its the pussys way out, but ive been feelings very suicidal lately and god knows why. Like people have said, they're not worth it. Give them a piece of your mind, get people on your side, show that what the ehll your made opf and dont et them win, hell, if it goes too far wrestle the b1tches down to teh ground and kick the shit outta them

Ask your boyfriend if its ok with him before you pierce your tongue. I know a few lads who dont like it AT ALL but most do. I hear its s'posed to be really nice, but a big bar can get in the way and bang into teeth at times, but practice makes perfect

Why is everyone mad at her that she had sex? Its only natural isnt it? Plus you were with her for a period of time so it was bound to happen. I know how you feel. I always say things i dont mean when im upset/mad. Its the way us humans work and it sucks, it really really really sucks. Just try talking to her again, tell her your sorry. Or you could completely forget about her and blank her then she'll realise what shes missing out on and one day talk to you. I know i would. It always nice to talk to someone you havent talked to in a long time