alyssa

yeh i agree wid u j-boe, people myt not need or be ready for advice but just need someone to talk to and understand them... most depressed people feel that way because they dont feel important, etc... thats very kewl of you emptysoul to offer your time to people to tok to you...but can i just please point out that your nickname sounds like your the one depressed...and that maybe it might help if you change it sori if i sound like a know-it-all or sumthing, i dont wana... but yeh wen i saw ur nickname i thought oh this person needs sum help... eniweiz...i hope your soul doesnt feel empty! the only thing that can fill ones soul with full satisfaction is the one and only Jesus Christ seek Him and you will find the desires of your heart! >>what's life worth living without the lifemaker? lifemaker=God, life manual=Bible

happiness is a choice really people are born with different personalities; sanguine-positive type, melancholic-negative type, phlegmatic-passive type or the choleric-control freak... everything in life is a choice including how you make yourself think... its also not healthy to be negative all the time. im sure if you try you can work on it and eventually change. im a melancholy and their not bad people but jus people that see things differently...if we didnt hav these people in the world there wld be heaps more chaos...anyways bak to the subject i used to be very negative, i saw the bad side of everything and i learnt that people dont find it pleasant to be around negative people, etc... so i tried my best to change the way i think and since then ive been a more pleasant person... but yeh ill pray for u and just keep trying ok it would help also if you seek the one that created you.... >>whats life worth living without knowing the Lifemaker? (lifemaker=God, life manual=the Bible) God Bless!

hehe... wellz...i think u can go the kinda shallow way...lyk getting a hot car cuz thats an asset...gurlz dig hot wheelz but yeh...thers more to ppl than looks...mayb as u mature ull get over the hot chick thing... and yeh i agree wid da other dude...mayb u shld try asking sum out...other than waiting for one to ask u out...

helo, i think both of you hav a self-esteem or shyness problem... just be friends at first...smile and stuf and try to look for signs if he lyks u or not... im really sori if im not help cuz i was in that situation b4... im in grade 11 also...haha im soo sori well, i hope it all goes well wid ya

ummmm...mayb its a good idea to tok to her bout it? lack of communication is bad u kno... uh..good luck

just ask....hey, u wna meet up sumtym? lyk for a movie or sumting?... smile, dont be shy...and if u get rejected, shes not worth it...simple 8)

hey, i think ur brave if ure a real shy guy... but yeh...shes probably shy also... unless ur getting negative responses... i think sum girls are just hard to get at especially if they hav the sweet innocent type of personality because theyre insecure and shy and playing hard to get cuz they wna make sure that u lyk em. yeh and personally as a girl i think a guy that gives alot of effort is really good. i reckon take the advice of aaliyah's song, Try Again... If at first you don't succeed Dust yourself off and try it again You can dust it off and try it again I'm into you, You into me But I cant let it go So easily Not 'til I see What this could be Be eternity Or just a week You know, our chemistry Is off the chain Is perfect now But will it change This aint a yes This aint a no Just do your thang We'll see how it goes...ohhh yeh...im telling you...girls that r hard to get are worth it cuz the ones easy to get or are too out there or in ur face are the sluts etc... hope ive helped u in sum way