White Rider

hey if you really love the guy, then i think that maybe you should tell him, just so you wont wonder later what would have hapenned if u did tell him!!!! anyway it totaly depends on you, and how u think best wishs

hey, i know what ur talking about and as a matter of fact i have the same proplem, there is the girl that i use to like , now im totaly over her and i moved to unvirsity around, sometimes i dont wanna go back to my town just so i wont have to pass next to there house and bump into here, somtimes i use the longest wirdest roads in order to avoid even the posibilty of running into here, i mean im totaly over here but still i dont wanna see her or talk to her till the rest of mylife, i can tell you what i think about the subject, maybe its only becouse you think that he lift you why he shouldnt,i mean u think that you are much beter than the person he is with right now, he is so depressed that he takes a 13 years old girl, look at it, he left u for someone else that is i dont know what, shortly he doesnt deserve to be with you, why losing your entire life and get into deep depression for someone how doesnt deserve even a look of ur eyes, the guy doesnt worth it, doesnt worth the pain ur having, and defently doesnt worth ur life, common think about it i do really know how, u feel, i bet you know the feeling of even thinking about bumping into him, but i can tell you one thing for sure taht you are much stronger than you think you are, his pass history, act like he doesnt exist,just think that they guy doesnt worth and convince ur self, ur worth more than him, ur beter than him i might not be much help and im aint that good adviser but i can say about myself that i am improved a little bet, i mean i still never wanna run into her but i have putten faith on myself that i really will be able to keep my self together if i did, i'll pass the moment without having that feeling, i may feel later but the main thing, i wont let her feel that im touched in any away by seeing here i really hope u'll get out of this couse i really know it feel like hell dont be shy to pm or talk to me in messnger or icq, i'll be glad to do any help possible

hey there u need to figure out what she thinks of you, ur saying that you have been friends for 5 years, didnt she do anything that made you feel that she does have a thing for you, or didnt u do anything to give her an idea the main thing, u dont wanna lose ur self too, i know the feel that u just cant stop ur self of telling her that u love her couse i have had a similar experince,but u have to fight that feeling,u dont want to lose her as a friend do u, but still maybe sometimes u need to take the risk, its totaly depend on you and how u think still i can till you what i did once, it may sound stupied but i did it, i told her that i love her in a joke way in one of our converstion, or just tell her ur just too curious what if..... if u get what i mean just a suggestion and im not an expert i really wish she loves u too

hey you have things to tell her but still u dont seem to actually maybe ur just not sure what do u want, think about that first man, think of all the pain you had, think how ur heart got broken, think of ur depression and im sure after u think of that u'll tell her, but first have to make sure what u r going to tell her

hey, i cant say that im an expert but i can say that i did fall on love with my best friend before, the only advice that i have for you is to be 100% confident of his feelings towards you, just try to do anything to make sure that he have the same feelings, couse in case that u did told him how u feel and he didnt feel the same, u wont be sad only for loseing him as a lover but also for losing him as a friend,ur friendship may still go one, but for sure it wont be the same (i say that from experince) its really wonderfull when best friends turn into a couple ( i hope u does have feeling for u)

totaly dont know where to start, i really find it so deficult to talk about myself and mainly my proplems, i find it really hard,i can write it down sometimes but im really incapable of talking about it to anybody, totaly not my family couse there is no way they will understand, or any other relative, and i cant talk to my friends too. i dont know,i just cant, i used to talk about it sometimes to people i met over the net but the fact that everyone i talked about my proplems with started ignoring me just after i did is stopping me from doing that again i went to unvirsity so now i live about 45 miles away from home, for the past half year, all i can feel is depression, im always feeling so down and i cant do anything at all, i cant concetrate on studing thats why im aint getting such a good results in the university, i feel totaly crashed and incapable of doing anything , i just dont seem to fit anywhere, i feel lonely all the time though i have some friends, but still i feel so lonely, and im incapable of getting any satisfaction of my self or anybody or lifeitself, i always over react, i put very high exspectation on people espacily the ones i meet online and ge attached to them so fast,thats why im disapointed of everybody even my best friends, sometimes i just feel that i hate everyone totaly everyone, i just cant stand anyone anymore, i cant trust anyone sepacily girls, and almost everyone i now is too busy from hearing me out, and the funny part, i feel sad couse there away, but also when they return and just minutes after talking to them i feel even worse!!!!!!!! (still cant explain that) i just spend hours and hours of doing nothing just wasting time instead of studing for my exams in 2 weeks, i think of death alot, nothing seems to be right inspite of the fact that my life isnt that bad, i mean if i look at it from a different point of view,its not that bad or i cant say that its the worst,but still inside me i always have that feeling, and i cant seem to get rid of it. any simple silly thing can bring back all the hurts i had on my entire life over my shoulders again, its like happening all over and over, and my crasy mind start even making it worse, i start imagening things that never happened and never will, and i buy that, and act like they just happened,i seem to torture my self,i just cant take it anymore even now after writing this, i dont think that i got even close to what i feel,i have the proplem that i always make people take the rong impression about me, i dont know, maybe i dont understand my self, or dont know what i want p.s.: sorry for the english im aint that good in it