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    You have to tell her, you would never forgive yourself if you knew and she caught something from him. Can you do something like send an anonymous letter? I am married and if I were in that situation I would want to know as soon as possible. If you let it carry on and she finds out later on, and then finds out that other people knew before her, she will feel worse. I don't think you should tell her for your own personal gains, but for her own health, safety and happiness. T
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    Hi there, the pregnancy test should be fairly accurate 1 day AFTER your period is due (and that is the soonest you should take it) , the test work on a certain hormone that is released in your urine that is only present when you are pregnant. It depends how much of this hormone you are loosing in your urine as to how accurate the test is going to be, because of this a NEGATIVE result can be incorrect, but a POSITIVE result cannot be wrong. If I were you i would wait until you are 2 or 3 days late and then test again. When i was pregnant I knew because my boobs were very firm and tender under the arms, this was the only early sign I had. I had many other pregnancy symptoms but not until later on, morning sickness (which I suffered with both times) doesn't usually start until you are 3 -4 weeks pregnant. Hope this helps, T x
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    Hi, I am a female with a tongue piercing and my husband thinks that head is much better with the bar, although from a womans point of view I'd hate to have oral sex performed on me with a tongue bar as it would be too rough, the clitoris is very sensitive and requires gentle stimulation. T
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    I agree, you have to tell him that you know and give him the chance to tell you mother about it. If he says he won't, then tell him that you will. Your mothere deserves to know the truth especially if there are many other women. Once she knows then it's up to her and your father to sort out between them, having said that she is really going to need your support at that time. T
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    When i reach orgasm, my vaginal area pulsates pretty fast sending waves of pleasure all over my body. The pulsating gradually slows down & stops but while it's going on it's amazing. I don't know if this is the same for everyone though T
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    If the right moment comes again then yes I think we would do it again. I have promised my husband that i will 'return the favour' with another girl, but we have to be totally happy with the other girl and trust her first. We have discussed the possibility of another couple too, but we would all have to be together, I could not cope with my husband being in another room with another woman and he wouldn't like it either. Like I said before, I would like to do it again as there are things that we didn't do that we wanted to do and we were all a little fuzzy headed as we'd had quite a bit to drink. I'd like to do it after a few glasses of wine, not a few bottles! T
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    I agree, hold and play with his testicles while wanking him off, this is something most men enjoy, I have also found that to run your nails gently along from the testicles along the shaft of the penis right the way to the head works wonders too. T
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    Well I masterbate all the time and have done since I can remember! It's really nothing to be ashamed of and if you know how to please yourself and can show your boyfriend how to do it to please you then you are both in for a better time. Personally, I prefer the clitoral stimulation rather than the penetration but you really need to explore to see what works for you. Have a go, you might be pleasantly surprised, I can't believe there is anyone out there who doesn't enjoy an orgasm. T
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    It was one at each end with me on all fours in the middle, then I turned around, kept on going like that I never gave them oral at the same time, but would have been happy to. If you are considering doing this, I'd advise you to take heed of all the other advice given to me first, I am sure the reason it all went so well for us is that we talked seriuosly about it first, were both completely happy with (and completely trusted) the third party, and were were prepared for the possible negative feelings we might experience (although I can say that we didn't really experience much of that). A lot of it was down to us reassuring each other too, I needed to feel loved afterwards and my husband needed to know that it wasn't a comparison. Good luck, T
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    Hi, Just thought I'd let you know that we decided to go for it (after a couple of bottles of wine) the situation 'arose' as it were and it was a very enjoyable experience for all parties. I think the reason it worked was because we all agreed it was a one off and that we have a very stable relationship and stong friendhip with the other guy. I can't say it was exactly what I'd expected - it wasn't a case of me being pleasured by 2 men, but more a case of me pleasuring 2 men. I enjoyed it just as much though and am certainly glad we did it, even if it did take a bit of dutch courage! I am of the thinking that you live life for the moment, and I would hate to look back on my life in years to come and think I wish I'd have done that when I had the chance. I have come around to the fact that it will also happen with another woman if and when we find the right person and again if the situation presents itself. T
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    hi kdreger, Thanks for your response, it brought up some questions in my mind that I hadn't previously considered..."what might happen is that is dangerous is that he pushes buttons that your husband doesn't" I had quite a lot of sexual partners before i met my husband, as did he, so I doubt that anyone else could please me better than him, especially after 10 years, but i do think the excitement could become addictive. I hope we know this guy well enough that he would not try to contact me privately, as he is a good friend of both of ours and wouldn't dream of doing anything to cause problems with our marriage, but then I suppose it always a possibility. I think it's something we will do eventually whether it's next week or in another ten years, as you have said you only live once and life is too short. I do need to feel secure that all parties can handle it before we do actually do anything though. In previous relationships (many years ago when he was young and experimental) my husband experienced threesomes with a man and woman and 2 women, and it is his preference that this time it is a male. He is not Bi, but I think having 2 members of the opposite sex pleasing me is something he would like me to experience as although my previous experience is quite varied it has only ever been one - on - one. I will chat to him about my reservations and we will go from there. T
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    Hi Spaceracer. I take your point, although we have never really considered a threesome involving another woman, I guess that I would have to accept the possibility of my husband requesting this in the future. I think if the right person was available (as in the situation with the male friend) and after plenty of reassurance then I would condider it, but as i am still unsure at this point, I think I will take all the advice on board and hold the horses at least for a while. This is obviously a huge step, which is why I posted initially, I really want advice and opinions from people who do not know us. If we do decide to go ahead with it, I don't want it to turn out to be the biggest mistake ever! Thanks for your response T
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    Hi charmed, The reason for posting I guess, is that i was after exactly what you have given me, a view of what it's like after the event, as that's not something I can see at the moment. Of course there are some reservations, as I certainly don't want to end up doing something that will hurt our marriage or our friendship. I am almost positive that it will be Ok with me & my husband (he's not bi by the way) , I am more concerned that it will destroy our friendship with the other man, which is something I don't want to do at all. I knew that if we were going to do it, it had to be with someone I already knew and trusted, but on the other hand this is the main reason for my concern. I appreciate your comments as you have been there and I haven't, so i think i will discuss this more with my husband before we jump into anything. Thanks for your advice T
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    Hi Swingfox, thankyou for your reply, This is something that we have been considering for well over a year now. We have a fantastic sexlife and it was initially my husbands suggestion so I don't think there would be any jelousy as we have spent time deciding who would be the best person to ask etc. I guess we are just at a point in our relationship where we would like to try something different. Although when the first suggestion was made I was surprised, we both feel that our relationship is strong enough that we woulod respect each other after the event (which is why we want it to be a one off, just to try it). I had to feel comfortable with the other male, which I do, although I don't think I could do it if the roles were reversed and it was another female. My husband swears he will not be jelous, but I am more concerned about the relationship with our friend, not with each other. Thanks for helping, T
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    Hi, i am happily married and have been so for 10 years, we have talked in great depth recently about bringing another male into our sexual relationship and have found a willing party who is an old and trusted friend. It is something that we have wanted to do for a while, but at the moment I am holding back just in case it spoils either relationship. We are all fully aware that it will probably be a one off and just a bit of fun, but has anyone else been in this same position ? Can you offer me any advice? Many thanks T
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