douglassmartguy

ok i know that i can get the girl and i know how i just want to know if it's right. Cause it is my best friend's sis.

ok he's the deal i'm just got out of a relationship a month ago. I really love her but she doesn't want to get back together. She's afraid that we will just get hurt agian. There is someone else that i like though. The problem is it's one of my best friends sister. I know she likes me but she doesn't know i like her. I don't know what to do. To keep trying to go back out with my ex or try to move on. And, if i should move on should it be w/ my best friends sis. Thanks, Doug

I just want to know your experinces. In Your first love realitionship who broke up with who? And why did you two break up? I'm asking this because I'm starting to think in your first love relationship you don't want to break up no matter what. I geuss it's because it feels so good. Your in love for the first time and you don't want to end it because your afraid it will never happen agian. Thanks, Doug

i'm the type of person that it's yes or no, black or white there is no inbetween, so keep that in mind while i give you my advise. I don't see the sense in being *** budies, there's no use in it. I would tell him that if he really did like you then go out with you. But, if all he wanted was someone to play with I would tell him no. I had the same problem w/ my ex gf she broke up w/ me because "it was too perfect" and she wanted to be friends w/ benifits and i told her no. If she wanted me she would have to take all of me not just the sexual part. I also think that *** buddies would be a very bad way to start beacuse it sounds like you really want a realationship but if you do it this way you might not ever get the chance. Good-luck, Doug

I think there is only one thing to do. If you really care for her than let her be happy, even if that means your misserable. But that doesn't mean you have to give up on her. Keep trying to get her to go back out. Just be careful there is a fine line between love and stocker.

This is a few questions that my ex got to start thinking about because this is what we broke up over. What is love? How do you know your in love? What is the diffrence between love and a crush? And, Do you think that once your in love you will love the person forever no matter what they do? Thanks, Doug

I am the type of person that can get in to a persons head, and figure out what their thinging just by the way that act or the questions they ask. I can figure out what they want to say but won't and Why they won't. I just have a nack for getting into peples heads. But, There is one person i just can't figure out. My GF is the only person that i can't get into her and figure it out. Why is that? Do you think it's because I'm in love or just becuase i don't want to, or is she just that diffrent. Thanks, Doug

i might be crazy but what i think you two should do is completely isolate yourselves from each other for two weeks. at the end of the two weeks one of two things will happen you'll still be thing about him day and night and then you two should hook back up. But, what also could happen is the one of the two of you could start to get over the other. At least this why you'll know for sure what to do. Good-luck, Doug

it sounds like she likes you, but if she gets mad at you so easily a realstionship might not last that long

ok here is the deal me and my ex had one of those on and off realationships for 4 months. We broke up three times. The first was because she said we should go on a break and never told me why.(later i found out it was because it was to perfect) While we were on the breck one of my friends told me that she was ask this other guy if he would ever go out with her. I believed him and went balistic and she told me we were going to start going back out. while we were broke up... well i not that good with break ups. i wrote her i note telling her that that was low and if he didn't like her she lost everything and got nothing. i found out later she never said that and she forgave me for the note. then we stated going back out. the second time it started the same way as the last she was afraid because it was to perfect. This time i didn't go haywire and agian she didn't really give me a reason why we broke up. after a while she realized that she loved me and she didn't care if it was perfect or not she just wanted to be with me. Then there was this last time. After the last time we got back to geither it wasn't the same we were fighting all the time and we felt more like friends then boyfriend and girlfriend. Then this day she wrote me a note asking me how i knew that i love her. I told her that if she is asking me this then shes not questioning weither i love her but if she loves me. That made her kind of mad. (she blow up ) If there is one thing that i can't stand it is not being able to make up your mind. I couldn't take it any more and broke up with her. About two weeks later we were thinking about getting back to gatther and the she says she does want to because all were going to do is hurt each other agian. I didn't want to screw up agian and say some stuff i didn't mean so i blocked IMs E-mails and phone calls from her. Now it's been two weeks an i want her back like you can't believe. sense we broke i haven't sleep well, not a single night, and it's been a month. all i can thing about is her i love her so much. If you could give me your input. It could be on anything(if we should go back out, how i should ask her back out, if its just going to happen agian, anything) Thanks, Doug