nicsie

2 months after my ex dumped me....he wanted me back..saying that he loved me and he wants to be with me forever..etc. Well, of course....i said yes, but we wanted to take it slow again....but in the end, it didn't work out....my feelings totally changed. He just wanted me for sex anyways..he missed the sex, relationship and not me. I learned the hard way, this time i had to let him go...and it was the best thing ever. I moved on..and happy where i am today..w/o him!

I had a messy break up but we ended up back together..but we talked alot about it. Open Communication is the best. Even though in the end we decided to break up for good. But if you want to give it a second chance, i think you can make it work. COMMUNICATION!!!

Just wondering how to move on when you still care deeply about your ex even though he has moved on. He broke up with me about 5 months ago...and i am doing great, i did'nt want him back, i was ready to move on ..until i find out that he got this girl pregnant that he has been seeing. My heart was crushed all over again. All the feelings came back to me. Now all I can think of is how he is going to be a father. We were together for 3 years and at times i thought he was the one. He moved on too fast....granted he probably didn't want to be a father so soon....but didn't i mean anything to him. Since our break up we have been talking back and forth..just friendly conversation, he keeps saying how he thinks about me alot.and ..i knew he was dating..etc..but now he has a different life now....he is going to have a child...it just makes me sick, probably the fact that i was his for so long and now i am not important to him any more...this girl is and there future child. ahhhhh!!!!...Why is it that guys can move on so fast. I try not to think of it, its not my problem , i don't have to deal with it... but i just can't let go of him even though i didn't want to get back with him, i wanted him as a friend and it probably won't happen....i want to email him, i want to call him, but i can't and i won't....i have to try to cut my ties with him. But its so hard when i care for him so much..and probably still love him. Sorry for venting..i thought i was doing alright theses past weeks, but it all comes back to me....my friends just tell me to move on....i want to but its sooo hard to...Please help me....thanks for listening.

I am in a similar situation, my boyfriend broke up with me about 5 months ago. I thought i was over him, but now i find out he is dating other people and actually going to be a daddy with one of them. that was the hardest thing i had to deal with. Even thougt i didn't want to get back with him..its so hard knowing that he is moving on without me. We were together for 3 years....and its so hard..but i need to look toward the futures. I think you should not worry about her and what she is doing. You need to break all contact with her. Its going to be much harder if you see her and find out what she has been doing. Don't look back and move forward and i promise you that things will get better!!!!!

I know exactly what your going through, my boyfriend broke up with me cause he was focusing on his career..but i thought..if he really loved me..we would work through it, right? Wrong, i guess he couldn't handle the stress of everything and let me go....yeah, i am upset, but i looked back am i am glad he let me go, i couldn't wait for him to realize that he wants me....we both really loved each other and still apart of each other lives....i am trying to move on w/o him but its really hard..and too make matters worse, i just found out he is going to be a daddy...just after 5months of our breakup..he is with another girl and she is pregnant already. So i look back and wonder if it was just me.....he didn't have time for me, but he has time for this other girl?? I just don't get it. I am hurting but i know i have to move on..look towards the future......its for the better.....

I need help. My ex and i have been broken up for about 5 months......we have remained friends..talking every once in a while. I know that we were not meant to be and accepted that fact and trying to move on with out him. I thought i was fine until the other day we started chatting and he tells me that he is going to be a daddy!!!! I was in complete shock. I knew he was dating and was fine with it, but to know that he is going to have a child...breaks my heart all over again. Maybe the fact that deep down i am not over him...we were together for 3 years and he was mine for a long time and now there is somone else more important to him. We both love each other but knew that our relationship wasn't working. But why did he have to move on so fast...granted he probably didn't want to be a daddy so soon, but jeez...use protection??? anyways....i thought i wasn't bothering me but it is....deep down I was holding on to him....maybe for the future..i had a friendly tie to him...but now thats severed and feeling pain all over again. I just want it to go away...its like a dream. When he told me he was really scared...he was very worried about me and made sure i was okay, he is truly a good person and i do want to remain friends with him, but i don't think i could do it now. when the day he tells me that his child is born, i think i will go insane....but hopefully by then i will have moved on with my life and found someone to make me happy and forget about him. I have to keep my mind off of him...i have to move on...i have to realize that i can't fall back on him..that he has moved on and i should too! Its really hard..knowing that he is going to raise a child..do things with it, be a good father figure to it....and i won't be there and he is sharing his life with someone else....how can one man make my life so miserable....i thought i was over him but this all brings it back. You never think things could happened to you..and bam! it happeneds and you are thrown into something you don't want to be...it hurts soo bad!!! Sorry this is so long, i just needed to vent and know i am not the only one feeling this. thanks..... anyone welcomes to email me and help me through this would be great. email removed