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1. Everyone that is outgoing and beautiful likes to flirt with everyone because its the social thing to do. 2. That shouldn't matter. 3. No, but you won't be getting any much. The more you get out there and try to get some the bigger chances you have of getting a lot more. I'm not talking about just sex, I'm talking about love. Look at it this way: Do you see lots of couples around you? Don't they piss you off? Why? Are you jealous? Then go get someone. Now when it comes to asking a girl out. Just talk to a girl, if its good conversation, ask her out to coffee then get her number. The rest gets easier from there....

I don't know what to do in this small town and she's lived here her whole life. It just feels like I lack experience and I do. The only thing I can think of is eat dinner, rent a movie, go to the movies, I don't know about ice skating. I tried it once and I was alright, it wasn't that fun for me because I was afraid of falling. And then theres just one street in this town, its full of bars where all the college kids go. Theres a nice museum 2 hours away. Any ideas?

Ok, so I need to setup a good 2nd or 3rd date(which ever of us considered the last few meetings dates) where it could lead to more? Any ideas?

Thanks guys. Lovin the ideas.

For example, a movie date. I'm not even picking her up, we're meeting there. I'm guessing its going dutch?

I just realized that putting my fingers through a woman's hair is the easiest way for me to show intimacy and body language. I'm speaking in the context of me saying something like "you're hair looks better this way or I like what you did with your hair." I think that move works great and natural for me as I've picked up a few girls doing that. How do you ladies feel about someone touching your hair in that sort of matter?

DIfference is, I'm a guy. Its not like I could get pregnant.

That sounds more like parental safety over their daughter. I could see myself doing that with my daughter.

In the United States, the legal drinking age is 21.

I feel like that's an uncomfortable subject to talk about with them. And yes, I live on my own now and things are much more easier.

They didn't let me date even until I was 17, 18 was kind of iffy. Is it because of a safety thing? Cultural thing? Religious thing? I couldn't even see girls that went to my church. My mom was heavily against it, and I don't know about my dad. He wasn't that bad. I'm just wondering whats the parental reason behind that?

Is there any hope on myspace? I know my friend has a girlfriend...in another state...he met her over myspace. He also has like 3000 friends. So I'm talking to this girl that lives way up north out of state. We've been sending messages back and forth to each other. Also, my myspace looks so anti-socially unpopular, I only have 43 friends, half of them being bands. How do I advertise myself? Is it even a good dating site? Also I would like to know about the Western Courtship Ritual.

Yeah, I got a coffee table and end tables with this dining set. It does look out of place. I do have a full bedroom set complete with system and TV with no cable.

I just don't want to feel like I'm coming on to her too hard. I wish girls would guide me in intimate ways such as taking my hand and putting it in certain places. Does that all depend on how much a girl likes me? From experience, that has happened only when I assume they were horny or drunk. Also my assumptions, should I really rely on them? This first date I had with this one girl, it just felt like a real drag, like she was different from the first time I met her and negative. Of course, that might just be my perception because she was probably tired, but part of me feels like giving her another chance for another date.

That sounds very new age hippy and a good idea. Painting seems like too much work, what about those silk wall upholstery things. And I've been needing a tree to cry to.

LOL I thought you were talking about sex through craigslist at first....I just don't know if I want used furniture, seems kind of gross, especially a couch. I know if people knew what I didn't on my furniture they wouldn't want it.

Was everyone like me before? As far as asking a girl out, and then going through these worries? Did most people go through this through high school, even middle school? I was only allowed to have crushes for the first 18 years of my life. I brought a girl I was in some kind of relationship with to my house to swim in my pool, and my mom called her a wh***.

Yeah, its a one bathroom one bedroom, 17 year old apartment that supposedly smells like carpet grease or whatever that is. I'm use to the smell now, but my parents would like for me to move into something better but its my money. I got a dining table with chairs, coffee table with end tables for 200 bucks from the landlady. My bed is pretty warm, sexy and comfortable. Tiger striped fur baby! Rawr! The walls are empty though, and I don't have a TV or couch as I said before.

Crap thats just as hard as before in asking a girl out. This gets more difficult doesn't it? Sometimes I feel like I can't be a boyfriend, and it would be so much easier and a special feeling if the girl made all the moves.

Hey I think I lack common sense. Uh I got in 4 car accidents, but none this year, so there is hope for me still. I don't know if I could be romantic. It just feels uncomfortable and unnatural to me. And for example, I can't really be original in my art, I can only do portraits and still life.

Or I could just be like the doctor from Grey's Anatomy, who owns just a trailer, and I could go to her place. But then do I wait for her to invite me into her place, or do I invite myself? Does it just depend on the intimacy of the night? There are so many questions that I knew would come up about dating because I wasn't allowed to date back then. And here I thought asking a girl out was hard at first, but its nothing now. I definitely would hate to rely on the internet for marriage advice later on in life. I hope someday I could handle myself, but I really need youse guys help right now.

Clothes mean nothing. Its more about your attitude that make the clothes. Dress however you feel. Just don't wear that tux all the time.

I can't afford anything much right now I really need the DL on dating. Like do I have to call a girl often like everyday? How often must I call? Is texting okay too? I just need to know everything that I must do after a first date, and some date ideas would be great too, so that I'm not being boring. When should I take a shot at getting intimate such as holding hands and getting close? The last girl I took out, we were on a couch and it seemed like she was sitting away from me.