jorgehorge23

I talked about this girl I'm interested in yesterday and today I had to call her for 'business' reasons. Anyway our conversation was all business and I never asked her how she was. I feel like we were flirting in the past but I have the tendency of not showing interest when I really am (does this make sense?). Now I'm kicking myself in the back and I'm wondering tif hat killed my chances. Do women usually lose interest in a single phone convo? I'll see her again in a couple days but now I dont know what to do Thanks

First of all thanks for the replies. I never thought you can turn being intoverted to being mysterious. I need to work on this one but I think that confidence factors in a lot. I guess being a confident introvert goes a long way compared to just being an introvert. So how can you really tell if someone is interested before asking someone out? are there signs out there the girls give out to make it obvious that they really like a guy?

Hi everyone, I have been checking this site regularly the past couple of days and I really like the advice people are giving so I'm hoping everyone can help me a little bit. Lately, I have girls call me sweet names in school (college), but the problem is those girls are taken, so I don't put much weight on their 'sweet talk.' I am however a bit concerned as I feel like I'm being treated like a baby, and don't know exactly how to take those (although I appreciate the compliments and they do make me more confident). However, I met this girl a few weeks back and I know for sure she is single. We both have similar personalities as we both smile a lot and I love making eye contact with her and she seems to be responsive. My problem is that she is already working while I'm still in school (one more year). I feel insecure about asking her out becuase of this (she is older than me, but I usually hang out with friends who are older anyway). So my questions are: 1. Why do girls flirt when they are not single? Does that mean they are attracted to me or just playing with my head? 2. Am I setting myself up for failure with the girl I talked about since she is ahead of me (in terms of career)? 3. I'm naturally introverted, but I'm working on becoming more outgoing. Is being introverted necessarily a bad thing? Thanks