emit_remmus
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Neither of us is old enough to buy a drink.
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Should I? Its empty and all I have is a bed and dining table, and nothing else. No TV, no couch, nothing.
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Dinner and movie? Or maybe a walk down a strip full of bars and restaurants and go dancing?
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What does go out on town mean? Which girl are you talking about?
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Is that intended for Wilhelm or me? What do I do next? go out on the town? I don't get it. Leave town?
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What should I do next?
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I guess it went alright. She was kind of a drag tonight and negative a few times, maybe because of lack of sleep? We had few moments of silence but picked it back up. I just found it hard to converse with her with some of the negativeness. I tried being sensual as far as poking and stuff and getting close. The night ended with a hug and I told her lets do it again. Oh and I had this feeling of inexperience in everything compared to her because I didn't really have a life back then. My room is empty at this moment, no furniture, no posters, nothing.
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I know but it just happened like that. I just wanted to try some more. I'm not even sure if they're dates since I didn't say the word date.
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This just became a thought to me, but what do I do if one girl I'm seeing catches me with another girl I'm seeing. This is a small town. I coincidentally come accross people I know all the time.
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Do I just let things flow out naturally? Should I try to make the initiative to get more intimate? Can I get some ideas?
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I stopped being shy because I was tired of not talking. Back when I was 17. If you have something to say say it.
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First, how old are you? Shyness is a hard phase to overcome.
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Handle differently and error in possibily seeing too much
emit_remmus replied to emit_remmus's topic in Dating Advice
Hey I'll give more details through PM. I need a decision right now though. -
Vague as possible. See someone one night at thing, get number, meet up next day for another thing. Too much?
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38 Years old....Folks ive "been there", im "still there" and
emit_remmus replied to bruce21b's topic in Dating Advice
If you don't want to be alone, don't do things in your own little solidarity, inside an empty physical room, or even in your head. Seek out others, but at the same time not everyone will be accepting, thats because they are probably not compatible anyway. The ones that do talk back and forth with you, those are the ones. If anything change you're routine. Go to a McDonalds and while you're waiting in line do some push ups. -
More happiness for me tonight. Wilhelm, just find your motivational point. With that you will find endless happiness at every corner. These days have been good for me.
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Whew. I'm having a case of happiness right now.
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I hate it when you call the first time and it rings for awhile and then you get sent to voice mail. Then you really have no choice but to leave a message. Then you're forced to have to wait for them to call you back. If they don't return the call, then you must assume they forgot about you and you have to move on. Theres just a lot of things that have to happen to make things work. It almost it seems like everything has to run smoothly step by step. There can't be any what ifs.
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So you are saying call her right now? Its night but not that late, not even 10. Point the conversation towards LOST? If that fails, ask for coffee out Wednesday anyway? If that fails go to Thursday? If that fails go to Monday?(I hope it doesn't go all the way to Monday) If LOST is her show, then ask for coffee out first on Wednesday? Then ask if she would like to watch it together later that night? lol thats my outline for the conversation, but is that what you're saying to do? I don't want to screw up. I really hate making brash decisions without any thought, I have to think about this.
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What would you think if I first asked you out for coffee, then later in the day at night, asked if you would like to watch LOST on Wednesday? Assuming she watches LOST. Doesn't that seem kind of clingy? Or could I just call tomorrow, Tuesday, point the conversation towards LOST and ask to watch together on Wednesday, if that doesn't work out then suggest the Thursday and then say I'M REALLY FLEXIBLE ON MY SCHEDULE?
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I'm going to think on that LOST advice annie; it sounds good but its all assuming she likes lost is open on wednesday, but my work schedue is me working Tuesday night tomorrow, Friday all day with a 3 hour break, Saturday with a 3 hour break, all day, and Sunday all day with a 3 hour break.
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For instance, I met a girl today and got her number. I should call her tomorrow, but I was planning for a date on Wednesday to correlate the possibility of watching LOST together. But if I am calling tomorrow then I should plan for Thursday? I don't know about Friday, Saturday, or Sunday night. I have to work. The only problem I see is work and another problem I see is trying to figure out a set date on the phone call, I don't want to lose my dignity at the sametime, going through all the days of the week.
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Question about dating in college. I heard its really casual, as far setting up the date. How do you determine what days are good to set a date when calling up the girl? Is calling a day early than the intended date too early? Should the girl be called the same day as the date?
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I don't know about being a hermit. I know I will probably take a break on advancing onto any girls now. I will try to hang out with my close friends whenever I can. I will also try the alone thing more. This time a movie. I still need to get me a tree to grow. I will try to get active into the 2 clubs I'm in after midterms are done with.
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38 Years old....Folks ive "been there", im "still there" and
emit_remmus replied to bruce21b's topic in Dating Advice
I DO NOT WANT TO END UP LIKE THIS. This thread really scares me. I don't know how I could handle living like that. I would probably be sad lonely hot looking man.