Hi everybody, i'm writing this for a friend of mine, who i've tried to help, but i know i can usually get good advice off of here so here goes. My friend recently came out of a troubled relationship, in which he fathered a beautiful baby girl. This relationship went down the drain however. This person has now met someone new though, who has a child of her own. This new lady has shown every sign of liking my friend, has even kissed him a few times (on the lips). Although if my friend decides to try and hug or show affection, the girl tends to close up and throw up emotional barriers around herself. Add to this the fact that he tell this lady everything, no secrets, and this lady seems to be able to open up to him, despite her being a very private person. Now i know that she has had trouble in past relationships, illustrated by the fact that she is a single mother, and also that she is a bit nervous of my friends ex, worrying if she is going to come back into the picture. She says that she needs time in order to make the right decision, and take things very slowly, but she does not seem to be making any progress at all in making a decision. Now I was wondering, what would you say my friend should do? He says he has fallen very much in love with this girl, and the waiting is driving him crazy.