Hello, my husband left me a month ago and i am taking it pretty hard. We had problems but we were working on it, this is the second seperation in 4 months. The first time I told him to leave this time he left on his own. We both were doing things wrong and we both wanted to be right fighters. I was changing the things that he didnt like and he was slowly changing the things that I didnt like. basically our problems was him talking to women online in more than friendly way. Eventhough I trusted he wouldnt do anything in real life he did fall in love with someone online. His problem with me, and why he says he left is because I was always checking up on him. He says he was tired of all the accusations and me being suspicious. He also says I was controlling and this is what I was working on because I was. And I did check up on him. I was working on that, but I slipped and checked and he left.
He says he is over and done. He just couldnt take it anymore. He says he doesnt hate me, he says he loves me but isnt in love with me anymore.
The problem is I cant let go of him. we have one child together and I love this man so much. For me he is my soulmate, my true love my other half and I want him back. My mind tells me to give up and let him go since that is what he wants. I want him to be happy, and he says right now he isnt. My heart wont let go though. I need him, I love him. He is my everything. Any advice on what to do? I am trying this since I am about to breakdown on all levels. Is there hope or am I just lying to myself?