Bawls44

I recently met this girl that goes to my school. She is a freshmen, while I am a junior. I personally dont really have a problem with it, but It seems like it will be hard to get around what everyone thinks about it. I know it dosent matter in the end what people think, but I cant help it, it still bothers me no matter what.

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I have also felt the same way as you recently. I walk down the halls of my school and look at all the couples and how happy they are. I have had glimpses of love before myself, but never really truly experienced it. I also feel a emptiness inside of me from time to time, wishing to have someone who I can actually love. All you can do is keep waiting and holding out for that special someone. It will come. Love is like a mountain, hard to climb, but once you get to the top the view is beautiful.

Well first of all, you didnt techically cheat, since you were single. But I would probally feel the same way if I really liked a girl then another girl came into my life out of nowhere and somthing happened between us. I believe the first girl sort of seems like a lost cause to me, but I cant really entirely know that because I am not you. My best advice is just to follow what your heart says, but you have to be cautious because your head gets in the way of what you truly feel like.

Hey, I actually had this same problem recently with a girl I met at my friends house. I thought she was one of the prettiest girls I had ever seen in my life. She lived kind of far away, so it was hard. I was always obsessing over her, looking at her myspace, wondering what she was doing, probally all of the same stuff you do. I hung out with her acouple of times, and I was always trying my hardest to show how much I liked her. She then later started to ignore me, and I think I now realize that being overly obsessive can be very bad for a relationship. I believe that it can really turn people away from you when you are constantly trying to involve yourself with them. She eventually stopped talking to me. If you really care about this girl, I think you try your hardest to stop obsessing, everything happens for a reason. If its meant to be, then it will work out. If not, then you keep searching like the rest of us.