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JJRadical

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  1. Yes its bad to EXPECT the whole picture.

     

    Trust is about not needing to know all the specifics of the whole picture and knowing everything will be ok. You are far from this.

     

    Are you a member of the Taliban per chance?

     

    Keep demanding the whole picture and you'll be the one out of the picture...

  2. ...Here's where you strikeout...the word "EXPECTATION"...who are you her Dad?...if you were a good communicator, you'd back off and let her be herself, and all would be revealed to you...

     

    So the answer is B)Control. In like you have none...and when you do it'll be an illusion anyway...folla?

  3. If you had to sum this up in one sentence...

     

    ...Girlfriend has a crush on another guy, is confused,...what should i do?

     

    DO...take a break...stop pressuring her...think about moving on..your own thing...be relaxed.

     

    DON' T...meet with her on Wedsnday...go to her birthday party...buy her gifts...contact her in anyway...be angry.

  4. When you stop talking to him and decide to move on...lonliness can break anyone down...thats why there is solitary confinement in prison...start thinking of ways to expand your social circle...and i bet if i put your statement under a microscope " they were all happily married or dating" i could prove this statement untrue...just focus on improving your situation and stop comparing yourself to an ideal distorted version of others...

  5. The antidote to dealing with back stabbers is to avoid the drama and going down to their level...

     

    Joe is making a struggle for power. Instead of getting rattled by this be excellent and focus on the task at hand...you still don't know if he said something to Fred or not...you are playing his game...reacting to him...you must play your game...Joe will reveal himself to others soon...by you staying above the fray long term you will get respect and Joe will not be trusted...trust me if he pissed you off like that eventually he will piss off others...as far as you marking your territory if you feel you must then do so...but better to allow those you mistrust to not feel as if they are being attacked by you...they will let their guard down and may need you and then at that pivotal moment is when you unsheath your blade...

  6. Your making it too easy for him...he's insecure...asking how your love life is a way of beating around the bush and finding out for sure if he's in or not without actually asking you out...he is either not that into you or too insecure to pursue you...but his ego feels good...affect a regression...ignore him a couple of times...he starts joking around with you don't play his game...then he'll start pursuing you harder...don't jsut be like, "here i am, lets go out." Some guys are intimidated by that especially a baby like him...

  7. Notice how he wanted to go for a drink with an old friend shortly after the neatly mapped out future was planned...

     

    I especially like the "I still find fault..." "I didn't think our lifestyle at home was working..." lines.

     

    Hmmmmm...do i want to go out with an old friend for a drink/go on a trip with my family or do i want to be with someone who is going to find fault with me, attempt to change me, and offer me a future full of responsibility and pressure/stress...

     

    ...yea go out with your new friend...he don't care...

  8. Yea. By "in" i mean the spark is there, they've noticed you, they've noticed you as MORE than a friend...girls don't stare at guys, hold eye contact for a second, then look away who are potential friends...doesn't mean "your there" so don't let it go to your head...cockiness will kill it faster than RAID...but the potential is there to progress...

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