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Don't have any regrets!!! Take a chance and ask her out! Let us know what happens! Lots of luck to you!

So you see a girl you like standing in a crowd. You would love to go over and say hi so you start weaving your way through the crowd in her direction. She isn't looking your way..you are right near her and than..you get too nervous to say anything to get her attention so you end up walking right past her and it looks like you just ignored her. Have you ever done this? Why else would you walk right by her in a crowd if you hadn't wanted to approach her in the first place?

Can any shy guys out there relate to this? What is his issue with me?

Are there specific ways that a guy will act towards a girl he is turned off by who comes over to talk to him? Howto tell the difference between a guy who is uncomfortable around a girl because he is shy but really likes her alot and a guy who is totally not into her and is uncomfortable with her approaching him?

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Is this typical of shy guys? I know this guy was looking at me from and when I turned and caught him we just looked at each other so I smiled and waved and he just didn't respond like like he didn't see but i'mpretty sure he was looking at me, so than I quickly turned away so as not to look foolish...this happened twice with the same guy..Ithink he is shy b/c when I talk to him close up he always looks down at the floor but i know he is totally aware of my presense...

This guy who I like was sitting next to me and normally we are very shy and awkward around each other but for some reason we got to talking about how he is going back to school to get his phd and he was telling me how anxious and excited he is and that its a hard change b/c he's not 18 anymore... I told him Iwas excited for him and he seemed so pleased ...Do men share confidences like this with just anyone , or does he feel a special something for me? Also when I told him how I remember that he had told me a while back that he had been thinking about going back to school, he looked down and this shy smile came over his face....think he likes me?

I read that guys use the "accidental touch" as a common flirting signal. What does this mean and what kind of excuses do you use to touch a girl? How do you go about using this little trick? Also, how would agirl know that this is being flirty or if it really isn't an "accident? Thank you!!!!

Welll,this guy wsa and I were always very shy around each other and little by little I think we are gettig more comfortable..I don't know if he will ask me out yetbut I just want to know what signs I should look for to see if he is indeed flirting with me...

I think this guy likes me,he's always making little excuses to touch me like brushing past me or handing me things and touching my hand also when he sits next to me he leans close to me to whisper something to me...is this what guys do when thay like a grl? What are some other obvious signs or excuses guys use to flirt?

Your answers are all great but how can i be sure he isn't just not into me? What is typical behavior if he wasn't into me? Thanks You are the best!€

So when I approach this guy from afar he makes eye contact and smiles but when I stand close and try to talk to him, he always looks down at the floor. I know he is aware of my prescence and is listening to what I am saying..is that typical of being shy? What would constitute disinterest in me instead of shy? Thanks for all your patience and great answers so far!!!

Just curious...I was sitting with a bunch of workmates and at one point got up to go to the bathroom, while I was gone my friend made a dirty joke and this guy that I work with who is NOT a prude or uptight or anything turned to her and said "" How would you interpret this?

Lets say you don't know if she likes you or not...just how do you act without analyzing why she approached you? Justa girl you are not interested in?

You don't dislike her , you just aren't into her...how do you act around her if she approaches you? Do you act awkward and uncomfortable, friendly b/c you just don't care or completely indifferent? Just trying to diffrentiuate b/t a shy guy and unintrested guys attitudes. Thank you!

Yup, same guy...I keep feling like if he were interested he would do something...i can't imagine me making anyone nervous to that extent..also, he is not a shy guy in social situations,,just seems to be like that around me..it makes me feel really insecure

but do you think that look is normal if he is interested or does he look at me like that b/c he doesn't like me? I'm sorry. I'm just insecure

I posted this in another forum byt I"m trying to get a range of answers so here I am again. My question is this, I'm pretty sure I'm dealing with a shy guy who happens to be shy only when he is around me b/c otherwise he is a pretty outgoing social guy. Anyways, I have been having an "eye contact" fling with him for a while to try and warm him up and let him see me as "safe".He always meets my gaze whenever he sees me and I catch him peeking over at me from afar but sometimes when I am close enough and I quickly glance at him and meet his eyes, there is a funny look in them like a "scared and frozen" look similar to "deer inthe headlights". It kind of makes me feel insecure that maybe he doesn't really like me. Can anyone give me some insight on how I should interpret this? Many thanks

thanks guy, but does this look he gives me indicate that he likes me?

I like a shy guy who is only shy around me from what I have gathered...I catch him looking at me and he's always hanging around me but won't talk directly to me, rather the people who are around me. I am trying to make eye contact when I am near him and he always reciprocates, like we totally look right into each others eyes when we look at each other but sometimes I am puzzeled by this funny "scared" look that he gets like a "deer in the headlights" look. It makes me feel a bit insecure that maybe he doesn't really like me. Does this make sense? Can any shy guys out there explain this? How should I read it? Should I just stop trying to make eye contact and connect with him?

What factors might cause a shy guy to push beyond his fears and ask a girl he likes out? Does it have to do with how the girl acts or is there nothing she can do. Please don't say "Ask him out" That's not an option at this point. Thanks

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could you give me at least a hint how i would know? I don't want to risk making a fool of myself if he is not into me!

Uh....I think you need to make a move b/c I did that with a guy i liked who was giving me signs that he liked me but didn't do anything and I was getting annoyed so i tried the ignoring thing....din't work but seeing as how you are the guy, time to step it up a notch.

This kind of game could go on forever if someone doesn't step up to the plate and do something and it sounds like it ain't gonna be him so do yourself a favor and ask him for coffee or think of some way to do something together with him so he can start to feel more comfortable around you and won't be scared b/c thats what it sounds like he is.