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Update. I had a good father's day weekend but this past week we haven't had much communication. She stayed up late every night working on the computer and sleeping in the guest bedroom. She told me yesterday she was going to stop staying up late and start sleeping with me again. I asked her if she was sleeping in the other bedroom because she was afraid I would make a move on her. She said that wasn't the reason. I then told her I wouldn't make a move on her anymore because I was tired of being rejected. If she wants sex she can make a move on me. She didn't like this idea but didn't say much about it. I told her I wanted to talk about some things after this weekend's visit to the in-laws. An answer to confused-wife's question about whether I am selfish in the bedroom. NO. Not at all. I try and please her several times before I am pleased myself. Thanks for everyones help with this. This forum has given me several ideas. I know I keep dragging my feet with this situation.
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What do you consider the most romantic accent?
floridaguy replied to Slick's topic in Sex and Romance
I like southern women with accents and french. But I haven't had any experience dating either. -
Sorry about your grandmother starfall.
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Hey Mark do you have an update?
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I prefer a hand job any day to a blow job. I love kissing my wife while she does it. Although that hasn't happened in awhile.
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I just titled it "going insane" because I feel like the lack of sex is driving me insane. Nothing extreme has happened between us. We have been communicating better and not arguing as much but the sex still isn't there. I am going to try and talk to her again tonight and see what happens. I think I will tell her I'm tired of being rejected and when she is ready to have sex she can make the first move.
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Do women feel like hand jobs are degrading to women? Do women feel like that this is just servicing their man?
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I talk to her when I get home from work but never about sex. We do need to sit down and have a serious talk about us.
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I'm afraid to do that because she might not want me to stay.
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I have asked her if she is depressed and she says she isn't.
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No kids sleep in our bed with us. My wife works on the computer late at night in the guest bedroom. She usually falls asleep so we don't even sleep together much anymore. I try to get her go out more without the kids on the weekend but she rarely wants to go. We do need to meet people and make new friends but both of us are shy and not very outgoing. A neighbor keeps asking my wife to do things but she comes up with excuses not to do them. This morning I was up early to work out and tried to snuggle with her and maybe more. As soon as she felt me up against her she rolled on her stomach and put her head under her pillow. She was asleep but I just wanted to hold her for awhile. Its like she is completely turned off by me. How many women out there would wake up and give their husband at least a hand job to start off the day right?
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I have sent her an email to this site before with similar posts as mine. I didn't tell her I had been posting. She just glanced at it and didn't even spend anytime looking at it. She is just ignoring the problem.
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I am VERY NICE to her. I do a lot of housework. I just took her and the kids to disney for the weekend. I try and listen to her and communicate with her as much as possible. I take care of the kids completely when I'm home from work and she is still unresponsive to my sexual needs.
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I'm not sure she has been masturbating or not.
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I don't think my wife falls into any of these scenarios. However she does focus on the kids when there is a problem with us. I really don't have a clue what is wrong with her. I don't think it is all physical. I haven't asked her if she is still pleasing herself without me.
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That is funny macgyver
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For me having kids is worth putting up with some turmoil. However I'm about to reach my breaking point. The only part that is missing in marriage is the sex for me.
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I have tried using candles before. No luck.
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We have all weekend to our selves. Her parents are going to take the kids. Hopefully we will have time to talk about things and MAYBE have sex. Except I think its about that time of the month.
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I am afraid to do that. I think she might just want to end it. First I want to be happy with myself and on my medication for awhile before I could have a 'make or break' conversation. So she knows I did all I could to make our marriage work.
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She tells me she loves me but i'm not sure she does. She might love me but isn't "in love" with me. I don't feel love from her most of the time.
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She had a csection on both of our kids. She has told me in the past that sometimes she has nothing left to give me because she is getting and recieving so much love from the kids. She has a doctor's appointment in June. Hopefully she won't cancel it again. I haven't ever thought about her being embarrassed about talking to the doctor about it. She could be.
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Never heard of that. I will look for it.
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I will try and bring up marriage counseling again. I'm not sure how much longer I can take this. Sometimes I think about our sex life I wonder if she really ever was happy with our sex life. I thought she was and seemed to enjoy as much as me but sometimes she would make comments like I could do things better. I know there is always room for improvement it was just the way she said it like she was almost trying to ruin my self esteem or something.
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I still love her and don't want to lose her. We both need to work on our communication issues but it is difficult getting started. I think she would be willing to go to marriage counseling if we could find a babysitter.