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Yeah I think I might wait a little longer. I don't want to scare her off because she's probably the best thing that's happened to me in a long time. We just get along so well. I'm a Gemini and she's a Virgo (for anyone who knows star signs) so we kinda compliment each other. We have so much in common and we can talk about anything. In fact, last night I stayed over at her place and I confessed to her that when I did oral on her that was the first time I'd ever done it *blushes* She said that I'm a natural *big smile* Anyways, anyone disagree with what everyone's said? I think I will wait but I like to see other peoples point of views. Confuzzed1

Hi there. I'm like really... and I mean REALLY... happy right now. My ex and I are no longer seeing each other as **** buddies and I'm with a new girl now. Our first date lasted 44 hours and 10 minutes... it was soooooo great. Anyways, we've been pretty much living in each others pockets these past couple of days and I've found that I really really like her... I actually think it might be love, but... is it too soon to say so? All comments are appreciated Confuzzed1

Wow, what a post. I'm glad I took the time to read it though. I would say that you're bisexual and in denial. It's not a bad thing, no matter what your religeon says. Children do tend to experiment with each other in gay and straight ways which they can grow out of, but you haven't grown out of it so I'd say that this is you. Maybe you should talk about it with your girlfriend. You sound like you really love her and if you're already starting some sort of a sexual relationship then she needs to know. good luck

I just recently got my belly button pierced and yeah, it does hurt a little. Not as much as you expect though. You don't have to suck it up and take it like a man (sorry about the cliche). I was so nervous going to get mine done and I almost backed out, but it was all cos I was afraid that it would hurt too much. Just don't concentrate on the spot you're getting it done and it won't hurt much more than a beesting or something. Just be careful that it doesn't get infected. It can cause so many problems if it gets infected. Your tongue on the other hand I have no idea about. I don't think it will cause problems if you get it done in the same place, but you might want to talk to the piercer about that. good luck

Hey, these things happen. I understand how you're feeling. I was a cutter once too, so I know how difficult it is to try and stop. Just the fact that you tried is a huge effort. It doesn't matter that you went back. Stopping takes time. If you ever need to talk about anything at all, just PM me.

I've been with my boyfriend now for a little over a year now and we've been -partially- sexually active for 3 months. I'm not exactly religeous but I don't believe in sex before marriage. So we've only been doing small things, like mutual masturbation. The only thing is, I can get him to orgasm no problem, he can't get me to orgasm. The whole time we've been doing things like this I haven't orgasmed with him once. I can orgasm just fine on my own, but not with him. Is there something wrong with me? He also gets tired very soon. He won't do oral on me and while his hand is... down there... it only takes like 5 minutes before he's saying "hurry up", but not that harshly I have to add. I really love him but I want to get some pleasure too. I've had to fake orgasms every single time we've been together in that way and I'm tired of faking it. Is there anything I can do to make the orgasm happen? Is there something I should be telling him to do? All comments are appreciated