Hi Raven,
As most would sit here andd judge you, im not going to do that and if i sound like i am please forgive me. Everyone screws up,Makes mistakes but have you ever heard a mistake is only bad if you didnt learn from it. Now this is a very difficult problem. First I have to say that having an affair is wrong! When making you wedding vows you dedicated you life to your husband. Now that that was astablished, what i think you should do is try and save you marrige. It can be done if you want it to. I know you dont wanna hear this, but you have to put distance between you and the guy your sleeping with. You need to get couseling and fix the marrige. If all fails then divorce is an option, but i dont believe in it. You married him you stay with him. But if you do decide that then its better than staying together and being unfair and cheating. As i said before i am not trying to be judgemental, just trying to help. I would love to talk with you and if tahts something you would wanna do email me at email removed
Remember, you made a vow, KEPP IT
Best of luck
God Bless you and your marrige
Calibabe007