the_bomb

dude, you're in a relationship with this girl. sex isn't supposed to be the one and only thing! ive been in a similar sitation, so i symathize. as for your questions: 1) i don't think that's too quickly at all, but it could be she wants more. 2) sex in a relationship is way more satisfying for me, but o.n.s things are more exciting and usually better from a phyical point of view. 3) yes, it could be a way of control or take down your self esteem. or she could be remembering incorrectly (which happens often) 4) The longest I had sex (just intercourse) was literally for several hours. on the other hand, i had 5-10 minute sex with my ex-g/f on a pretty regular basis and it was better than the long sessions by far because we loved each other a lot. All in all, I think this girl has some problems that she should talk to someone about, and the problem is not you at all

What is not being addressed is WHY? If you are a woman and want a certain size, what are your reasons. If you are a man, why do you want to know? My guess is that men with medium or small penises worry that they will not satisfy their partners. So ... here is a question whose answers will probably settle once and for all that size doesn't matter much. Ladies. How big was the best lover you ever had?

When I was working on my thesis, my mind was so caught up in the daily grind and I was under so much stress that I didn't get sexaully excited very often. My girlfriend, however, wanted sex at the same frequency as before which put me even more pressure on me. It was clear than I wasn't satisfying here (we used to have sex at least every day and then it went to twice a week), but I just wasn't into it. Not my fault. Plus the situation was temporary ie one semester. I didn't have doubts as to if she was cheating or not, but I was damn jealous that she was having fun and I wasn't, and it was clear she wasn't sexually satisfied which made me sad/upset/insecure. My suggestion is not to ask much of him during this hard time and things will return back to normal.

The main thing is to get past the "hurdle". It's kind of like running a marathon, once you get into the zone it's really easy to keep going. The idea is to experiment and try new tings to get into that zone. The more times he stops himself from having an orgasm bfore he acually does, the longer he will learn to last without having to stop. I would try mixing it up - different positions, oral in the middle of it, etc ... BTW, what is "too quickly" for you? There is a misconception that penetration should last 1-2 hours. While this may happen once in a while, I wouldn't say this is a normal every day experience.

on a regular basis I would say this is probably not accurate (you need to eat, sleep, and work too but on occasion I have personally went this long. mostly because I wasn't that excited about being with the person and didn't feel a connection, or I was really drunk. either way, it really wasn't as exciting as some of the much shorter sessions that were much more passionate, so I don't know if it's something to brag about ?!?!?

I don't now whether or not to consider you a lucky man, Morky. It is a great feeling to have that warmth and suction through orgasm, but most guys never get to cum on a woman's face I've done this to almost every girl I've dated and they never seemed to mind. some really loved it and always asked for it. you teeling me most girls don't do/like this ?

she's had over a dozen other partners before me. she's had an orgasm with 2, one of which was a one nighter. i've have asked her what does it for her but she doesn't really know. she never had an orgasm with her bf of 2 years who was apparently very large. i didn't ask the details as to how long it took with the others.

for two weeks, and twice a day. so not very long, but long enough to want to see if there's something i can do about it. i've tried almost every position under the sun, switching every 5 minutes. she does not like being on top.

I've been seeing someone for two weeks now and still nothing. People here seem to feel taht 20 minutes should do it. We go at it for at least an hour but eventually either I get tired or bored, and it's not clear that it'll happen even if I keep going. Apparently she's had an orgasm only a few times before. Has anyone out there been through this and if so what helped you become orgasmic? Did the amount of time needed decrease as you got older? Most of the women I've been with have been very orgasmic so this was never an issue, and I'm afraid of asking too many questions since it seems like a sensitive subject for her.

I have a question for the ladies. How long does it take for you to have an orgasm: 1) From masturbation 2) From sex 3) From oral sex And does size matter on the time it takes during sex

Thanks for the advice all. I think I see things clearer now. (1) It's not fair for me to keep prentending things are alright when they are not. I must say that she's tried (in her own way) to make things right by saying negative things about exes, but this only makes matters worse because she comes off as a b*tch and I have to think about her with other guys just the same. (On I side note, she knows how many people I have slept with, but I told her nothing about the details - age, names, skill, circumstances etc) (2) Even if I could get past this, there is still the issue of infidelity. The only person she's been faithful to is a colleague she dated for 2 months that is in the same department as us, but she mentioned once that if I had made a move on her during this time she would have slept with me. This is starting to cause insecurities and on a whole I don't feel very good being with her. So ... I'll think about this a few more days, but it seems like my mind is starting to be made up.

out of curiosity, what would be small or large to you women, and what would be some lower and upper cut-off points for which size matters. thinking back to the best sex you ever had, what were the sizes.

I need advice. I have been in a relationship with a girl for 5 months now. She is 22/23. We were friends for 6 months before one day we ended up sleeping together. I think we liked each other for a good chunk of the time during which we were friends, but complications arose that didn't allow for us to get together. My problem is this: From the morning after we slept together for the first time, she blurted out a lot of her sexual past, including infidelities with exes, sleeping with 7 people by 19 (not including several hook-ups that only ended in oral sex or handjobs), sleeping with 2 different people in 24 hours, sleeping with her ex boyfriends best friend about one month after they broke up (she was 17 at the time), details about the size of her ex partners, and how she periodically would have sex with a particular ex after every failed relationship/encounter. She seems proud of these experiences, and told me every salascious detail. After a month of hearing this, and how good others were in bed, I decided to call it quits. I explained to her her lack of ability to be faithful in past relationships and her colorful past made her seem like someone more interested in random sex than in a relationship. However, I was made to feel like I was overreacting and being "the jealous type" and I think I was conned into taking her back even though my heart isn't in it. Every time I sleep with her now I have visions of those other guys, and it's at the point where I don't enjoy my time with her and we fight a lot. My question is this: Does my reaction seem like overreaction? Is 7+ guys by 19 common? Should I be worried about her ability to be faithful? If I break up over this, could I be ruining a good thing because of things that shouldn't matter? Thanks for the help.