I recently had a discussion (which quickly turned into an argument) with my girlfriend of 9 months. She is 21 and has slept with 9 people, 6 of which were one night stands or friends with benefit situations. The discussion amounted to her saying I finish too quickly. Now, to define too quickly I would say that typically there is 15 minutes of foreplay and about 30 minutes of intercourse (although I have to stop every 5-6 minutes for about 5-10 seconds). To me, this isn't quickly. But she assured me that almost all of her other partners lasted at least 1 hour not including foreplay! When I told her that she probably wasn't remembering correctly or exaggerating, she told me that I wouldn't understand since I've never had a one night stand, and one night stand sex is way better So there you have it. My story. So I have 4 questions:
1) Is this truly "too soon" or is she just spoiled in bed
2) Is it true that sex with bf is more boring (if it's true then I want out!)
3) Is it possible she's lying and trying to capitalize on my lack of experience?
4) Ladies, what is the average time you have sex with your b/f, and the longest time you've ever had sex ever (not including foreplay)
Thanks for your input all !
J
