My divorce should be final in about 2 weeks or so - neither of us asked the courts to mail the decree - didn't want to know anymore. Been together for 7.5 yrs and got married. This past year was awful. found out I have some wacky crossed chemicals in my briain which did contribute to much of the chaos. I moved out in Sept and am miserable. We were still sleeping together up unitl about a month ago when he met someone. She is my physcial opposite and not his type at all! He shares his new happiness w/friends from every coast. He said we had been done for so long that now he is just regaining his life and just wants some happiness and just to laugh. She hates me by the way. He finally asked for the NC rule and I hate it. She is in my house, my bed, w/my dogs and accdg to him not nearly as pretty as I am. He told me it's not physical - she fills a friendship void - she is his best friend right now.
By the way, we were on and off for years and could never stay apart. I keep finding all of these wonderul notes and cards froma FEW months ago! Thoughts please! I hate NC and don't want him to forget me. I am doing better w/o him physically and mentally but not emotionally.
Thoughts??
thanks