tonkatruck

I'd like to go back in time and kick that guy in the shins. But, that's just my take. ~tonkatruck

I think he likey you. ~tonkatruck

as in.. she's using you. what you both want is not equal. She's using you as a buffer... when she feels strong enough, she's gone again. It doesn't sound like that's what you want. So... what do you do? I think boogie. Get out. I believe it's a very bad idea to go into relationships half -buttocks (dang... can't use the proper word). bail, leave. There is nothing better than absolute no contact. If she wants you back, she'll let you know (and don't think that's what she's going to do)... it's a bad thought, better think she is gone. do what's best for you. half a relationship working? Nope? bye-bye. It's posted a million times on these forums, but you have to do what is best for you. You gots to figures that out on yer own. good luck ~tonkatruck

... I have a different take on this one, she's giving you a clue that you two are "just buds" and that she doesn't want to lead you on... just as you suspect. time to bail. tonkatruck

this, to me is just sick.... insincerity... games... dang, I should have been born a robot, it would be so much more 'fun' it is sad how girls do go for bad guys. forget that they like certain qualities.... they seem to overlook that THEY ARE A BAD GUY... ...whatever... they do seem to figure it out by their 30s -tonkatruck

Totally on! No more cake. If the situation is not what you want, drop-kick her like a hot potato (sans sour cream). Exactly what dragongurl said, totally! -tonkatruck

You liked her and now she's blowing you off. That's all you need to know. Sucks but it's true. It's not cool of her to not talk to you. What should you do? Meet her, get a feel for her, you'll know in a couple of seconds, probably less. Heck, you already know. Say, so, like, uhm... what's the deal? You've not invested that much of yourself in her, so just be bummed a bit and move forward. It's all you can do. You can't make her like you.

Finch, chill the heck out. You weren't very explicit in your explanation the 1st time. I would just tell her the truth, (how you feel) and then take it from there. Let her know what's up with your thoughts. Tell her, not this forum, well, it's okay if you tell this forum as well. I agree with you, but I would tell her very clearly everything then set the rules. If you don't want her calling tell her to stop calling. I've never agreed with the philosophy of hanging out with your ex.