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I have been through the same thing. believe me, u will be just fine. I used to cry a lot and had the same problem but I diverted my attention to other things. At this point, dont be alone. Just hang out with friends even if u dont feel like. Go out whenever u get a chance. U will feel much better. Keep urself busy..thats the key.

Thanks for ur opinion russia. But I have never given him a sign that Iam starting to get frustrated with this kind of behaviour. I have never told him that I want to leave him though it has crossed my mind many times. I feel that I atleast want to be his friend. He still says "I love you" n all when he talks to me and i say it too. But Iam not sure if he means it. I hope ppl will keep posting your views on this topic.

Iam in a relationship with a guy for 4 years and we have been in and out of it very frequently and Iam starting to get frustrated. I always believed that he is my true love n soulmate but I guess he dint feel the same way. Recently we broke up and got back together again. The reason for our breakup has always been his reluctance to commitments. However when we got back together, he dint promise anything. I have asked him several times as to why he couldn't commit and he said that he doesnt think he truly loves me because he has hurt me many times and that he wouldnt do that if he loved me. Though it was shocking to know that after being with a man for 4 yrs I started to accept that and be just friends with him. But two days back he calls me and tells me that he has been missing me a lot and he feels that he started to feel true love for me n stuff like that. I was not really overwhelmed when he said that because he is not a person who is clear about what he wants. And I was right. The very next day he called me n spoke to me...he dint say anything contradictary to the previous day but I started to feel that he is really confused. He dint sound very excited like the previous day. When I asked him, he said he was not in a good mood. I really donno what I should do with this guy. He seems attracted to me but doesnt wanna commit. Sometimes he is very serious abt me and the next day he is like a stranger to me. Can somebody plz tell me what I should do ?....should I just be friends ?..Is it worth a try ?...do I give this guy a chance ?

hi Iam a 22 year old girl looking desperately for a job. The problem is I cant overcome my fear when I go for an interview. I almost feel like going back home at that point of time. However I manage to stay n stammer at the interview. I fear of being blank out at an interview and it really worries me a lot. Also I need somebody to guide me as to how I can tackle personal rounds....like 'Tell me about Yourself'..if somebody can give me some samples it would be great. I appreciate that. Even if u can refer some websites which would actually show some sample answers , it would be fine. I think I need to be sure of what I want to say before I go for an interview. Iam into software and want to be a developer. Any help is appreciated.

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hey i personally dont feel you should start looking at other gals to get this girl to love you. Just give her some space n time. Dont express all your feelings to her for a while. Talk to her as a friend. Get to know each other and then make a move from there. And also I think she might have been scared off by your fast moves. Take it slow..thats my advice.

well thats the problem even iam facing. I donno y there are not enough tips on gaining weight. Rather every website tells about losing weight. Is gaining weight that easy ?...ppl who are thin know how difficult it is. Weight lifting might be a good idea for boys though i cant try it being a gal. I ate an egg everyday with a protein drink every night to put on 2 kgs in 3 months. Is that a bad statistic ?.....if anybody knows an easier n faster way plz let us know .

oh god Iam in the same situation too. Dont know how many guyz have been doing this. I understand how much it would have hurt you. As far as i know , you should just try to disappear from his life for a while. He will come back automatically. I guess I have tried enough to make him happy when he is around. But he always turned his back on me when it comes to our relationship. Just leave this guy alone for a while. He will be fine.

Hello everybody, Iam madly in love for four yrs with a guy. Ours is a long distance relationship but that was not a problem for either of us. Being apart is a pain but thats not the problem right now. We have met around 8 times in 4 years. He initially loved me the same way as i did (for almost 3 yrs). He promised to marry me. We had an intimate relationship. But now he is changed. He just hates it whenever i discuss abt marriage. He said that he cant marry me. I have asked him the reason a million times. Each time he gave a different answer. Once he told me that he doesnt truly love me and thats y he cant marry me. Another day he says his mother wouldnt like it. Next he says that i wudnt be happy with him even if he married me. Iam totally confused with this guy. But even though he has hurt me, I really love him so much n i dont want to lose him. I dont think I can fall in love again. I can say one thing for sure....he is defenitely attracted to me sexually. Also there is no other gal in his life. How do i make him understand that i want him for more than sex. He doesnt believe in anything that much. How do i win his love all over again ?...Iam still talking to him bcoz i feel very lonely without him. To add, he had a reltnship in the past and he broke up with her after oral sex. He said he left her coz she did a mess and made it a big issue. Iam really afraid if things wont work out like his past relationship. I never did a mess of anything though. Kindly help me out.