I need help

I have been with this girl for 3 years, we have a child together, but I’m no longer in love, I’m hurting myself, her, and it’s just draining me..... I want out, but what should I do? Obviously we are both gonna stay in our child’s life

Have you discussed your feelings with your partner? Is she aware of any of this? How long have you been feeling this way? And why the change of heart?

Have you met someone new?

How old is your child?

Talk to her, try councilling but if it can't be sorted then splitting up is best for the child and also it's not fair to stay with her when you no longer love her. Good luck

I have been with this girl for 3 years, we have a child together, but I’m no longer in love, I’m hurting myself, her, and it’s just draining me..... I want out, but what should I do? Obviously we are both gonna stay in our child’s life

You can both stay in your kids life no matter. Talk, give ur truth, u owe that that u!

U also owe that to ur partner,

If u need to split, b honest, ur honesty!

Do it with compassion, just talk, communicate

I think no matter what the other responds/reacts u have no control over that,

If it can be salvaged, Ull find a path,.. but being true to yourself and how u do it is key.

All the best

"In love" is relative, relative over time and space and relative from couple to couple. I'd encourage couple's counselling and going over together what's "draining" you. Maybe go over also what's causing this fight/flight response and triggering you to leave.

A lot of issues inside us will repeat itself if we don't resolve them. You may walk away from this relationship only to discover it recurring again in your next relationship. You should uncover what's really bothering you and triggering your responses/reactions.

Did you meet someone else? Move out, pay child support and set up a custody/visitation schedule.

I’m no longer in love, I’m hurting myself, her, and it’s just draining me..... I want out, but what should I do? Obviously we are both gonna stay in our child’s life