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Well actualy he didnt dump me, I dumped him becuase i knew if i didnt dump him he'd dump me eventualy cos he was bored. So yea. Its been almost 6 months, i feel like s*** still, whats worst i just woke up from a terrible dream where he wanted me back. : ( now iwoke up really upset

I guess, but why on earth would he get bored of me? I'm very pretty and appealing.. He's nerdy/ ugly.. and should be happy he ever had me. wIll he ever regret what he did? I sure hope so.

That would be me. I think about sex 24/7 even more than my boyfriend ( He feels intimidated)

It's been four months since my ex got bored and we broke up. I didnt seem to care much about it then, but for the past few months I've Felt as if something was missing. Every guy i wen tout with after, it just wasnt the same. I feel as if he's a fragment of my imagination, I try to forget about it all, those 6 months we where together, but every night I have a dream that reminds me of all this. Its usualy a dream where Im talking to him and he's pushing me away. Why do I feel like this? And when i wake up I feel like crap for the whole morning. This shouldnt be hapenning to me in the first palce, im a very good looking girl, and this guy is not that Great looking, he's not that bright either. Before me and him went out we where the bestest friends, we did everything together, we cuddeled up 24/7, We shared everything.. then we fell in love so we went out , and everything shattered apart. I lost half a year of my life, getting bad grades, Getting upset frequently, mood swings, everything.. But why does it still upset me, And ive been doing the no contact rule for the past 4 months, its just that if i do be friends with him I'll end up hurt. Well Anyone have any suggestions or can at least understand me?

It's been four months since my ex got bored and we broke up. I didnt seem to care much about it then, but for the past few months I've Felt as if something was missing. Every guy i wen tout with after, it just wasnt the same. I feel as if he's a fragment of my imagination, I try to forget about it all, those 6 months we where together, but every night I have a dream that reminds me of all this. Its usualy a dream where Im talking to him and he's pushing me away. Why do I feel like this? And when i wake up I feel like crap for the whole morning. This shouldnt be hapenning to me in the first palce, im a very good looking girl, and this guy is not that Great looking, he's not that bright either. Before me and him went out we where the bestest friends, we did everything together, we cuddeled up 24/7, We shared everything.. then we fell in love so we went out , and everything shattered apart. I lost half a year of my life, getting bad grades, Getting upset frequently, mood swings, everything.. But why does it still upset me, And ive been doing the no contact rule for the past 4 months, its just that if i do be friends with him I'll end up hurt. Well Anyone have any suggestions or can at least understand me?

not to mention last time there was a threaght of commiting suicide.

I'm beginning to think my dad is crazy. Even though he haas only got mad three times, he has lost in completely all three. Smashing my stuff on the ground, threaghtening me , Calling me names, and most of the time I feel abused and shizzeled afterwards. Is this normal behavior for a father? I'm having doubts that he is at all normal, his whole family background is crazy, grandma is a real loon, so is grandpa, and his sister comited suiside and even her son is even more crazy So could he be loony as well? He clearly cannot control his actions. I know I can stand up for myself, and tell him off, but out of respect I keep my mouth shut.

Hello help me people

Well lets put it this way if he raelly ment all that he said about you then great. I say Keep a STRONG friendship with him, and maybe after you two are VERY furmiliar and comfortable and the jolliest friends ever things may turn in a different direction. First be friends, tahts the first step to anything, you don't want to be dating a total stranger, do you? after you be good friends, then go to the next step. but first, focus , one step at a time. And usualy there are many steps. It takes more than one to walk up the stairs. Hope this advice is helpful

Well what happened to you and her? Most of the time these problems can be fixed.

well today he saw me and told me he isnt bored of me anymore when i asked. and we made out the whole day and held hands. Is he jsut doing this to not make me upset? is he stil lbored but doesnt wanna tell me till 3 weeks later? Confused!

How long have both of you been together? I think if he loved me to start off with, love doesn't just die that easily. The love is probably still there, but like the other dude said theres probably an invisable wall blocking it for him, And I guess I have to figuire out how to open the door. Anyone have any suggestions?

hey vital coach, that was very interesting. Please add me on msn email removed. or yahoo email removed Talking to you may just save the relationship as for the rest of u any ideas /advice?

Btw we talked on the phone yesterday, I told him it went away for me by just seeing each other regulary and sooner or later it goes away (for me it took 3 weeks) But I don't think if i havent saw him again i wouldnt realize how much i loved him still. So he said he;'ll try my method, we will see each other regulary starting today, and pertend nothing has gone wrong. It hurts me so much, I feel like I'm going to go crazy, being with him today pertending he still feels the same. but then again, we havent seen each other for a week (p.s this started on sat for him) Do u th ink theres a chance I can open his heart again and make him realise? Do u think seing each other regularly and pertending nothing happened is going to help him? I feel like my life doesn't make sense anymore. He also told me maybe i should go out with other guys because he wasn't ready, but then when i called hgim and asked him why he said that He said it was becuase im always upset about something, and he just wants whats best for me, but i told hi m i just want him, so yeah we negociated this. Is this going to help him at least? And is this just a phase he's going threw? I mean will it go as fast as it came?

I'm having big problems now, My bf of 6 months said he started feeling bored of me, and feel like we have nothing in common, and doesnt wanna spend time iwth me until those feelings go away. Is this just a phase? I remember not too long before I felt like I was bored of him and needed a vacation, I felt like I couldn't stand him anymore and I wanted out. But a few weeks later the feeling went away. How do I help make this feeling go away for him? Is it just a phase? Is this normal in relationships? I'm just so upset, ive been crying for the past 2 days non stop, the thought that a few weeks will pass and he still feels this way the realtionship will be over says him. Basically we r giving i t a few weeks. Don't know what to do. I love him so much, never felt this way about anyone. But then if It passed for me, wont it pass for him?