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  1. im not here to show my picture....ill just take it off if people are going to complain! jeesh
  2. Yes I see people checking me out, but I have found all they want is a "piece of a s s" especially at my age! And I dont have a car, and the nearest "Coffee shop" is like 45 minutes away in a city. I live in a small town surrounded by small towns/small cities. SO yeah I'm SOL I guess (poop out of luck, haha) And usually when guys ask for my number and they call me, everytime they just want sex, nothing else. That's why Im asking for advice because I have had bad experiences with this kind of stuff already. Im sick of dating people who dont care what I have to say and I want someone who is into helping animals as I am. They should make a dating site for animal lovers or something, haha.
  3. Nobody has really answer my question about how to approach strange guys that I think are attractive and how do i find out if their single or taken, interested in me or not, what kind of relationship their looking for because im not looking to just "hook up", etc.?
  4. Well my inverted nipples dont come out at all but they are probably more sensitive then normal nippled people.
  5. What are your future career plans? What are your life goals? I would focus on those future plans and goals or at least focus on working your way up towards those goals. Focus on the next step you need to take, whether it be 1 week down the road or 1 month or 1 year down the road! Focus on working towards completing that next step, and so forth. I have been through depression and I just got out of a long abusive relationship. I have NO friends and finally acquired a job after being jobless since Christmas, thereforeeee having nothing to think about except my abusive ex and feeling sorry for myself. All I did was exercise a lot, tried to keep my mind occupied as much as possible and focused on my life goals of one day opening up my own no kill animal sanctuary for horses, dogs and cats. Meanwhile, I have been active in animal advocacy and activism online by signing petitions, writing letters and passing the word on to others for these helpless animals! I check up on high kill animal shelters and try to spread the word for the animals who are on their last days before they are euthanized simply because there isn't enough room for them in the shelter. Anyways.....whatever you want to do for a career or whatever your life goals are....you can work towards them little by little right now in your everyday life! Good luck!
  6. I do have cellulite on my thighs but I used this Nivea cream which really helped in the appearance of the cellulite. As for the spider veins and stretch marks....Ill just have to wear clothes that cover up my thighs as much as possible I guess!
  7. So are you still smoking? How often/how much? Are you still drinking that same amount? I remember when I used to be able to stomach getting drunk weekly, every friday and saturday nights, the rest of the week I felt like crap (I overdid it all last summer and last fall, getting drunk every other day and now my stomach can barely handle getting drunk once a month).
  8. Oh yeah, I will look into board shorts...but won't I have to look in the men's section?????? because I haven't seen those in the women's section but haven't really looked either??
  9. I will never consider surgery for my inverted nipples. Although I did internet research it once, I was grossed out by the pictures and Im not one who would ever get plastic surgery or cosmetic surgery unless I got into a freak accident...so Im all set with that! I wouldn't be able to afford the laser for my spider veins...hello Im only 20!! Phoenix- Thats great you have a great boyfriend.....I have had some BF's who loved them and then had some that thought they were weird and barely touched them. Mine are extremely sensitive though! I think it's because they are inverted!? Thanks for the advice and the sharing, you made me feel not so alone!
  10. Good day everyone, I was born with inverted nipples. I was wondering how uncommon this is and what people think of them? I am embarrassed when the day will come when I have a boyfriend again and the first time he sees them. I have had mixed reactions with different people and if I really like him I don't want to scare him away or weird him out or anything negative! Another problem I have is that I have spider veins on my thighs and stretch marks on my inner thighs. Any suggestions on how to get rid of these or at least lessen their appearance since bikini season is almost here? I would feel kind of dumb wearing shorts swimming....but what else could I do to cover my thighs up when Im swimming? I do have a bikini top that I wear with no problem. Thank you for your advice on my inverted nipples and my thighs issues!!!
  11. Im ashamed to say this but I am glad to hear that 90% of women have it....where did that "fact" come from and what age group were they referring to? I am 20 and have cellulite as well. I was told it was from rapid weight gain and loss. I bought some cream to reduce the appearance of cellulite...but of course it is still there. I just started exercising recentely so hopefully it will get rid of some of it! I am terrified to get into a bikini My legs are really the most unattractive legs I have personally ever seen in someone my age I have spider veins, cellulite and their white as a ghost. Does anyone know anything to get rid of spider veins??? I was told I got those from rapid weight gain and loss also. Thanks!
  12. It's alcohol most likely and not pot. All the people I know who smoke are upbeat, fun to be around people that use to to calm down and relax. I suppose if you smoke once every single day or more then once a day, then it could be bringing you down. But if you smoke a few times a week or less, than it shouldn't be anything to worry about. It also depends on how often your drinking and how much alcohol your drinking. Could you answer those questions and maybe I could help you more?
  13. Who is Miss M budman? Does anyone know if there Is any websites that have advice for shyness?
  14. Well we're done for good now. I think I deserve better than to be ignored for sluts walking down the street...to say the least. thanks everybody!
  15. I feel the same way about someone I broke up with on February 22nd, 2006....like all the sad love songs I hear I think of him. I've even dated two people after him. I thought I was over him but he IM'ed me a couple weeks ago and I went and "talked" to him, and all those feelings came rushing back when I was in his arms again. I miss him so much but I know we can never be together again because I did something very bad to him, I cheated on him (long story but I thought we had broken up when I "cheated" on him) and now all his friends and family hate me. And needless to say he has no trust or respect for me at all now. But he told me he missed me so much that night a couple of weeks ago, and we made love and I try not to think of him so much but he always crosses my mind because I think he was my first true love. "Love is the best feeling in the world unless the one you love doesn't love you back, then it's the worst feeling in the world."
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