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Wiseman2

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  1. Sorry this is happening. How long have you been dating? How old is he? How is your relationship otherwise. It's good you're getting help with your mental health, however you may be in the wrong relationship if it makes your mental health worse.
  2. Try not to expect so much accommodations from your friends and try to respect their lives instead of expecting special treatment. Especially try to understand that they have their own lives and you've grown apart, so staying stuck in the past while they evolved is your issue not theirs. Perhaps a referral to a physician for the severe anxiety and other issues would help with more complete treatment because talk therapy alone doesn't seem to alleviate your discomfort.
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  4. Sorry this is happening. Do you live together? How old is he? If he's on dating apps it sounds like he's cheating. Either way talking at him hasn't helped. Porn is the least of your problems if he's checked out and on dating apps. He's interested in sex, but with others. Please get tested for STDs. Why tolerate his dating apps?
  5. Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately running from something instead of to something can lead to disappointment when you get there. Perhaps figure out the job, housing, family and BF situation to decide where you would rather be?
  6. Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately this nebulous exclusive but dating others arrangement is a recipe for headaches, headaches and confusion. For example now you're both busy with "friends" and the interest level is tapering off. Either she found someone else and is giving up on this bizarre arrangement or she is simply checking out altogether. If you want to continue to date try to clarify what's going on and suggest actual exclusive dating or just set each other free.
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  8. Great you're going on a date. She's in the kid in a candy store phase of divorce. Avoid anyone not yet finished with their old business. They're just looking for attention and validation at your expense.
  9. Were Old Men Any Nicer? ๐Ÿง“ PRONE ๐Ÿ›๏ธ
  10. Try to believe her that she's stressed and busy with her school. You didn't mess up. Just stay on the radar and offer to visit, see each other, take her out whatever, but don't suffocate or second guess.
  11. That's the best approach. Document everything, put things in writing and try to keep it uncomplicated and make a clean break. Yeah court is ridiculous and drags things out.
  12. Avoid him. Please get involved in appropriate campus social activities to make friends and meet others. You can try getting a good profile and pics on some dating apps. Please see if there is counselling available on campus or privately for your poor self esteem and overly superficial evaluations.
  13. Sorry this happened. At least she was upfront. If she's in the throes of divorce,it seems more like you dodged a bullet. Please don't be her shoulder to cry on. Let her pay her therapist and attorney for that.
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