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Wiseman2

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  1. Wiseman2's post in Is she playing mind games ? was marked as the answer   
    Exactly. Take this time apart to work on your own health and well-being. Stepping away from each other is the best thing both of you can do.
    Make an appointment with your doctor. Get an evaluation of your physical and mental health. Get some tests done. Ask for a referral to a qualified therapist for ongoing support. 
    Improve your lifestyle. Quit any bad habits or self medicating. Get in shape. Eat better. Focus on adjusting better to being a single dad. Don't drag women over to babysit your kids.
    It's not about continuing to make her out as an evil witch, (which is why she left) it's about things which you do have control over such as yourself your health and how you manage your visitation and custody issues.
  2. Wiseman2's post in My guy friend is kinda pushing the boundaries of just being friends. was marked as the answer   
    Yes he may be sensitive but he's still a teen male with raging hormones so letting him cuddle is wrong and saying ILY is misleading. Actions speak louder than words. Do not hang out alone or allow physical contact. Keep in mind he may be getting erections while cuddling, so you need to end that.
  3. Wiseman2's post in Dating the Separated Man was marked as the answer   
    Sorry this is happening. Do not move in with anyone who is financially and legally bound to someone else. Do they live together?
  4. Wiseman2's post in Friend read my texts on phone was marked as the answer   
    Go through your phone's settings. Make sure it automatically locks after a given time of inactivity. Don't leave your phone unattended, even though you thought it would be safe in the car.
    Always have password protected devices and set them to lock automatically appropriately. It amazes me that people don't do this. It's like having your date of birth, social security number and bank account passwords on a bummer sticker. Be more tech savvy.
    As for this "friend", nosy and no respect. She was lying because obviously she should be browsing through her own phone, not yours
  5. Wiseman2's post in she asked for some time and space as she is unable to find happiness in anything was marked as the answer   
    Sorry this is happening. How old is she? Do you live together?
    What is the real reason you two are not getting along? What is the real reason she wants space?
    Do you both work? Go to school? 
    It sounds like you are smothering her because of your clinging and anxiety.
    Try not to be selfish or needy. Step back and give her the space she wants.
  6. Wiseman2's post in Break or break up was marked as the answer   
    Sorry this happened. Why was it a distance situation? How did you meet?
    You need to end it. It's abusive and violent. 
    No matter what, you can't get drunk and vandalize anyone's home. You're lucky you're not in jail. Get a handle on the drinking and temper.
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