I MET MY HUSBAND DEC 01 IN KOREA. WE ONLY SPENT 1 MONTH TOGETHER AND THEN HE HAD TO MOVE TO HAWAII (THOSE IN THE MILITARY KNOW EXACTLY WHAT IM SAYING!) HE PROPOSED TO ME B4 HE LEFT. WE WERE AND ARE SO IN LOVE. I REALLY JUST KNEW HE WAS IT! IT WAS AMAZING. I VISITED HIM IN JUNE AND WE GOT MARRIED. I HAD TO GO BACK TO KOREA IN JULY AND NOW ITS FEBRUARY.........DAMN 14 MONTHS APPART. IM HERE TILL THE END OF JUNE.........DYING TO GET OUT OF THE MILITARY. WE TALK EVERYDAY WITH A WEB CAM. ITS JUST SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND HIM SOMETIMES. HE DOESNT GIVE ANTHING TO THE CONVERSATIONS I START BESIDSES OHH AND YEAH.........THATS NOT ENUF! HIS LIFE IS CARS, FISHING AND HUNTING AND ME. ( LIKE WHEN I READ HIM THE POETRY I OR WHEN I GET UPSET HE DOESNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY)ITS LIKE HE NEVER KNOWS WHAT TO SAY. HE LACK OF UNDERSTANDING ANYTHING EMOTIONAL IS MAKING IT THAT MUCH HARDER. HE IS FROM ALABAMA.......SO ITS WORSE, HE IS A TOUGH DUDE. I AM A DEEP PERSON AND HE JUST DOESNT GET ME.......I DONT KNOW HOW TO MAKE HIM GET ME!! ITS SO F'ING DEPRESSING. IM SO SICK OF BEING APPART. AND I HATE THAT I CANT UNDERSTAND THIS GREAT GUY OF MINE. I WISH THERE WAS AN ANSWER TO THIS.