smiley_turtle

hey, he ended up calling me and he did have a good reason. I freaked out for no reason. He just found out that his friend was found dead. I guess the reason I wanted to "confront" him is because i am leaving tommarow (i live in another city now, and with our work schedules i only usually see him when i come home to my parents, and i won't be home for 2 more weeks) We're not dating...cuz nothings official. When i met him he was with another girl, we started sleeping together, he dumped the girl cuz i didn't like the fact of him cheating on her with me so it was a she goes or I go thing, and she went. Theres quite a bit of an age gap between us so I think thats the reason nothing is official. but im just happy having him in my vcompany, i'd like someth ing to be official, but i need to figure out my life first. I do love him to death though

I just need to vent here, becaue i am feeling really hurt right now, and don't know what to do I was at this guys house last night, (we aren't dating, but i guess u could say weve been seeing each other for almost a year now) anyways i was up there last night and whatever then he asked what i was doing tommarow afternoon. I said nothing so he said he'd call around 1, and we'd go for a drive, go grab a bite to eat whatever. Anywyas today rolls around, and i wait and i wait and i wait, and he never calls. About 4 o'clock i call him. I woke him up (he works weekends at the bar till 3-4am) so i forgave him whatever, i figured he didn't do it on purpose. So then he said he had to take his truck (hes a truck driver through the week) to get the oil changed and to call him back around 6. I said ok. It's not 7:45 and ive been calling his house and his cell since 6 and i can't get ahold of him. I just feel like ive been stood up. TWICE. but i do have REALLY strong feelings for this guy....i love him and he knows it, he even said last nite that he loved me. but after today i feel used. What do i do. Im thinking about beeing at the bar b4 he goes to work tonight to meet him there and to talk to him b4 he goes to work. I need ur opinions. What do i do?

ya, it could be any of those things that you people mentioned....i really don't think im preg. though. i have had sex, but we use condoms everytime, so..... i was under quite a bit of stress bout a week before my period was due, so that could be it, im still not stress free, but alot better.....and bout a month and 1/2 ago i mioved to start skool, so im living with my roomate (female) plus i have new friends...i never heard of synconizing periods, but it could be that too

I missed my period, i should have started last week, its always on time, i took a pregnancy test and im not pregnant, so whats going on???

Ok, i wanna know if there are any other solutions besides telling him to hit the road. Ok, i'm in a FWB relationship with this guy. We use to live in the same town and all but then I moved away to go to college, I only live bout 40 minutes to an hour away, I've been here for 6 weeks and he hasn't been up here once. Every time I'm home, no matter how busy I am, no matter how many people I have to see, or places I have to go, or how long I'm home (like one night) I always, always make time to see him. It's crazy how many times i've lied to my parents, my friends, everyone, just so that I could come him, because I love him and miss him. Wed. when I was home, he told me he was going to try and get Friday night off work, and come up and spend the night with me. Obviously he didn't get the night off work (he told me tonight, Monday) but he never called, email or message me to let me know he wasn't coming. On top of that he didn't message me all weekend to let me know anything. I found out last night that he had lied to me, he had told me that he didn't have msn messenger, because it messed up his computer, yet while just looking at profiles of people who live in my town, I ran accrossed his profile. I figured it was old and all, but when I took a closer look, i noticed at the bottom that he had last updated it at the nd of Oct. so he had been lying to me since Sept. (for like 2 months now). Tonight he comes online hes like im sorry i know your mad, i don't blame you, I'm like ya i'm mad, then he goes off line before we can talk anymore, before we can try and fix the problem, before anything. I'm mad, but I'm not mad in the way like when you want to punch someone out I'm mad in the sense that I just want to just curl up and cry.....I'm mad, but I'm hurt too, if you know what I mean. I love him so much though, and I really miss him, that I just don't know what to do!?!?!

thats an awsome poem....I'ts right...it's a waste of time trying to be someone your not, and your friends will probably love you more for being YOU, than for bring someone you aren't

this is what i like in a guy (im not that picky..lol) A. the color of his eyes doesn't matter to me B. hair color doesn't matter either, but i like it cut short i don't care for the shaggy look C.I prefer a guy who is taller than me (i'm 5'11) D. I like guys who are muscular but not that professional body builder thing going on E. I don't care bout his commplexion F. (to add my own) I also like a guy who has a goatee trimmed up good or that is cleanly shaven

In my opinion, it depends alot on the maturity level of the two people. Yes a 23 year old can see something in a 16 year old, in alot of cases, the guy just wants to get some from a young chick, but there are more cases (they are becoming more popular too) where the 2 people actually have things in common and are interested in each other. 7 years or 17 years it doesn't really matter.

Congats!!!!!

im not going to ask him out...there are a few little issues between us..that im not going to get into in this post (read my other posts), but we've talked and were not going to date yet....could be a possiblty within a year. but i just wanna know, how can i tell if these felings really are love or not

Ya, he's an awsome guy, he makes mefeel really special, and makes me feel good about myself too. he's the first guy i've ever met like this. and not just that but hes kind, caring, has sense of humor. i'm really confused about this though, because i've only known the guy for about 2 1/2 months. Is it possible to fall in love that quickly?

I agree wit Mar....clean, trimmed goatee can not be beat....but it does depend on the guy and their features

how can i tell if my feeligns for a guy are really love or if it's just infatuation!?!?!!?!?!? Please any comments...anyone!!!!!!!!!

18 and 37...we're not dating...but it could become a possiblity as soon as i turn 19

Can Age-gap relationships really work??? has anyone been in an Age gap relationship??? what were your age difference??