Living Fearlessly: Taking Control of Your Life

Many of us go through life with a fear that holds us back from attaining our goals and passions, or maybe from even pursuing them altogether. We make excuses, build walls, and drift away from the thought that life can be better if we just step out of our comfort zone. We feel stuck and it’s hard to ground ourselves in order to stand firm on the things that we believe in.

Most of us have a fear of failure and view things from such a narrow perspective, that we become overwhelmed and defeated before we even get started. It's human instinct to want to protect ourselves and sidestep any potential obstacles. That’s why it’s important to realize that it all starts with our own mindset. We cannot move forward until we acknowledge that most people stand in our way--we are the ones who refuse to set boundaries and don't believe in our ability to succeed.

Everyone has a story—a story of strength, symbolism, hope, and possibility. How often do we just allow a moment to pass us by because of doubt and insecurities? We need to begin asking ourselves bigger questions, digging deeper into our process and motivations, to fully comprehend our approach and how we can take control of our lives. In doing so, we can start to create meaningful changes that bring about harmony and clarity in our lives.

We should replace waiting for the right opportunity to come knocking at our doorstep, with taking risks and creating moments to seize those opportunities. There are things we cannot prepare for, obstacles that may come up unexpectedly, but that doesn’t mean we can’t push forward. We must challenge ourselves to look beyond what’s expected and see possibilities that otherwise wouldn’t exist.

Let’s start by committing to ourselves and having faith, then replacing negative thoughts with positive ones. It’s difficult to stay on path when faced with daunting circumstances, but if we focus on the goal, then we can get to a place where we understand ourselves more deeply. Being open to new experiences is vital, allowing us to develop skills and resources that enable us to stay the course.

Trust and be assured that there is hope and that you can be admired for your perseverance. Remember that everyone makes mistakes along the way and that what was meant to drag you down, can become a strength and a lesson learned. If we believe in ourselves, take responsibility for our actions and follow our instincts, then together we can start to create a life that is only limited by our imaginations.

Taking control of our lives begins with realizing that most people stand in our way. Learning to set appropriate boundaries, understanding our own limitations, and believing in our ability to try and fail without feeling like a failure is key. When we have reverence for ourselves, life is ours to shape and stretch. We have a choice to remain stuck or to become unstoppable in our lives. Keeping the fire burning within enables us to live fearlessly and create a life full of joy, purpose and endless possibilities.