JayRo Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 its is weird my bf deletes all text messages, except ones from me, his mother or his family members??? is he trying to hide something from me? or is that just him???? he always leaves his phone around me...hmmmm help-am i just overreacting? Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 How do you know he deletes his text messages? Link to comment
JayRo Posted September 25, 2009 Author Share Posted September 25, 2009 i see him read them, respond and then delete both.... Link to comment
JayRo Posted September 25, 2009 Author Share Posted September 25, 2009 i've been thru his phone b4, and he has a folder for all my messages and than saves his mothers, and other family members... Link to comment
Jd1983 Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 Maybe he doesn't think they're important so he deletes them. I know that once my mailbox for my texts are piling up, I delete everything as well. Link to comment
Dinka Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 I think that's sweet, that he keeps yours. Some people just delete their text messages to keep their lines of communication clear. I delete mine every day, and I don't even have the courtesy to save my boyfriends'. lol Has he ever given you any other verifiable reason to doubt him? If not, it's probably nothing. Link to comment
erase this face Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 If he's letting you sit there while he reads them, and you can see him respond and delete, he'd have to be pretty brave or stupid to just let you witness him taking part in inappropriate behavior. ...is that just him???? You're the one who's known him for at least 3 years. Link to comment
metrogirl Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 My boyfriend deletes all of his as well except the ones that I send, even if it's something like "i'm on my way"..... lame... LOL It doesn't bother me that he deletes his messages.... Afterall they are his messages.... Link to comment
hers Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 Why would automatically assume that he's hiding something that way? Link to comment
D_Lish Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 I would assume he didnt delete messages from you or his family, because he perhaps likes to keep messages from those closest to him. I keep messages, from those closest to me. I dont see how this points to him hiding something. Link to comment
BoddenProBowler06 Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 I ONLY keep messages from my girlfriend. I'm not hiding anything, it's just a habit, and I don't know why you'd assume your boyfriend is. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 As long as he's not deleting the messages from you, I would not be concerned. Link to comment
hers Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 As long as he's not deleting the messages from you, I would not be concerned. even if he were deleting messages from her, it's still no cause for concern. some people just don't like the clutter on their phone. I delete my texts/emails each day from my phone b/c I don't like my inbox being full and cluttered. Link to comment
cocopuff Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 i've been thru his phone b4, and he has a folder for all my messages and than saves his mothers, and other family members... That takes huge balls to go through someone else's phone messages, I don't care what kind of relationship you have with them. If he knows that you help yourself to his private messages, perhaps that might explain why he would delete any messages of significance. Perhaps he has been trying to send YOU a message, but from what I have been reading so far, it would appear that you are not picking up your messages! Link to comment
BriarRose Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 I delete all mine, too. Just a quirk, I guess. Link to comment
Lucius Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 Yep, I delete them all too. Just feels like the tidy thing to do. Link to comment
mira17 Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 Is there anything else that is making you suspicious???? One of my old boyfriends use to do this too (I thought he was cheating) When he would take a shower he would hide his phone or take it in the bathroom...Gee how convenient! Yes he was cheating on me. Of course if this is the only thing that is suspicious I would say no need to fret. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 even if he were deleting messages from her, it's still no cause for concern. some people just don't like the clutter on their phone. I delete my texts/emails each day from my phone b/c I don't like my inbox being full and cluttered. I don't have text messaging. However with emails I am a big deleter of emails. At work I try to keep as few emails as possible. I will print a hard copy to keep it on file but I hate clutter in email. Link to comment
bronte Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but when I was, I used to delete all texts except those from my boyfriend (or ones from friends/family with particular emotional significance). I liked being able to easily find sweet ones from him and, since my phone automatically deletes messages once I have a certain number of them, I was making sure I kept the sweet ones as long as possible. So, as other posters have said, I wouldn't worry unless you have other cause for suspicion. Link to comment
JayRo Posted September 25, 2009 Author Share Posted September 25, 2009 thanks guys, i'm being stupid Link to comment
JayRo Posted September 25, 2009 Author Share Posted September 25, 2009 no nothing else is suspicious Link to comment
JayRo Posted September 25, 2009 Author Share Posted September 25, 2009 mira17....what other type of things was your boyfriend doing that led you to think he was cheating? and how did you eventually find out? Link to comment
hers Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 what is he doing to make you want to investigate at all that he's cheating? Link to comment
JayRo Posted September 25, 2009 Author Share Posted September 25, 2009 nothing specific, i was just being curious... Link to comment
Sn0man Posted September 25, 2009 Share Posted September 25, 2009 its is weird my bf deletes all text messages, except ones from me, his mother or his family members??? is he trying to hide something from me? or is that just him???? he always leaves his phone around me...hmmmm help-am i just overreacting? How would you know that he only keeps messages from you or his family unless you were snooping through his phone? If I expected you to snoop i'd delete them too. Link to comment
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